Ex knows he can cause a panic attack....
... and he does it over and over and over. Had a panic attack last night thanks to him poking my buttons. It is so hard to deal with him. He is going to foreclose on the house he's been living in for almost 2 years rent free. And he's going to do it out of spite. He did mention having the loan put in his name only since he can afford the house... but now he's going to foreclose because he wants to make me panic over possible wage garnishment.
Trying to let it go and wash my hands of giving a damn.
@road2smiles, you're in such a difficult situation, I can understand, my heart reaches out to you. So sorry.
If you think you want to take legal action against him please approach an attorney, do not hesitate and get to know your options, there are always some.
But if you think it would be better to just start fresh, that road is always open and lovely to go down.
Don't you wish we could all erase people we do not get alongwith anymore from our mind? It's a difficult road ahead but someday you'll be completely free of the hold your Ex has on you and seeing him won't do anything.
Good luck, keep posting, get your emotions out as often as you can as that'll reduce the chances of an anxiety attack.
@DHawks thanks for your reply. He is now completely ignoring me .... meaning he's not paying back debts owed just to make me panic. I am keeping very busy trying to not stress and panic. I'm trying to remind myself the world is not going to end... the world is not going to end.
@road2smiles, you're on the right path. This world is what you make it, it's yours. Go ahead and fight the bad vibes, embrace the good and smile.
I know you've got the strength, I believe in you.
