Book Discussion of Defending Jacob by William Landay
Hi everyone! I'm writing to see if anyone would like to read and discuss the book Defending Jacob by William Landay. Thank you to adventurousBranch3786 for the suggestion!
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Thank you!
Date of post: August 20, 2023
Goal to begin book: around September 1, 2023
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Oh nooo I can’t do this one unfortunately! But I’ll save this so I can eventually ready it one day!
@glowingPond sounds good! Thank you 😊
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Can't do this one either I'm afraid, with vacation coming up and everything. But I'll keep my eyes open for the next one, thanks.
@OneErased sounds good! I hope you enjoy your vacation! Thank you 😊
@ReadBooks7. I’m looking forward to reading this book.
@adventurousBranch3786 I am, too! Thank you so much for suggesting it!
Hi everyone! Just checking in to see if anyone else might be interested in reading and discussing this book. Please feel free to join in at any time and to tag anyone who might be interested. I'm planning to start reading sometime within the next week. Happy reading!
Hi everyone! I'm likely going to start reading the book in the next day or two. I hope you all enjoy!
@ReadBooks7. I’ll be reading it also.
@adventurousBranch3786 I hope you enjoy! I read the first chapter on my lunch break, and I am already drawn in and really like it.
@MeaningfulSilence 😊
@ReadBooks7
Hi there ReadBooks7!
That sounds like a nice thing to do together! Hope more people will join to share about the book and that it'll be their next choice if they plan to read it!
I currently have two I am reading simultaneously but I will pop up on here to check about it!
Feel free to tag me again later on 💙
@MeaningfulSilence thank you! I am also reading a second book right now as well, but it is a nonfiction, so I go back and forth depending on what I am in the mood for. I cannot read two fiction at once--too confusing! I hope you enjoy what you are reading!
Our next choice for book discussion is Nineteen Minutes by Jodi Picoult, as suggested by adventurousBranch3786, so I will tag you in that one once we begin in a few/several weeks!
@ReadBooks7
Awesome 👏
Haha yes i understand about having two books going on at the same time 😊
Hi to everyone reading and/or participating! I am at Chapter 18 of the book so far, which I think is a little less than halfway through. The book is so good, I'm having trouble putting it down.
How do you like the book so far? Without any spoilers or giving anything away, what do you think of the writing?
@ReadBooks7. So far I like it. I’m very curious to know what happened!
@adventurousBranch3786 I really like it, too. I have had a little extra time these past few days, so I am reading more than usual, and it is hard to put down!
Hi everyone! I have finished the book. I just could not put it down and spent as much free time as possible finishing. There are discussion questions in the book, so when others are ready (no rush), I will start posting. I am really looking forward to discussing this one!
@ReadBooks7 I had checked it out a few weeks ago. I just finished it today. Omg 😮
@adventurousBranch3786 I had the same reaction!! There is going to be a lot to discuss with this one! I will start posting questions tomorrow or the next day as my schedule allows. Feel free to post any thoughts or questions; I am guessing we should use spoiler alerts as needed in case anyone else joins in. I think there might be a few people who are participating quietly.
@ReadBooks7, Hello, How would I join the group?
@intuitiveAvocado6068 hi!! Welcome! All you have to do is get the book and participate in the discussions here as much or as little as you like. Two of us just finished, but I do not think either of us would mind waiting a bit before talking about specific plot details. Or if we do, we will make sure to post spoiler alerts.
This is an excellent book, and I really hope you enjoy it! Please let me know if you have any other questions. I look forward to discussing the book with you!
Hi everyone! I am going to begin posting some book discussion questions that do not themselves contain plot spoilers. However, some of the answers could discuss plot points, so I ask that, in consideration of those who are still reading or have not started yet, anyone please post a spoiler alert at the beginning of their message here if it will contain any spoiler alerts. Thank you!
First discussion question from the topics in the back of the book:
"How would you have handled this situation if you were Andy? Would you have made the same choices he made? Where would you differ the most?"
@ReadBooks7.
@adventurousBranch3786 I know what you mean about it being hard to say for sure. I do not have kids, so I am not sure exactly what I would do in that situation. The instinct is to protect at all costs (I understand that from having nephews), but sometimes that might mean doing things that might not turn out so pleasantly for them or considering what is better for everyone around them if they have done or possibly done something wrong. It is almost like an impossible situation.
I agree about disclosing the information. I just would not feel right or be able to live with someone knowing that such a big, important piece of information is left unsaid. It is not fair to not tell. Yes, it might have changed her mind about seeing him, but that is her right. It provides an opening for a conversation about what is essential to tell versus what can be kept private/to oneself; I think if it could potentially impact the life of the other person, it needs to be said.
However, I can understand Andy's perspective, if he is being honest with himself, that he did not really think of his father much and therefore it was a sort of non-issue for him. But, I tend to think that he used that as more of an excuse to not tell. He actively made the decision to not disclose his family history. Given how level-headed Laurie seems to be, I am not sure it would have made much difference to her at the time. I think she would have taken Andy at face value for who he is and made the decision to continue dating him based solely on him, not his relatives' pasts.
I loved this book. It is one of those that has a lot of thematic questions and really makes you think. And I am really not sure of people's exact actions and/or motives in some of the situations. I am still thinking them over. This book might need a re-read.