kylers hidey hangout for adult friends

@kylersartpace

Glad u made the post :3

@SleepyShyCat

wdum youre glad...

@kylersartpace

U mentioned that u might be in forums a bit earlier, I was too nervous to make a post myself so I'm glad you made one and tagged me, so I can still talk to you :) I appreciate it 

@SleepyShyCat

hope u dont mind its with 2 others aswell....

@kylersartpace

It's ok :) it's nice you made a space to chat with friends ^^

@SleepyShyCat

the only 3 i really have from adults...

@kylersartpace

That's ok, better to have 3 nice people who care about you than 100 who don't. There's only a handful of people I interact with on here too :) 

@SleepyShyCat

yeah...i really hate adult side...

@kylersartpace

I'm sorry you've had a bad experience with it :( it is difficult to age up 

@SleepyShyCat

yeah...doesnt help being bullied and everything...

@kylersartpace

Yeah, that definitely makes it so much worse :(

@SleepyShyCat

yeah....

was meant to put @nessapressure05 idk why i tagged it 03 instead of 05....

@SleepyShyCat @LexiiKardashian30 @nessapressure05

hey...so...idk if u 3 will even read this or care....but im most likely gonna be leaving cups....

@kylersartpace

Hi :3 I care, and I appreciate you letting me know. I'm sorry cups isn't a great place for you currently :( a self care break can be a good idea, and what's nice is there's always the option to reactivate your account if or when you feel ready. I left cups a few times before too. Wishing you well for whenever/if you decide to go :) 

@SleepyShyCat

idk what im gonna do anymore...

@kylersartpace

What do you mean.. Not sure what to do instead of being on cups? 

@SleepyShyCat

no like...if im leaving or not...

@kylersartpace

Oh I see. It is a tricky decision to make. What are your pros and cons to it? 

@SleepyShyCat

wont let me reply to the main message but...there are none...

@kylersartpace

No pros or cons.. So it's a neutral decision? Feels the same either way? & it only let's a reply thread have so many responses now, I find it annoying xD was better when you could do more 

@SleepyShyCat

yeah its neutral..

@kylersartpace

You could always test what it feels like for a few days and then come back? It doesn't have to be long or permanent. I've left cups for a week, 6 months, several years.. And then at other times made decisions that it was better to stay. All of those were ok. But yeah, confusing for what to do I'm sure. If it's neutral, why do you still feel you should leave? 

@SleepyShyCat

the bullying...

@kylersartpace

Have you reached out to a mod about who it is? And to mute them? There's not much else that can be done on cups, other than avoidance, support from a mod, and focusing on those other supportive people around you. 

Or, if it is too much for you and you think time away would help, then a self care break is useful. 

@SleepyShyCat

idk anymore...also this is really annoying me rn...

@kylersartpace

I assume you mean the reply thing xD here's a new thread for you 

@SleepyShyCat

yep i meant the replys lol

@kylersartpace

Just know there isn't a time limit on making a decision, and no decisions have to be permanent :) 

@SleepyShyCat

mhm...idk how to make decisions...

@kylersartpace

Decisions of any kind are hard :') I struggle too, even with very basic decisions 

@SleepyShyCat

yeah....

@SleepyShyCat @LexiiKardashian30 @nessapressure05

hey....so...emm....im sorry...to the 3 of you....in advance...

@kylersartpace

About what? 

@SleepyShyCat

cant say exactly...just know....u may not hear from me for a long time...

@kylersartpace

Ok, if you're taking a self care break I hope it is good for you :) I'll probably be around in the future if you come back 

@SleepyShyCat

ill say as much as...its not a self care break...and i may never be back....

@kylersartpace

Well whatever it is I hope you take care of yourself and that you have a nice time :) you're always welcome back here even if right now you've decided to leave cups completely. As I said before, no decision needs to be permanent <3

@SleepyShyCat

its nothing to do with cups

@kylersartpace

Oh okay :) what I said still applies, whatever it is 🐈