Safety
I hear a lot about "feeling safe" and whilst I agree sometimes it is necessary I also feel it is very limiting
I'm not a psychologist but I have read and believe that the subconscious can prioritise survival to the point where you sit alone in your room all day long and never go out and never talk to anyone and on one level you feel "safe" but on another you are desperately lonely and unhappy
So you need to feel unsafe to get out of this. There's no way around it
@WhatNameidk I do agree and the feeling of safety is not tied to just some places or people, with time strangers can move to become people we feel safe with. It's all about taking a chance and allowing someone or something to become our new safe :)
@BlueDarkAurora
yes expansion is sometimes very necessary and I don't think it will ever feel "safe" but it is something you have to face anyway
@WhatNameidk can you explain the never feeling safe part? ^^