Break up
On Sunday my boyfriend/best friend broke up with me. It was a long distance relationship and he said he couldnt handle the distance and lack of physical contact, he just wanted to hold me. I thought we were strong enough to make it through everything and I am in alot of pain. I miss him and just want to talk to him but I cant. We agreed to give eachother some space but I dont know how to deal with the pain and hurt that Im in from the break up...
@Leelee5530 *hugs if you are okay with it* Hi there, I am so sorry to hear about the break up. I can't imagine what you are going through, and I appreciate you opening up to us. How are you coping? If you need to talk to someone, the listeners are here for you. The pain will not go away instantly, but you do not have to struggle alone. Best wishes; we are here for you.
@lovelyWhisper66
I dont really know how to cope with the break up since this is my first one. Im just in a lot pain and am having mood swings. I dont like it.
@Leelee5530 I am going through the same thing right now as you are. Going through my first heart breake and first breakup. We were dating for 2.5 years and she said she can not be in a relationship because it was too much stress and it was taking a toll. I didn't understand what she meant at first but it has been a month and a half since than and i now know what she meant. we didnt give eachother the space we both needed. Anyways my point is focus on yourself. Set goals like daily goals and monthly goals. Do stuff that makes you happy or stuff that you always wanted to do. I know its hard I feel the same as you do right now but as time goes on it gets better.
@twstr8223
It is nice to know that someone is going through the same thing as I am right now. I
@Leelee5530 I am going to be honest with you. I am experiencing the same thing you are right now. I want to text her and fix things but it is so hard to let her go. I have days where I can let her go and move on but I also have days I do not want to let go. I am coping right now by doing stuff I was never able to do during the relationship. If you can go on a trip somehwere you always wanted to go. I have started to work out more, focus more on school, spend time with family and friends. Focus more on yourslef more than anything. Take one day at a time. That is what I am doing right now. Who knows maybe they will come back but do not overthink it! Focus on the present.