kylers hidey hangout for adult friends
hey...not sure who else would want to be tagged and if ye dont want to be tagged feel free to just ignore this are ye dont have to use it i just thought you three might like a way to keep in contact with me...
@SleepyShyCat @LexiiKardashian30 @nessapressure03
to others not tagged in this post - please dont read or react or comment to any posts on this thread
@kylersartpace
Glad u made the post :3
@SleepyShyCat
wdum youre glad...
@kylersartpace
U mentioned that u might be in forums a bit earlier, I was too nervous to make a post myself so I'm glad you made one and tagged me, so I can still talk to you :) I appreciate it
@SleepyShyCat
hope u dont mind its with 2 others aswell....
@kylersartpace
It's ok :) it's nice you made a space to chat with friends ^^
@SleepyShyCat
the only 3 i really have from adults...
@kylersartpace
That's ok, better to have 3 nice people who care about you than 100 who don't. There's only a handful of people I interact with on here too :)
@SleepyShyCat
yeah...i really hate adult side...
@kylersartpace
I'm sorry you've had a bad experience with it :( it is difficult to age up
@SleepyShyCat
yeah...doesnt help being bullied and everything...
@kylersartpace
Yeah, that definitely makes it so much worse :(
@SleepyShyCat
yeah....
was meant to put @nessapressure05 idk why i tagged it 03 instead of 05....
@SleepyShyCat @LexiiKardashian30 @nessapressure05
hey...so...idk if u 3 will even read this or care....but im most likely gonna be leaving cups....
@kylersartpace
Hi :3 I care, and I appreciate you letting me know. I'm sorry cups isn't a great place for you currently :( a self care break can be a good idea, and what's nice is there's always the option to reactivate your account if or when you feel ready. I left cups a few times before too. Wishing you well for whenever/if you decide to go :)
@SleepyShyCat
idk what im gonna do anymore...
@kylersartpace
What do you mean.. Not sure what to do instead of being on cups?
@SleepyShyCat
no like...if im leaving or not...
@kylersartpace
Oh I see. It is a tricky decision to make. What are your pros and cons to it?
@SleepyShyCat
wont let me reply to the main message but...there are none...
@kylersartpace
No pros or cons.. So it's a neutral decision? Feels the same either way? & it only let's a reply thread have so many responses now, I find it annoying xD was better when you could do more
@SleepyShyCat
yeah its neutral..
@kylersartpace
You could always test what it feels like for a few days and then come back? It doesn't have to be long or permanent. I've left cups for a week, 6 months, several years.. And then at other times made decisions that it was better to stay. All of those were ok. But yeah, confusing for what to do I'm sure. If it's neutral, why do you still feel you should leave?
@SleepyShyCat
the bullying...
@kylersartpace
Have you reached out to a mod about who it is? And to mute them? There's not much else that can be done on cups, other than avoidance, support from a mod, and focusing on those other supportive people around you.
Or, if it is too much for you and you think time away would help, then a self care break is useful.
@SleepyShyCat
idk anymore...also this is really annoying me rn...
@kylersartpace
I assume you mean the reply thing xD here's a new thread for you
@SleepyShyCat
yep i meant the replys lol
@kylersartpace
Just know there isn't a time limit on making a decision, and no decisions have to be permanent :)
@SleepyShyCat
mhm...idk how to make decisions...
@kylersartpace
Decisions of any kind are hard :') I struggle too, even with very basic decisions
@SleepyShyCat
yeah....
@SleepyShyCat @LexiiKardashian30 @nessapressure05
hey....so...emm....im sorry...to the 3 of you....in advance...
@kylersartpace
About what?
@SleepyShyCat
cant say exactly...just know....u may not hear from me for a long time...
@kylersartpace
Ok, if you're taking a self care break I hope it is good for you :) I'll probably be around in the future if you come back
@SleepyShyCat
ill say as much as...its not a self care break...and i may never be back....
@kylersartpace
Well whatever it is I hope you take care of yourself and that you have a nice time :) you're always welcome back here even if right now you've decided to leave cups completely. As I said before, no decision needs to be permanent <3
@SleepyShyCat
its nothing to do with cups
@kylersartpace
Oh okay :) what I said still applies, whatever it is 🐈
@SleepyShyCat
i...idk anymore...im sorry...
@kylersartpace
It's ok not to know, no need to be sorry :3
@SleepyShyCat
im stuck...no matter what i wanna do...im stuck on a call...
@kylersartpace how would we keep in contact?
@LexiiKardashian30
idk if there is a way...
@kylersartpace
Sorry you feel stuck :( that's a horrible feeling.. But even when it feels that way, usually there's an option, just hard to find at times
@SleepyShyCat
i am stuck though...on a call now with some1 even though theyre asleep...so im not left alone....so i can do what i wanted...
@kylersartpace
I don't exactly know what you mean, but they won't be asleep forever, eventually, morning always comes, even if the night feels long. Sleep might be helpful, it's late for you
@SleepyShyCat
TW
shy....i was gonna...end it...but im stuck...trapped...on a call...so a person can see me....to make sure i dont do anything...theyre asleep...but yeah...still means i cant do anything because im on a call...
@kylersartpace
Well the call seems like a very good idea then. Good job <3
@SleepyShyCat
really dont want to be on it...
@kylersartpace
You might not want it right now, but some part of you is looking out for yourself or you wouldn't have accepted the call to start with. And that is good
@SleepyShyCat
i dont look out for myself...
@kylersartpace
Hru today :3
@SleepyShyCat
not good...broke down crying in school...
@kylersartpace
Aw :( sorry kyler, I hope you had support or a safe place to go to