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Expectation vs Reality

User Profile: Calling123
Calling123 September 29th

Hello Hello Lovely people!

I have been getting soooo many reality checks ✅ lately, it's kinda crazy😩.

So, in honor 🏆 of my reality checks, I would like to ask if your life was captured in the “expectation vs. reality” meme, what would the two pictures be?

Much Love 💛


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User Profile: affableTown5581
affableTown5581 September 30th

@Calling123 love it lol, it'd be a picture of Abraham Lincoln in his chair for expectation and a picture of my cat profile for reality 

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User Profile: Calling123
Calling123 OP October 3rd

@affableTown5581

This is hilarious! 🤣 I can just imagine it. The cat memes that always fill my feed are really shining through right now! ✨😸

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@Calling123 hello there, well for me the expectation would have me in my rich girl error, enjoying my days with my friends, reality would be me struggling with a pile of books looking worn out.

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User Profile: Calling123
Calling123 OP October 5th

@spectacularApricot7089

This is the manifestation of my life 🥲

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User Profile: jacek73
jacek73 October 5th

@Calling123

Expectation: Me as Mark (Ace Goodheart) from the Sci-Fi anime series - in a white leather suit, a space helmet with a fancy curved visor, flying like an angel, with feather-like wings.

Reality: Me as a semi-bald guy in a baseball cap and a t-shirt, taking my disabled friend in a wheelchair for a walk or shopping.

Bottom line: Sometimes reality exceeds fantasies.

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User Profile: Calling123
Calling123 OP October 8th

@jacek73

Although I don't watch anime as much, I definitely do the same with books 😅

Sometimes fantasies are more entertaining 🤷‍♀️


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User Profile: jacek73
jacek73 October 8th

@Calling123 Me too, but it was the only anime I knew in my childhood (and probably through my entire life, too 😉 ).

Oh, yes, taking out my light sabre from three feet of snow just by the force of the will, or meeting Yoda in person would be great 😃 

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User Profile: orangeWriter1952
orangeWriter1952 October 5th

@Calling123 hi

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User Profile: Calling123
Calling123 OP October 8th

@orangeWriter1952

hey! 😊👋

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User Profile: goldenOwl8174
goldenOwl8174 October 8th

@Calling123 Expectation: I am always surrounded with people who cares for me or at least think me as a good friend.

Reality: I am lonely with friends at school only and one of them is toxic. 😞

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User Profile: Calling123
Calling123 OP October 9th

@goldenOwl8174

I can understand how you may feel. 😔 I went through a similar experience with my school friends a little while ago. But don't worry, if you ever need a friend to talk to, your 7 Cups community is here for you! 🤗

wishing you the best! 💫

Much Love 💛

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@Calling123 Expectation: getting good grades 

                   Reality: getting the worst grades of my life and ended up crying in class haha…

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User Profile: goldenOwl8174
goldenOwl8174 October 9th

@lilyofthevalley0527 I totally get you on this topic except the crying part and I don't even remember how long it has been since I cried my heart out with no heavy feelings.  

User Profile: Calling123
Calling123 OP October 9th

@lilyofthevalley0527

Literally me in my Calculus class 😭

This is too real 😄

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User Profile: Hansnii
Hansnii October 10th

👍

User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 November 30th

Expectation: Me in a small but well-equipped workshop, looking trim & hard like old hickory, turning out superbly crafted canes & other wooden things.

Reality: Me with half my hair gone, sometimes prone due to chronic conditions, other times working on a project out on my half-rotted patio, always hurting somewhere.

Lesson: Limit your expectations, as much as you can. The higher the expectation, the more you'll be disappointed. Life wasn't made just for you.