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🌈 Share Your Coming Out Story & Offer Support! 🌈
by CheeryMango
Last post
 Sunday
...See more Hey everyone! Pride Month is a time to celebrate our identities, honor our journeys, and support one another. One of the most personal and powerful experiences for many in the LGBTQ+ community is the act of coming out. Whether you’ve already come out, are considering it, or are just here to support others, this is a safe space for you to share your story and offer encouragement. How to Participate: * Share Your Story: If you’re comfortable, share your coming out story with us. How did you come out? What was the experience like for you? How did it impact your life? * Offer Support: For those who have already come out, please offer advice, support, and encouragement to others who might be considering taking this step. * Ask for Advice: If you’re thinking about coming out and have questions or need support, don’t hesitate to ask here. We’re all here to help each other. ------------------------- Note: Please be respectful and supportive of everyone’s experiences. We are here to create a safe and welcoming environment for all.
Weekly Prompt #3: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 September 9th
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are all well. Last time we discussed, What one piece of advice would you give to your younger self? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/LGBTQMOGIISupport_58/DiscussionsandResources_2305/WeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416/] In today's prompt, I want us to take a minute of reflection and share what was the journey of coming out looked like for you. The prompt: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity? What was that journey like for you? Share your thoughts with us. Join us in the LGBTQ Support Chat today! [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyYhttps://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyY] ------------------------- [http://twitter.com/share?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F&text=Weekly+Prompt+%232%3A+W+%407cups] [/sharer/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F]
🌈 Pride Month 2024 Forum Discussion Masterpost
by tommy
Last post
 June 22nd
...See more  Happy Pride everyone! I hope you are enjoying the month so far and are taking advantage of the different opportunities available to you across 7 Cups to celebrate. Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PrideMonthCelebrationLetsComeTogether_330299/] for a thread outlining how we are celebrating Pride for 2024! We wanted to compile together all of the different forum posts, discussions and icebreakers/games into one place so you do not miss out on anything.  This is an inclusive celebration and many (if not all) of the discussions/threads are suited to everyone, not just those who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. Please let me know if you have posted a thread which you'd like adding to this list and thank you to everyone for making this celebration so wonderful!  🏳️‍🌈 Say hi and introduce yourself here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/LGBTQAwarenessPrideMonthSayHiandIntroduceYourself_330296/] 🏳️‍🌈 Share your coming out story and offer support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/ShareYourComingOutStoryOfferSupport_330608/] 🏳️‍🌈 Pride playlist: share your favourite songs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PridePlaylistShareYourFavoriteSongs_330457/] 🏳️‍🌈 How does your country celebrate pride? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/countries/General_2439/PrideMonthAroundtheWorldHowdoesyourcountrycelebrate_330635/] 🏳️‍🌈 What tip would you give to maintain a healthy relationship? [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] What is your favorite book with LGBTQ+ representation? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/reading/Books_2603/ShareyourfavouritebookwithLGBTQrepresentation_330925/] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] Pride Parade! EmotionsListener 7 Cups pfps generator [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PrideMonth7CupsPfpLGBTQPrideParade_331195] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] Supporting a Loved One Who Identifies as Belonging to the LGBTQIA+ Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/SupportingaLovedOneWhoIdentifiesasBelongingtotheLGBTQIACommunity_331625/] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] AMA with a 7 Cups Therapist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/AMAwiththe7CupsTherapists_1133/CLOSEDtonewQuestionsAMAPrideMonthrelatedtoLBGTQIA7CupsOnlineTherapy_331001/] This masterlist will be updated each time a new thread is posted. Last update: 1 July 2024
At what age you figured that you are a lesbian?
by sinfulforest
Last post
 September 11th
...See more Please share your stories.
Being a lesbian in a muslim family
by studioghiblifan15
Last post
 July 21st
...See more Hi! A little bit about me; I'm a first-generation American from a Muslim Albanian family, and I'm a lesbian. I didn't grow up extremely religious whatsoever. It's really my mom who's even slightly religious, but even so, I knew my family would never accept me for who I am because of the social norms and cultural beliefs they grew up on. I'm writing about this because I'm hoping to find someone I can relate to. All my friends are straight or gay, with very accepting parents. I don't know a single person I could talk to that's feeling the way I am or would be willing to be open about it. I came out to my mom when I was 16, and she threatened to tell my dad. I hate that even after all of that, I still love her and my family, even if they won't love me for who I am. I'm 18 now, and I'm still financially dependent on them, especially since I am not in school or work. I feel so alone. I wish there were a reality in which being myself didn't feel like the absolute worst thing I could be. I am so exhausted and depressed that I don't know what to do with myself most days because it already feels like my future has been taken from me. I want to be me without this impending guilt and fear that by doing so, I would either ruin my life and relationship with my family or have to live my whole life in secret. I don't know what to do, and I don't know how to make my life better. I feel so defeated.
Help Finding Other Lesbians? :,(
by MikalaC234
Last post
 July 17th
...See more Hi! I’m 18 and openly gay. However, now that I’m an adult and not at an arts school anymore (where there were plenty of LGBT+ peeps), I don’t know where to find other people like me. I wish I had more LGBT people to talk to, especially lesbians. I’m looking for a relationship, and I am having so much trouble finding lesbians (bisexuals, etc) in person. I don’t know which dating sites are safe and LGBT-affirming. Any suggestions? I’m also okay with online friends who are around my age, anyone want to be friends?
Realizing I'm (36f) gay and in a long term relationship/marriage with a man
by Stepeoples
Last post
 June 26th
...See more I've known I am (at least) bi my whole life. However, I've recently realized that I am a lesbian. I've been with my husband for most of my adult life and I'm finally admitting I'm not sexually attracted to him. I love him and we have built a wonderful life together but it's because I've repressed my sexuality and desire. Now I'm processing and trying to figure out how to move forward in my life.
am i still a lesbian
by kikiliza
Last post
 April 14th
...See more can i still be considered a lesbian if my s/o is enby? i feel like if i say i’m bi+ people will assume i like men.
My lesbian diary
by unassumingPeach6421
Last post
 March 13th
...See more Hello everyone, I'm starting a diary I'm shy and introverted. I am nervous around women and unsure of how to meet new people. I am poor trying to support myself through architecture school as a 22 almost 23 year old. i can't afford dates (unless I take out loans lol). My parents are homophobic, terrible people for guidance, and mostly unsupportive of all my choices. I have autism and ADHD and socializing is harder. If I was used to it and could afford going out every day it wouldn't be so hard. I feel that I cannot afford a social life. As I speak I guess I am more tempted than ever to take out loans. I've never had a gf I've only dated. I've never had sex, it was hard for me to understand my body with autism with alexythima but I feel finally ready and I understand my own body. I tried to have sex with a man and my body shut down and I couldn't speak. We didn't have sex thank god. I can't tell if it was me not understanding my alexythima or my lack of attraction to men. Dating men felt so fake it was fun but too easy and I just never cared. Then men would hit on me and I would be angry or hurt (I wish they knew I was a lesbian). Idk does anyone else think that being gay is expensive? That's all for now. There is not much I could afford and it makes me nervous when I try to hang out with people that anxiety hangs around me. I'm not very happy and don't have a lot of energy and I feel very introverted more than I have before. I just really hope that once I do the ground work of what I am doing for college and earning money, I hope I can start to relax and enjoy myself. I would love to start dating and to have enough money to date. Any advice is welcome thank you all!
Loneliness
by bestKite8488
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more Hi. I am new here.  My name is Louis.  I came out two years ago and have not found any happiness at all as a gay person.  I am seriously considering going back in the closet.  I can't stand the rejection I have experienced and actually feel calmer and therefore happier when I stop "chasing after" women.  Can anyone else relate to this?
Neurodivergent lesbian in a home of homophobic Christians.
by Mikitea68
Last post
 January 22nd
...See more I'm a lesbian with very little hope of finding the one. I'm a late in life lesbian coming out at 32 and am now 34. I've suffered a lot of abuses in my life. I don't know how to pick up the pieces. I don't know how to navigate dealing with my family that says they love me but wouldn't come to my wedding if I had one. I'm so tired of it. In their minds me being a lesbian is a ticket to ***. And ever since I was a teenager I didn't really believe there was a ***. Mythology being as it is. I don't feel loved by my family. I just live because they need me not because they want me.
A lesbian and a Christian
by KulaPitts
Last post
 December 28th, 2023
...See more I have known all my life that I am a lesbian. The problem is I do not know if my Christian family will accept who I truly am. I try to flirt with boys as a way to conceal it from them but it just proves how gay I am. I am in turmoil on how to come out to my family. It's like a dirty little secret that I have been keeping.
Hi am new
by passionateCat5511
Last post
 December 1st, 2023
...See more 🖐️
Hard places for LGBT
by december8
Last post
 September 19th, 2023
...See more Hi! I wonder if anyone there from Middle East? I really curious about the life of LGBT people there? Does it as horrible as what we saw on the media? How do you guy deal with it? Thanks for sharing your stories. Hope you all the best!
Why are m-spec lesbians bad?
by Kaizu572
Last post
 May 30th, 2023
...See more There are many reasons someone might want to identify as an m-spec lesbian. * They have a preference for women but can be attracted to other gender(s) as well * They use the split attraction model (lesbian and multiromantic, multisexual and lesbiromantic, etc It's harmful, hateful, and outright homophobic/transphobic to assume someone will affect the community negatively just because of how they identify when it's only gatekeepers like these who harm the community most. Why is it so hard to just respect how one identifies??

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

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Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General Support:  Struggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help… I still have a question!

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.
Community Guidelines

1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
Community Leaders
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Community Resources

1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


Full LGBTQIA+ Resource Spreadsheet