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The Mindful Balcony

User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 October 28th, 2024

I live in a very industrialised area so have made a micro nature reserve on my balcony, though it's still very much a work in progress.  I spend some mindful time out there every day.  I'd like to share the peace & delight I enjoy there with you.  It's my place of refuge from a troubled world & the stresses & burdens of life.  

When two or more ladybirds are gathered together, it's called "a loveliness of ladybirds" (ladybugs).

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora October 29th, 2024

@cal1860 Thank you for sharing this<3 I adore ladybugs. That's a beautiful picture. You've got a wonderful place for yourself, hope it keeps flourishing! 

User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 OP October 31st, 2024

My balcony faces west and I sit out there most evenings sipping a hot chocolate and watching the sun set and the brighter stars come out.  This was taken a couple of weeks ago when the Northern Lights were visible over much of the UK.  A solitary bat fluttered about and moths flitted around the street lamp nearby.  And I forgot to take the clothesline down...duh!dscf0040_1730348776.JPG  


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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 31st, 2024

@cal1860 I'm uk too ❤hi neighbour. That's a great photo. I didn't see the northern lights though🙁

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User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 OP October 31st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11  For most of the time the Lights were mostly invisible to the naked eye, only using a mobile phone/digital camera.  Humans can't see colours very well in low light levels.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 31st, 2024

@cal1860 oh I did not know that ❤ my carer saw it and showed me a pic on her phone, she lives a town over from where I am ❤

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User Profile: dhabib
dhabib October 31st, 2024

@cal1860 love ladybugs 

User Profile: dhabib
dhabib October 31st, 2024

@cal1860 that’s true we are in a troubled world I have a troubled life I don’t have my mom I’m fighting with my best fitness she blamed me for committing self harm to herself suicide she’s still mean to me asking me for money constantly she’s done a lot of things wrong she drains me scares me she doesn’t care about my health safety I walk out at night in the dark a lot can happen to me that’s dangerous she’s deceiving mean other things to me it’s not okay 

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User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 OP October 31st, 2024

@dhabib I'm so sorry you're having such a troublesome time.  It's so important to have a place of respite, even if it can only be inside ourselves or in cyberspace.  I hope things improve for you.

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User Profile: dhabib
dhabib January 2nd

@cal1860 it’s hard its improving I got to bed early i am out going out for 1-3 hours during the day the best is the sunset in my state walking during the early evening for me to release pain stress anixety just breathe I got my dog 

User Profile: dhabib
dhabib January 2nd

@cal1860 my own self having trouble is never  a good feeling never is  I faced pain October 2024 December it’s my dental appt it needed to be done 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 31st, 2024

@cal1860 is that a orange ladybird!?!?😍😍 I've only ever seen red ones ❤ I'm so glad you made a little sanctuary for yourself on your balcony, that's such a wonderful idea ❤ do you name your plants?? And do you talk to them??

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User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 OP October 31st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11  I don't know what type it is, possibly a Harlequin ladybird.  They're not a native species but still beautiful.  We get a lot of yellow ones here.  No, I don't talk to my plants or give them names, I do, however, regularly have a long whistling conversation with a blackbird or two around dawn...🤫

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 6th, 2024

@cal1860 we only get the red ones in this part of wales ❤

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cal1860 OP October 31st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11  Just for you, Tiny...

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Tinywhisper11 October 31st, 2024

@cal1860 awww they are really cool😍😍 king Charles says it helps to talk to plants😁 but singing with birds is a lot more fun😁

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User Profile: cal1860
cal1860 OP November 6th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11  I've been reading about King Charles & his chats with The Leafed Ones.  I'm now converted and singing hymns to the weeds... A Belated Very Happy Birthday, beautiful lady x

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Tinywhisper11 November 6th, 2024

@cal1860 😂😂😂 I hope your a good singer😁 don't kill those plants😂😂😂😂 thanks cal ❤❤

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cal1860 OP November 6th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 🤣

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User Profile: Nate715
Nate715 October 31st, 2024

@cal1860 I love ladybugs!! <3 

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daydreammemories October 31st, 2024

@cal1860

That's so cute! Thanks for sharing🥹❤️

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helianthus19 January 2nd

@cal1860 this is so beautiful and lovely. thank you for sharing this with us.

User Profile: sereneStream214
sereneStream214 January 6th

@cal1860

I can't help but pass this on---today is the anniversary of my uncle's suicide. It was such a tragedy in my mom's family. One year while staring through my window wondering if I should call her on this day, I noticed a ladybug on the windowsill and was in awe. There's no reason for one to be there as it's the middle of winter here and I'd never seen one inside before. I took it as a sign that it was my uncle letting me know he was still with us. Today I silently wondered if I would see a ladybug somehow, which is crazy considering how cold it is. But opening my computer and seeing this photo at the top of my feed was jarring but so sweet to see! Glad it somehow made its way to me... I didn't see one in real life but seeing a virtual ladybug had the same effect. Feels like it was meant to be💖 

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User Profile: SparkyGizmo
SparkyGizmo January 6th

@innerpeace214


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