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[OLD THREAD] Project Achieve Your Goals - TEENS!!!

Laura December 18th, 2015

Setting goals is the easy part...reaching them can be more challenging!

Having someone support you in reaching your personal goals can be incredibly helpful. Today, wed like to announce a new community program aimed at helping you reach your goals.

Well need both listeners & members to make this happen! Here is how you can get involved in this project:

Members:

Step 1: Post a goal youd like to work towards in this thread. Be specific! Goals work great when you can make them measurable. Usually that involves a time period and a number of times. Additionally, you want to start by making goals achievable. Do not make your goals too hard or you will grow frustrated and not be able to reach them. Much better to make them easy to accomplish to build your confidence right from the start.

examples:

I want to cook dinner for myself 3 nights per week

I want to go to the gym 1 time per week

Take 3 growth path steps every day

Step 2: Specify if you'd like a listener to check in on you 1 or 2x/week.

Step 3: Wait for a listener to reply to you! They will reply and let you know they will support you reach this goal.

Step 4: PM this listener to get going! They will not be able to support you by checking in on you if you do not first PM them. If you find that a listener has not followed up, then please post again and request another listener.

Step 5: Post your progress each week in this thread and also on your feed so more people can support you in achieving your goals.

Step 6: Once you have achieved your goal and the new behavior or habit has been consistent for 21 days, then apply for the Goal 1 Badge. We'll likely have several goals, so there will be Goal 2, Goal 3 etc. (Feel free to help us come up with better names!)

Listeners:

Step 1: Wait for members to share their goals in this thread! When you see a goal/member youd like to support, reply to their forum post and let them know!

Step 2: Once this member has messaged you and established connection over PM, its your job to better understand the members goal, why its important and what you can do to best support them.

Step 3: Make a commitment! Check-in with this member twice per week and enquire about the goal!

Step 4: Let us know how you and your member are doing! In this thread, we will track your progress as team. Post here to let us know how it's going!

Step 5: After your member has reached their goal, let us know and apply for the Coach badge. More details on this soon!

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styleson December 23rd, 2015

My goal is to raise at least 2000 dollars at this christmas football charity event that i am playing for, and I will do it by performing some live stunts besides the actual football match.

December 24th, 2015

I would like to stop relapsing into my online and real-time gaming addictions :)

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gloriousPurple97 December 24th, 2015

@powerfulWatermelon

Hello :) This is a fantastic goal! I'd like to help you achieve it winkI'd love to check in on you every two weeks to see how you're doing with it :)

amazingrea December 26th, 2015

@powerfulWatermelon

I would absolutely love to help you with this, my fantastic melonyhead! :D

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amiablePine6500 December 25th, 2015

Hey :)

My goal is to become fitter... right now I'm trying very hard to love myself but a lot of times I don't succeed. I'm on the skinny side, but am super unfit and I have a lot of problems with overeating and I think that becoming fitter will help me learn to love my body more.

Looking for a WORKOUT BUDDY so we can motivate each other and keep ourselves on track!

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Brightheart993 December 26th, 2015

@amiablePine6500

This is such a great goal! I would love to help, send me a PM anytime and we can discuss this goal some more! :D <3 Looking forward to supporting you anyway I can!

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Kellie December 26th, 2015

My goal is to learn all the trumpet scales by band camp

easyCucumber9508 December 28th, 2015

I want to tell my parents about my bullying somehow...

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insightfulMoment30 December 29th, 2015

@easyCucumber9508 That is such an amazing goal :) I would love to help and moreover support you through this! Just pm me if you would like to talk about it with me :) <3

PinkDahlia22 December 31st, 2015

@easyCucumber9508

That is amazing Kita!!! <3 I know you will be able to do it hun!!! <3 Love you! <3

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eiralyse December 29th, 2015

My goal is to overcome my shyness! laugh I want to be able to smile naturally and speak with friendliness to people without being being shy.

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Brightheart993 December 29th, 2015

@eiralyse

That's a wonderful goal! I'm a very shy person myself but I'm working on overcoming it everyday. I would love to help you achieve your goal! Feel free to PM me and we can discuss your goal some more! :D

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selfconfidentLemon3866 December 30th, 2015

i want to keep up good grades and help take a stand for bully.

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kikapika December 30th, 2015

Hi @selfconfidentLemon3866 ! This is such a good goal and I would be more than happy to help you with it! PM me and we can totally talk about how you can achieve this goal! Have a GREAT day! <3 KikaPika

niceFlute78 January 2nd, 2016

@selfconfidentLemon3866 That's a wonderful goal. I have faith you can achieve that. If you ever need help, I'm always here for you.

melichrous January 2nd, 2016

@selfconfidentLemon3866 this is one of my goals too! Good luck!

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RubiksCube06 December 30th, 2015

I want to get faster at solving a Rubik's cube

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UglyDuckling99 December 30th, 2015

II want go get all As this semester, make friends, get the guy that I've been crushing on, become a better artist , be more confident and learn to love myself.

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Herequeerandcheering December 30th, 2015

Hey, @UglyDuckling99 that's that's a wonderful goal! I would love to help you achieve this goal and help support you. Feel free to PM me if you wanna talk about it with me :)

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AeranDawn December 31st, 2015

@RubiksCube06 I applaud you for pursuing your interests. Good luck!

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BrokenwitBPD December 31st, 2015

My goal is to learn to live wit my mental health again and be able to walk out my front door to take my kids to school a park anythin and not have beg someone else to take them

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niceFlute78 January 3rd, 2016

@BrokenwitBPD That's a magnificent goal. I have faith you can achieve. If you ever need help I'm here for you.

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AHelmi9x December 31st, 2015

Being less anxious when communicating with people, especially females. A listener helped me and I will try to do what he told me.

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JazmEEnah March 2nd, 2016

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i totally get you and I really hope you achieve those goals Goals could also distract you from negative energy. You'll do great. xx

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