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🌈 Share Your Coming Out Story & Offer Support! 🌈
by CheeryMango
Last post
 November 11th
...See more Hey everyone! Pride Month is a time to celebrate our identities, honor our journeys, and support one another. One of the most personal and powerful experiences for many in the LGBTQ+ community is the act of coming out. Whether you’ve already come out, are considering it, or are just here to support others, this is a safe space for you to share your story and offer encouragement. How to Participate: * Share Your Story: If you’re comfortable, share your coming out story with us. How did you come out? What was the experience like for you? How did it impact your life? * Offer Support: For those who have already come out, please offer advice, support, and encouragement to others who might be considering taking this step. * Ask for Advice: If you’re thinking about coming out and have questions or need support, don’t hesitate to ask here. We’re all here to help each other. ------------------------- Note: Please be respectful and supportive of everyone’s experiences. We are here to create a safe and welcoming environment for all.
Weekly Prompt #3: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 November 8th
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are all well. Last time we discussed, What one piece of advice would you give to your younger self? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/LGBTQMOGIISupport_58/DiscussionsandResources_2305/WeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416/] In today's prompt, I want us to take a minute of reflection and share what was the journey of coming out looked like for you. The prompt: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity? What was that journey like for you? Share your thoughts with us. Join us in the LGBTQ Support Chat today! [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyYhttps://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyY] ------------------------- [http://twitter.com/share?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F&text=Weekly+Prompt+%232%3A+W+%407cups] [/sharer/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F]
🌈 Pride Month 2024 Forum Discussion Masterpost
by tommy
Last post
 November 4th
...See more  Happy Pride everyone! I hope you are enjoying the month so far and are taking advantage of the different opportunities available to you across 7 Cups to celebrate. Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PrideMonthCelebrationLetsComeTogether_330299/] for a thread outlining how we are celebrating Pride for 2024! We wanted to compile together all of the different forum posts, discussions and icebreakers/games into one place so you do not miss out on anything.  This is an inclusive celebration and many (if not all) of the discussions/threads are suited to everyone, not just those who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. Please let me know if you have posted a thread which you'd like adding to this list and thank you to everyone for making this celebration so wonderful!  🏳️‍🌈 Say hi and introduce yourself here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/LGBTQAwarenessPrideMonthSayHiandIntroduceYourself_330296/] 🏳️‍🌈 Share your coming out story and offer support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/ShareYourComingOutStoryOfferSupport_330608/] 🏳️‍🌈 Pride playlist: share your favourite songs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PridePlaylistShareYourFavoriteSongs_330457/] 🏳️‍🌈 How does your country celebrate pride? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/countries/General_2439/PrideMonthAroundtheWorldHowdoesyourcountrycelebrate_330635/] 🏳️‍🌈 What tip would you give to maintain a healthy relationship? [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] What is your favorite book with LGBTQ+ representation? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/reading/Books_2603/ShareyourfavouritebookwithLGBTQrepresentation_330925/] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] Pride Parade! EmotionsListener 7 Cups pfps generator [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PrideMonth7CupsPfpLGBTQPrideParade_331195] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] Supporting a Loved One Who Identifies as Belonging to the LGBTQIA+ Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/SupportingaLovedOneWhoIdentifiesasBelongingtotheLGBTQIACommunity_331625/] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] AMA with a 7 Cups Therapist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/AMAwiththe7CupsTherapists_1133/CLOSEDtonewQuestionsAMAPrideMonthrelatedtoLBGTQIA7CupsOnlineTherapy_331001/] This masterlist will be updated each time a new thread is posted. Last update: 1 July 2024
Divide in the LGBTQ+ community over new gender identities?
by courageousKite3480
Last post
 September 15th
...See more I know there is a lot of divide within the community over many topics, because everyone is human and we all have our own perspectives.  Growing up in the community there was a lot of internal divide on the spectrum of gender that materialized in many ways.  I had a hard time finding the words to explain my experience to my son, especially in trying to communicate why a lot of the older LGBTQ+ community is having a hard time with the new generations gender identity movement.  Tell me how you feel you have seen or have experienced this divide?  Please be kind to each other, we all have our own experiences, let’s leave room for non judgment. 
Expressing Pride Through Your Unique Talents
by proactiveTortoise8361
Last post
 September 2nd
...See more Hi Everyone! Pride Month may be behind us, but the spirit of Pride lives on every day through the talents and creativity of the LGBTQ+ community. This year, I found myself deeply inspired to explore what being LGBTQ+ means to me through my creative work. It’s been a journey of self-expression and connection, and I’d love to hear about your experiences too! For example, for myself, i use livestreaming to connect with others in my community in real-time. How do you celebrate Pride through your talents and expertise? Are you a musician creating beats that resonate with LGBTQ+ identities? Perhaps you’re a writer crafting stories that delve into queer experiences? Or maybe your creativity shines through in other ways like painting, dancing, or designing?
Did somebody say....Pride Month?
by xIAmAlwaysHereForYoux
Last post
 June 1st
...See more      Welcome everyone! It's officially the first day of Pride Month! Shoutout to all the people of the LGBTQ+ community and all of the supporters! Since it's the first day of this wonderful month of fun and festivities, I would love to share more about this prideful (no pun intended) month!      Pride Month evolved with the Stonewall riots which were ongoing riots for gay liberation that took place for several days starting on June 28, 1969. The riots occurred during a police raid at the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar located near Lower Manhattan in New York City. Wonderful activists, Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Stromé DeLarerie are all believed to have incited the riots, however, Johnson disputes her involvement. A year after the riots, the first pride marches were celebrated in several US cities.       Thanks to the great activists who stood up and used their voices and freedom, we can all come together, share, and celebrate this wonderful month. I know and understand, that people in the LGBTQ+ community, including myself, face lots of hate and discrimination. Unfortunately, some people are blindsided and don't understand or get our community. However, we must stand tall and speak up when something is wrong or when we hear hate and discrimination. We must be the change. We must remain strong during hateful moments. We must share who we are, with people who love and support us. Most importantly, we must be happy with who we are, who we always knew we were, and must express that to others. 
LGBTQ+ Chatroom Weekly Discussions - Masterpost
by KatePersephone
Last post
 February 12th
...See more hello everyone :) this thread will be used by the community's leader(s) to share the week's upcoming discussions! subscribe to be one of the first to know about each week's discussions!
What do I do (Muslim respondents only, apologies for this as I need advice from other Muslims)
by desres
Last post
 January 21st
...See more Asalaamualaikum my muslim brethren and siblings, I am a practicing Muslim but a transsexual. My family is heavily against this, especially my sister who is telling me to 'stop this nonsense' and that it is a phase even though she used to be supportive of me and used to be apart of the community. She tells me how her and her friends have faced this and reverted/detransitioned and said that the LGBT is bad. She tells me it is haram and brings up two verses, one regarding the condemning saying 'a man cannot imitate a woman and vice versa' and the second relating to the story of Lut. She also tells me that gender and sex are the same, which I have tried explaining to her that 'no, they are not the same'. I ended up crying because of how I felt bad that I am considered a sin in Allah's eyes. She tells me I have one month to stop this 'nonsense'. She believes that these transgender people take surgeries, look like zombie girl (if you don't know, she is basically this woman who took multiple surgeries and deformed her skin) and then end up committing suicide/regretting it, she tells multiple stories of someone who transitioned, got an infection and regretted it, (all her stories are from detransitioners) majority of the stories she is telling me was exactly like this. I told her, this is false and that she is listening to Candace Owens (while I respect some of her views regarding Islam and the opposition of genocide), I don't fully agree with her. I need advice from any fellow Muslims regarding this/quotes from the Imams regarding this issue, I also would like verses in the Quran that may help me when discussing with her.
opinions on LGBTQIA+ and religion?
by sullendreen
Last post
 January 11th
...See more I consider myself religious (Christian) but I'm also in the LGBTQIA+ community. almost every religious person I know tells me that the two cannot work together, even if they themselves are okay with my sexuality, and that it cannot fit in with God's plan, but I hope that's not true. I would love to have a girlfriend and if my feelings are this strong about that, it cannot possibly go against God's ways? I do realize this is a controversial topic but I hope I'll find some understanding ears here (as I know quite a few supportive people within the Christian community too)
International pronouns day
by TaylorTheFrog
Last post
 October 18th, 2023
...See more Happy international pronouns day everyone! Reminder that you pronouns are valid wether you is she/they/he/it/neo-pronouns. You are you and don’t let anyone take that from you. :) 
How to handle friends who refuse to acknowledge abuse
by greenSail3488
Last post
 October 8th, 2023
...See more So, I have two friends that I talk to regularly. Met both through queer spaces, and both seem to be living fully functioning lives. Both seem to have a decent understanding of morality, both stick up for their rights, both seem to have a positive outlook on life and have actively tried to uplift me in my dark moments. Both are very pleasant people. The problem is that both of them are in relationships that seem toxic, but never describe their partners as anything but great.  One's a trans woman who's dating a guy who almost raped her the night they met. She's a hardcore submissive and writes really dark stories inspired by her experiences, and models the abusive men in her stories after the current boyfriend, but apparently everything is great between them. She's taken trips with him to some extremely dangerous places, the stories she's written about the environments she's put herself in for that guy scare me more than some cockr do.  The other is a 19 year old lesbian who's unofficially married to the middle school teacher who's been using her for who knows how long. Before that, she was in a relationship with her aunt, and she casually reminiscences about her mother doing stuff to her all the time. Now, I don't know how much of what she says is true and how much is fantasy, but she actively fetishizes that sort of relationship. She seems incapable of going ten minutes without making some kind of reference to how much she loves these "mommies". She had a short lived blog with a different, much more messed up theme that went all out against her real life persona, and that was the only place I've ever seen her call these people groomers (the blog involved a type of mockery of right wing ***, but she wasn't using "groomer" in that meaningless sense. I could sense some real resentment there)  It's just difficult to talk to either of them when there's something like that going on. I always have to walk on eggshells, or act like I approve of their choices in partners when I really can't. But I can't tell them how to live their lives, and I don't think anyone likes to be told something they enjoy is absolutely evil when they themselves don't feel the same way. I'm worried prying into these things could end these friendships, and I can't afford to lose any more friends these days.  What would you do if you saw someone ignoring obvious red flags, or defending them? 
Trope, Tripe or Tribute?
by EmotionsListener
Last post
 September 12th, 2023
...See more Is your LGBTQ+ identity one you've seen portrayed in movies, tv, books or social media? Oftentimes these characterizations rely heavily on stereotypes - the good and the bad. So thinking of one LGBTQ+ character you’ve seen, tell us about them and rate them “trope, tripe or tribute?!” We’ll categorize those as follows: Trope - “common or overused, stereotypical” - this representation reinforces some stereotypes but is presented in a way that isn’t entirely hurtful or which openly admits it is a stereotype and not realistic. Tripe - “something poor, worthless, or offensive” - this representation is not just inaccurate, it’s bad and it may even be doing harm! Tribute - “truthful and uplifting” - this representation feels true to me, I can relate to this character and feel it is a fair and accurate depiction. It’s okay to agree or disagree with others just do so respectfully please! This is meant to be a bit of fun and maybe let us get an idea of some of the various representations, accurate or otherwise, that exist in the media. Perhaps we can even think of some we’d like to see instead?! [Image reads Trope, Tripe and Tribute superimposed on three different rainbows to represent each word.] Join in, add your own character summaries and ratings! Will they be "trope", "tripe", or "tribute"? 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History of the Stonewall Riots
by EmotionsListener
Last post
 June 29th, 2023
...See more In the 1960s solicitation of same-sex relations was illegal in New York City, and so even bars known to serve LGBTQ+ individuals were often penalized or shut down, any gathering of homosexuals being deemed “disorderly”. While in the mid 1960’s these LGBTQ+ bars were permitted to serve alcohol, engaging in any same-sex hand holding, kissing, or dancing was illegal in public, so the police would regularly harass and raid these establishments. Many also chose to operate without licenses for this reason as well. One of these bars, operated by the Mafia (seeing an opportunity to profit by catering to gay clientele) was the Stonewall Inn. The Stonewall Inn was run as a “private bottle bar” where patrons in theory brought their own liquor to consume. The family running the bar bribed police to ignore the various activities that occurred within the club. (Including that it was not in fact a “private bottle bar.”) This lack of police intervention however meant the club also lacked a fire exit, had no running water behind the bar to wash glasses, lacked clean and maintained restroom facilities, and offered drinks that were heavily watered down. Not to mention, seeing the chance to profit, the Mafia would reportedly blackmail wealthier patrons who wished to keep their sexuality a secret. Even with all these problems, the Stonewall Inn still attracted many LGBTQ+ people, it was a large establishment, inexpensive to enter, they allowed dancing and it was welcoming to drag queens who were not as well received at other establishments catering to LGBTQ+ clientele. It even became a sort of home for runaway and homeless gay youth. While raids were still a reality, the Stonewall Inn being run by a Mafia family with some corrupt cops on their side would typically be tipped off before any such raid on the establishment and so could hide away anything that would be incriminating. But there was no such tip before the raid on the morning of June 28, 1969. With a warrant in hand police officers entered the club, arrested 13 people including those violating the state’s “gender appropriate clothing statute”, roughed up patrons, and of course discovered bootlegged alcohol. But on this particular morning, you may say that the frustration and anger of the community fed up with constant police harassment, boiled over. Patrons and those who lived near the Stonewall Inn, hung around outside rather than dispersing, growing more and more agitated and upset seeing the events unfold. At one point an officer hit a lesbian over the head while forcing her into the police vehicle, she shouted out to onlookers, calling on them to act. So the crowd began to throw whatever they could at officers, bottles, stones, pennies, and within minutes what we now know as the Stonewall Riot had begun. Over the course of the following five days the protests intensified and continued, galvanizing the community. Although the gay rights movement had started long before, this one event became a catalyst that propelled it forward. One year after the initial Stonewall Riot, thousands of people marched in the streets of Manhattan starting at the Stonewall Inn and down to Central Park, a march which became America’s first “gay pride parade.” So, while for many today pride parades are a celebration, they are also a protest to the unfair treatment of LGBTQ+ people, linking back to a police riot on an LGBTQ+ club, and a community that was ultimately fed up. Source: https://www.history.com/topics/gay-rights/the-stonewall-riots#the-stonewall-inn [https://www.history.com/topics/gay-rights/the-stonewall-riots#the-stonewall-inn]
LGBTQ+ Chatroom Feedback - Masterpost
by KatePersephone
Last post
 June 1st, 2023
...See more hello hello everyone! today we're here to share some feedback from people participating in our chatroom discussions :) feedback for @Rubylistens22: warm and welcoming host, not too many questions/not too long feedback for @EmotionsListener: I didn't know the word 'gatekeeping' before, but I knew of its devastating effects on the LGBTQ+ community, how it separates us instead of uniting us. It was good to talk about what labels are meant to be for, not what they are often used for currently. feedback for @KateDoskocilova: Kind host, cool questions, informative and thoughtful  feedback for @Jefferythebunny319: We got a bunch of cookies and I also learned a lot thank you all for the wonderful feedback and for supporting the effort the team puts in holding events and discussions! wanna join the room? click here [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mGlmdHydmeJO45maWVqV]! wanna keep up with the schedule of discussions? click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/CommunityCulture_2541/LGBTQChatroomWeeklyDiscussionsMasterpost_305197/]!
Queer Barriers
by MaggieListens00
Last post
 June 1st, 2023
...See more What are some barriers you face due to being a part of the LGBTqi+ community?

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

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Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General Support:  Struggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help… I still have a question!

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.
Community Guidelines

1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
Community Leaders
Group Support Mentor / Teen Star
@EmotionsListener
Community Resources

1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


Full LGBTQIA+ Resource Spreadsheet