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WhatNameidk
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Safety
Mindfulness Center / by WhatNameidk
Last post
July 13th
...See more I hear a lot about "feeling safe" and whilst I agree sometimes it is necessary I also feel it is very limiting  I'm not a psychologist but I have read and believe that the subconscious can prioritise survival to the point where you sit alone in your room all day long and never go out and never talk to anyone and on one level you feel "safe" but on another you are desperately lonely and unhappy  So you need to feel unsafe to get out of this. There's no way around it
Famous Listener Chats
Reading & Writing / by WhatNameidk
Last post
July 2nd
...See more Hello, welcome to 7cups I am a trained listener What's on your mind today? Well, people keep laughing at me because I am short :( Oh, I'm sorry, that must be very hard to deal with It is! Especially since I am in the army and everyone thinks soldiers should be big and tall I understand It's not like I'm not doing a good job.. We even defeated the Romans! and yet still they make fun of me :( The Romans? Yes yes pay ATTENTION! In the battle at Austerlitz Erm right, so how does this all make you feel? ANGRY!! Like I have something to prove. I intend to conquer the whole world!! Then we'll see who laughs... I see, err are you.. Napoleon, that's right. The world will remember my name! Now stand straight. ATTENTION! Can you imagine your famous listener chat? 
My little Writings
Reading & Writing / by WhatNameidk
Last post
July 14th
...See more I have nothing to say What should I say Tell me I need to be told what to say I need approval I need someone to say yes you said something good Otherwise how would I know what to say? Say whats on your mind Only being loved is on my mind and I can't be loved unless I say what they want me to say So tell me what to say
The Internet
Mindfulness Center / by WhatNameidk
Last post
June 16th
...See more Do you really think the internet is beneficial to mental health as a whole?  I don't I have 1.9GB of data left and then it will be no more internet for me... I don't own a phone so no internet on there. This is my laptop which I am still using but once the data runs out then I will have no access to the internet I know it might be incomprehensible to most of you - but remember real life? where you never had to care or worry about comments or likes or emails or hackers or all the other endless stuff that comes online. I know there are "good" things about the internet, I just think the bad outweighs the good for me personally A lot of you are probably not old enough to even remember a time when everyone wasn't online so for you it might be a totally alien concept  I see people on their phones walking along, at the bus stop, on a fairground ride, whilst watching TV, whilst eating, whilst with their friends haha it never ends, so glued to it and I think it is really sad No more internet for me lol What are your thoughts on this and for you personally?
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