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@Sophia7721
yay thanks! Hellooo :)
@Phoenix1234theythem
Hiii♡
@Sophia7721
im kinda room hopping rn if u want to talk there?
@Phoenix1234theythem
Sure which room?
@Sophia7721
tcr?
@Phoenix1234theythem
Okii
@Phoenix1234theythem
Oh and forgot to ask what flavor freezie?
@Sophia7721
good question xD probablyy blue raspberry!
@Phoenix1234theythem
Hey hey Phoenix was wondering if u were here to talk?
@Sophia7721
Hey u okay?❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
thanks for your help phoenix ❤️🫂
@Phoenix1234theythem
Hey you doing alright? u poofed so im getting worried hugss 🫂🫂❤️❤️
@Sophia7721
yea sorry i left just couldn’t support anyone then or talk at all rlly but made a playlist for my irl friend and it distracted me so feeling not too bad now, I think crying bout my dog helped too cos I’ve not been able to cry for ages and ages, never for more than a few seconds of watery eyes so at least I cried a bit I suppose🫂❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
its okk! i was just worried im glad ur doing better
@Phoenix1234theythem
and crying is good when u havent been able to for awhile ^^
@Phoenix1234theythem
Hiiii I'm outta surgery and just fine can't walk yet butttt it's over at least! Ilyyy hugss 🫂 ❤️
@Sophia7721
yayy u did it am proud of uu, get well soon hugssss ilyttt❤️🫂
@Sophia7721
i tried to heart ur posts but its not working so ill tell u lol ❤️❤️
wanna talk in sr?
@Phoenix1234theythem
Srry I don't have to many ideas on how to cover tw---- wrist cuts... I don't cut there so I've never had ta try.... hope u figure smth out btw...
@Sophia7721
TW/////// was stupid. relapsed so bad. got ballet on monday .. and Wednesday as well as contemporary.. and comp dance on friday..
@Phoenix1234theythem
aw phoenix... do ur parents know..? could u ask them to skip it?
@Sophia7721
they know I TW sh but I’m not letting them now bout this time, also i wouldn’t want to skip it because it’s the only thing makes me feel okay so ima just have to go and hope it’s okay
@Phoenix1234theythem
do u want to talk about it? no is fine too but either way ur still so strong ok? hugss ❤️❤️🫂🫂
@Sophia7721
❤️❤️🫂🫂hugssss thank u🥲maybe later im striking today but thank u so much🥹❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
ok just lmk if i can help ok:) hope u have a good day
@Sophia7721
thanks :) it was alright, felt okay for most of the day like i could breathe again! rn not so much but still not bad, am with my dog :) but.. i have dance tmrw too.. there’s no way my arms will look okay by then.. ***
@Phoenix1234theythem
Hey it's okkk... could u wrap them up? I mean it'll still look like u gor hurt in some way but... or maybe they just won't say anythin again...?
@Sophia7721
yea I wish.. :) my parents would ask questions tho and like.. it was really bad.. as in, arms are nearly covered..
@Phoenix1234theythem
Like...top to bottom? If so I'm so sorry you have to go through this... hugs and more hugs and I get the thing about the parents to...they know about my first one and...I've done it lot more and idk I just can't tell them anymore if that makes sense...but rlly lots of hugs for you🫂🩷🫂🫂
@Sophia7721
yea same for the parents, thank u🥺🫂❤️hugs n more hugs for u too :)🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 and for my arms.. well kinda yea, both of them top to bottom but not entirely, like there’s still some space in the middle also TW/////// i don’t cut deep cos i don’t have anything that would do that, so it’s not medically bad or anything js looks awful n all over
@Phoenix1234theythem
ya I get that I don't cut deep either I mean...I have stuff that could I just... don't wanna... bc I rlly hate the ER but I understand that it just looks bad....is there anything I can do to help? Hugs! 🫂 🫂🩷🩷
@Sophia7721
yea i also wouldn’t sh enough to go to ER if i had anything to do that but id probly go deeper.. idk what u could do sorry, can we just talk maybe? im in sr rn
hugssss🫂🫂🥲
@Phoenix1234theythem
Ahh I'm sorry I missed ur message I've had a long day and I'm glad u don't have anything that u could go deeper with that's good and if ur still here I'd love to chat with you 🩷🩷🫂🫂
@Sophia7721
sorry i went to sleep! dw i hope ur okay, how was ur day? hopefully not too long or tiring❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
ahh ok! my day was alright yesterdayy was kinda long but againnn ima miss you but have a nice break ^^ hugsss 🫂❤️🫂
@Sophia7721
okk ima miss u tooo tho will be on forums a lil bit🫂<3
@Phoenix1234theythem
ok sounds gooodd im always here if ya need to chat:)
@Sophia7721
hru doing? i miss u not heard from u in a while🥲
@Phoenix1234theythem
I miss you tooo! Ive been doing ok haven't been on as much bc I've been busy with school and getting ready for surgery...
How have u been tho? everything alright with you? You been staying safe?
Hugsss!
@Sophia7721
surgery?? u okay? remember if u ever need to talk I'm here 💗
yea I'm doing alright, 1 week n three days clean! hru? staying safe as well? lyyyy, get well soon hugs i hope ur alright 🫂💗
@Phoenix1234theythem
Omg yay I'm so proud of youuu!!! That's amazing! And ya I'm getting surgery on my legs on the 15th yayy soooo excited...not rlly I'm very nervous lol but I'm bout 2 weeks ish clean by now
@Sophia7721
thanks am so proud of you tooo!!❤️🫂 You made it soo far! :o I’d be nervous too, surgery sounds kinda nerve wracking, am here for you if u need to chat💗 May I ask what it’s for? U don’t have to answer ofc :)
@Phoenix1234theythem
Aw thanks!
I'm getting a femoral rotation surgery on both of my legs^^ gonna be in a wheelchair for 6 weeksss and then PT for the rest of the yearrr sooo... just real... ya know?
How have you been? How's danceee going? I've missed yaa
Hugsss 🫂 ❤️
@Sophia7721
i did have to look up both the name of the surgery and PT 😅 hugssss it’s gonna go wellll💗
I’m alright, on antidepressants now (idk if I told u) and I don’t feel like hurting myself much anymore. Dance is going well I think, just woke up rn had a dream bout Nutcracker lol
Hru doing?❤️Miss u smmm🫂🫂
@Phoenix1234theythem
Im doing alright! And no u didn't but I'm glad they are helping you!! And I miss you toooo and lol that's ok dw bout itttt and yes yes tons and tons of hugsss♡
@Sophia7721
🫂🫂🫂❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
Also what kinda dream bout the nutcracker....seems interesting... I don't remember my dreams so I always like hearing bout um...
@Sophia7721
There were only three dances instead of like fifteen and I was in all of them! xD it was great :) aw remembering dreams can be good and bad tho so dw and maybe you’ll remember one soon :)
@Phoenix1234theythem
Alsooo! How's your life been going just in general? School.. family... stuff like that (don't have to shareee is just an offer if you want or need to:) And also also...what are some of your hobbies I don't actually know you all too well I've realized...
Do ya like travelingg... art.. cooking or baking... what's your favorite color and animal I have a lot of useless little questions I need answered... ok not needd but I'm curious now... ok ok srry lots of hugss! 🤍
@Sophia7721
aww ofc ill answer some! Wbu?💗sorry will reply properly to it in an hour or so tho, don’t have enough time rn 😅
@Sophia7721
I think school is going well, I keep zoning out but at least I figure out what we’re doing when I zone back in. Family is eh, parents shout a lot or talk in bad tones “but not shouting” tho my brother is being non argumentative rn xD we watched a bit of heartstopper season three together today!! Do u watch heartstopper? I love it smmm
For hobbies, I love love dance, it makes me happy :) (u already know that lol), I also like writing and reading. Baking and cooking is fun but I’m not that good at it and I find it funner when baking w someone. Travelling makes me feel sick sometimes but I like where we end up mostly :)
I’m only just discovering music by virtue of my friends who send me songs cos “it is an outrage that u have no musical taste because u don’t listen to music” and I do like it now that I listen to it!
my favourite colour is an amalgamation of blues, wbu?
how bout u? :)💗
@Phoenix1234theythem
Omg is it out now? I've been waiting lol but yes I lovee that show! Have you read the webtoon? I like it better tbh... but alsoo whos ur favorite character?
My school is stressfullllllll and my family is fine just real busy I'm sorry your parents shout that's never fun...
My favorite color is lilac purplee... um my hobbies are baking, art, playing video games, and watchin horror movies^^ I also wanna try crocheting tho... or sewing idk...
Ilyy!! Hugss♡
@Sophia7721
Aww your bio is lovely! Just reread it :))))
And yess it's out now yippeeee!! Yea I read the- do u mean comic books when u say webtoon? I read the comic books idk if its the same as webtoon. Hmm my favourite character might beee.... darcy? But idk theyre all lovely! Wbu? Also I wanna give charlie a hug he rlly needs one (:
Aw sorry to hear ur school is stressfull, do u know why? Glad ur family's fine tho! Busy at ours too i get that <3
Omgggg my second fav colour is lilac purplee!!!! Ur hobbies are so cool frr but I dont like video gaes except for mario kart lol, horror movies too scary (worst I watched is beetlejuice (1+2) haha) but sounds awesome!! Ooo u should try crochet I did before as like a hyperfixation but then couldnt continue idk why :( Sewing is fun sometimes I gotta sew my pointe shoes tho and that is less fun haha
Ilytttt!! Hugss 💗🫂༼༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つaww omg i just figured out how to add these cutie faces!! Anywayy sorry this is long..
@Phoenix1234theythem
Haha it's fineee I liked reading it^^ and ya the comic books (was originally a webtoon which is a site and an app where u can read comics for free) and ya I understand thattt took me a lil to get used to the scaryness of um to but I like the thrill of them... and aww thank youu about my bio urs is rlly nice too!!
@Sophia7721
ooo webtoon sounds cool! and thank uu :)
@Phoenix1234theythem
Ofc!!
@Phoenix1234theythem
Hey nix hru doin? Well I hope^^ I'm back btws lots of hugs♡
@Sophia7721
yayyyy you’re back!!!!!!!! i missed youuuu so so so much 🥺❤️💗🫂how are youuuu? if ur still online rn can we go to a room? otherwise that’s oki, anywayy glad you’re back :)
@Phoenix1234theythem
Ahh sorry I wasn'ttt I missed you too!! I've been ok ive recently had an obsession with drawing "tattoos" on myself lol. How have u been? Have u been staying safe?
@Sophia7721
ooo tattoos are fun hehe :)
😔 um sorry not been very safe.. hbu? very glad to hear from you tho friendo ❤️🫂
@Phoenix1234theythem
And yes they are! But I'm so sorry to hear that u relapsed nix u want or need to talk about anything?
@Sophia7721
idk :( ill be fine idk
@Phoenix1234theythem
U sure? If u think of anything tell me ok? I'm so sorry I haven't been on as much!! Lots of hugs♡ I believe in you!!
@Sophia7721
😭 I feel like ive lost hope, it was my favourite word and I was always going on about it but now I got none. thank you friendo 🫂🫂🥺❤️❤️ i miss youu
anywayy hru doing? 💗
@Phoenix1234theythem
Nooo don't give up ik holidays can be hard and stressful (at least for me) (idk whats going on in ur heaf but u gotta remember it'll get better and your worth sooo much ok? And don't give up hope even if there's just a tiny grain try and hold onto it ok? I love u!! You got this^^ you are sooooo strong ok? Even if u don't think so!! ♡♡ hugsss 🫂
@Sophia7721
aww thank youu 😭❤️💗🫂 you’re worth so so much too, i hope holidays aren’t too stressful for you this year friendo ❤️ im trying to keep hoping, am doing a bit better than before :) ilymmm 🫂❤️ thank you so so much again, you’re such a fantastic friend and lovely person, ilysm, huggssss🫂🫂
@Sophia7721 hello, hope you're doing fine 🙂
@Phoenix1234theythem
Also! My fav character is either tori or elleee and yesss Charlie does need a huggg
@Sophia7721
omg wait how did I forget tori?! Yessss she is 100000% my fav character!! Lol I was thinking of just the friend group for a sec xD
@Phoenix1234theythem
Haha no dw it's fineeee
@Phoenix1234theythem
But yesss I love toriii
@Phoenix1234theythem
How was ur day?
@Sophia7721
Was fab! Until rn 🥲 am being stupid but so far not TW hurt myself.. wbu?❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
Aw no anything I can do to help??? Tons of hugs♡ mine was pretty good
@Sophia7721
idk maybe if nobody is in sr rn? Don’t want to bother u tho❤️I’m rlly glad ur day was good!🫂
@Phoenix1234theythem
Ahh I'm so sorry! I had a lil bit of an emergency with one of my friends... are u ok? Did u stay safe? Hugss ilyy
@Sophia7721
thats ok! Is your friend alright?❤️ I did manage to stay safe :) ilytt huggis 🫂
@Phoenix1234theythem
Yes they are alright thankfully and I'm so happy you are too!! I'm so very proud of you♡
@Phoenix1234theythem
Hope your doing alright todayy!!
@Sophia7721
The day just started lol so for now yea, I hope the same for youuu :)
@Sophia7721
hru doing? i hope ur operation on legs goes welll❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
Thanks!! thats tmmr but i am rllyyy nervous lol idk if ima be able to sleepp
@Sophia7721
hugssss am here if u wanna talk, it gonna go well try not to dwell on it so u can get some sleep🫂💕
@Phoenix1234theythem
thanks for the hugs! And ikk it will it's just scary it's going to be at least 3 hours then a hospital stay then I won't be able to walk for 6 weeks which is gonna be so weirdddd
Hugs for you tooo
@Phoenix1234theythem
...Im probably gonna dwell tbh.... u free to talk in tcr for a bit?
@Sophia7721
oki am in sr rn but can switch :)
@Phoenix1234theythem
U need to talk in sr? we can if ya need to ^^
@Phoenix1234theythem
The second day is the worsttttttt everything hurts sssss
Also hiiii hru my darling friend?
@Sophia7721
*gentle hugs* it gonna feel better soon tho💗
idk how i am, hru apart from physically?
@Phoenix1234theythem
Thank u for the hugsssss!!
Apart from physically I'm tired which is bc of the meds but still
U staying safe?
@Sophia7721
ur welcome and ah ok
yea am 1 week clean :) my meds at the moment making me feel so *** n foggy rlly not mentally present lol but at least i don’t feel like TW hurting myself
hbuu u safe?❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
A weekkk!!! That's amazing!! And yes rn I'm safe in a hospital lol and I can't reach the place I normally do it but
@Sophia7721
thank uuu n glad ur safe, wdym “but” tho? 🥺❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
But I wantedddd toooo
@Sophia7721
:( ik i rlly do, but so glad ur safe fr❤️🫂
@Phoenix1234theythem
Aw thank youuuu!!!
Hru doing today?
@Sophia7721
rollercoaster lol hbu? also am in rooms if u want, might be easier to chat
@Phoenix1234theythem
Or I guess tonightt..
@Sophia7721
heyy hru doing?❤️if not too bad wanna go to sr with me?🥲or if u wanna talk bout anything same goess 🫂
@Phoenix1234theythem
Ah im so sorry i wasnt here with you!!! are u ok?
@Sophia7721
not rlly lol but dw, how have u been?❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
Did u stay safe? lots of hugs and apologies!!!
@Sophia7721
no need to apologise it’s okay!! that day i stayed safe but not yesterday lol dw tho
huggiiees 🫂❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
Aw noooo lots of sorryssss and i am worriedddd... I've been fine... legs hurt but that's expected.. not being able to walk is rlly rlllyyy boring but
@Sophia7721
no sorrys! n no need to be worried :) aw i hope ur legs stop hurting soon n u can walk again cos that does sound boring not being able to walkk:( ❤️
@Phoenix1234theythem
Aww okk.. thank youu!! And lol ya me to I'd be fine with just standing at this point also! Just to let u know I'm gonna take a break from cups for a bit! Illyyy!! Tc tc! Stay safeeee okk? For me? And I'll miss you^^ hugsss 🫂 🫂 ❤️
@Sophia7721
aw:((( ill miss u tooo so so much❤️❤️❤️u stay safe too oki? n ill try🫂❤️ ilymmm have a good recovery too :) n don’t forget to come back! 🥲 hugssss🫂🫂
