Am I overreacting
Feeling guilty for kicking him out yet again. My husband and I have been separated for 2 years due to his substance abuse and his lying. He said he's been getting his act together and things would change and he would come over to help me out with some things around the house. I asked him not to smoke in the house and when he came up stairs I smelled cigarettes. I asked him to promise not to smoke in the house so when I smelled cigarettes on him he said yes he have a cigarette and I said so you mean snuck uea cigarette. We went around and around in circles and I explained that he was showing me that not only could I not trust him but that he lied about it too so I kicked him out. But it's cold out and it's 11 degrees and I feel incredibly guilty and he's making me feel incredibly guilty for what he feels is an argument over just a cigarette. Am I being too harsh I thought I was being strong for putting my foot down and not tolerating even the slightest of lies anymore but it's cold and now I'm worried about him he does not drive or have a cell phone