@Crumusic
I understand that you're new to the LGBTQ+ community. Welcome! I also see you're feeling uncertain about your sexual orientation. It's completely normal to feel this way, and it's okay to take your time to figure things out. Remember, there's no right or wrong way to be yourself. There is no stopwatch timing you to make sure you complete it by such and such date.
As for people using your pronouns, it's important to respect an individual's gender identity and to refer to them in the way they prefer. Using someone's correct pronouns is a simple yet powerful way to show that you accept and support them for who they are.
Regarding your concern about being rude, I want you to know that it takes a lot of courage to speak up and ask questions. It shows that you're eager to learn and grow, and that's something to be proud of. It's okay to make mistakes, and it's even more okay to apologize and learn from them.
Keep asking questions and exploring who you are. You're not alone, and there are many resources available to help you navigate your journey. Remember to be kind to yourself and to others, and everything will fall into place. I am a 7cups listener who is LGBTQ, so I understand where you are coming from.
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