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🌈 Share Your Coming Out Story & Offer Support! 🌈
by CheeryMango
Last post
 November 11th
...See more Hey everyone! Pride Month is a time to celebrate our identities, honor our journeys, and support one another. One of the most personal and powerful experiences for many in the LGBTQ+ community is the act of coming out. Whether you’ve already come out, are considering it, or are just here to support others, this is a safe space for you to share your story and offer encouragement. How to Participate: * Share Your Story: If you’re comfortable, share your coming out story with us. How did you come out? What was the experience like for you? How did it impact your life? * Offer Support: For those who have already come out, please offer advice, support, and encouragement to others who might be considering taking this step. * Ask for Advice: If you’re thinking about coming out and have questions or need support, don’t hesitate to ask here. We’re all here to help each other. ------------------------- Note: Please be respectful and supportive of everyone’s experiences. We are here to create a safe and welcoming environment for all.
Weekly Prompt #3: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 November 8th
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are all well. Last time we discussed, What one piece of advice would you give to your younger self? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/LGBTQMOGIISupport_58/DiscussionsandResources_2305/WeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416/] In today's prompt, I want us to take a minute of reflection and share what was the journey of coming out looked like for you. The prompt: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity? What was that journey like for you? Share your thoughts with us. Join us in the LGBTQ Support Chat today! [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyYhttps://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyY] ------------------------- [http://twitter.com/share?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F&text=Weekly+Prompt+%232%3A+W+%407cups] [/sharer/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F]
🌈 Pride Month 2024 Forum Discussion Masterpost
by tommy
Last post
 November 4th
...See more  Happy Pride everyone! I hope you are enjoying the month so far and are taking advantage of the different opportunities available to you across 7 Cups to celebrate. Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PrideMonthCelebrationLetsComeTogether_330299/] for a thread outlining how we are celebrating Pride for 2024! We wanted to compile together all of the different forum posts, discussions and icebreakers/games into one place so you do not miss out on anything.  This is an inclusive celebration and many (if not all) of the discussions/threads are suited to everyone, not just those who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. Please let me know if you have posted a thread which you'd like adding to this list and thank you to everyone for making this celebration so wonderful!  🏳️‍🌈 Say hi and introduce yourself here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/LGBTQAwarenessPrideMonthSayHiandIntroduceYourself_330296/] 🏳️‍🌈 Share your coming out story and offer support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/ShareYourComingOutStoryOfferSupport_330608/] 🏳️‍🌈 Pride playlist: share your favourite songs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PridePlaylistShareYourFavoriteSongs_330457/] 🏳️‍🌈 How does your country celebrate pride? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/countries/General_2439/PrideMonthAroundtheWorldHowdoesyourcountrycelebrate_330635/] 🏳️‍🌈 What tip would you give to maintain a healthy relationship? [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] What is your favorite book with LGBTQ+ representation? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/reading/Books_2603/ShareyourfavouritebookwithLGBTQrepresentation_330925/] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] Pride Parade! EmotionsListener 7 Cups pfps generator [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/PrideMonth7CupsPfpLGBTQPrideParade_331195] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] Supporting a Loved One Who Identifies as Belonging to the LGBTQIA+ Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/General_2455/SupportingaLovedOneWhoIdentifiesasBelongingtotheLGBTQIACommunity_331625/] 🏳️‍🌈 [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/RelationshipSpace_2168/Whattipwouldyougivetomaintainahealthyrelationship_330918/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1718455179340454&usg=AOvVaw1moi-ymobKd-2mWbPwrWFE] AMA with a 7 Cups Therapist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/AMAwiththe7CupsTherapists_1133/CLOSEDtonewQuestionsAMAPrideMonthrelatedtoLBGTQIA7CupsOnlineTherapy_331001/] This masterlist will be updated each time a new thread is posted. Last update: 1 July 2024
Help with queer relationship
by navyTree214
Last post
 18 hours ago
...See more I have a best friend. Many people do but for the whole time we've been friends I thought this relationship was something special. We started living together about a year ago and it's been amazing. Many people thought we are in a relationship (could be, both queer) but we had a few talks about it and we both didn't want to at the time. She's been in a few relationships in the past few years but all of them were kinda stupid. She always desperately wanted a bf. We hung out like before, going on our friend dates and doing stuff like normal. This summer she found a boyfriend. It's been weird. Every time we hang out she reaches out to hold my hand. When we're at home in bed she also holds my hand and we have these long eye contacts. When we hug she pushes our faces together and our lips are so close I swear we could kiss. We've always been touchy but not in this way. I feel like now she has a bf she can show me affection and it can't be misinterpreted. But is she pushing away feelings for me? I'm really confused and don't know what to do. I don't wanna feel like some kind of a replacement when he isn't around.
Just in case a homophobe/transphobe is demanding that you debate your existence with them and you need a pick me up afterwards.
by A0curious0fire
Last post
 1 day ago
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Just a fun little story.
by darkgreenfrog
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hi everyone! My name is Frog, and I am a genderfluid, gay, asexual who just joined 7 cups! I thought I'd share a fun little story to start off.  Yesterday, my brother went to a soccer game and I wanted to be on the playground equipment. (I'm 15 and I have autism) I was waiting in line for a swing and this little kid comes up to me and says "are you a boy or a girl" I smiled, because it felt euphoric that the kid didn't guess on sight, and I said "Yes." He looked really confused and ran off, but I felt very happy. Feel free to reply to this thread with anything! Love,  Frog
Lost and Alone
by Figure01
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Life can be strange. I’ve worked hard and tried to do everything “right,” but here I am, midlife, single, feeling lost, and uncertain about what’s next. The stress is heavy, and the sense of direction I once had feels distant. I know I’m not alone in this—so many of us carry these hidden struggles. Maybe opening up about it is a small step forward. If you’ve been in this place and found your way through, I’d love to hear. Sometimes, knowing we’re not alone makes all the difference. Please share.
I shut down a transphobe
by A0curious0fire
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more A transphobe tried to use the "it's basic biology excuse" and called me delusional to try and shut me down. So I posted a link to an article about advanced biology and a link to the ask transgender subreddit that talked about this topic. Turns out he got muted for a week and the Mods are going to keep an eye on him. I wish I di that to the first guy who tried to call the community delusional
Gender issues
by Jh0901
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more I’m currently struggling with my gender I’m constantly thinking about the fact I may be the wrong gender this has happened multiple times throughout my life but this is the worst it’s been in terms on consistency im also currently struggling with sleeping issues and a lot of work/home life stress which may be a factor into why it’s come back into my mind. I was wondering if anyone has any advice for me I haven’t got anyone to speak to or that would understand irl.
Gay people who fell in love with someone straight
by Amymimy2711
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more If you’re gay and already fell in love with someone straight, please share your story, I’m struggling with this right now. Mine: I met this girl in my school and we we’re friends but not super close. One day the teacher decided to “change the classroom” and we sit together. Math is hard for me, she could see it and started to help me day and we became more close, we started to talk more and we found out we liked the same things. She is kind and is always trying to tell me that I’m not stupid, that I’m intelligent and enough, and always is watching the shows I tell her to watch. Anyways, I think she likes a boy (our friend) but this boy has a girlfriend (they’re a really cute couple, I know them both and they’re so sweet together) and she never told him about it, but i start to wonder why he doesn’t like her, if she’s so perfect in every aspect I could tell you. She’s pretty smart, kind, and I slowly started to feel things for her. She see me as a friend, but is always holding my hand, she has some social anxiety so every single time we are in a room full of people she takes my hand and hold tightly, like if her life depended of this, and I started to silently beg for the universe that the corridors were always full, so she would always take my hands. She always put her face on my neck, and I like to feel her hot breath in my skin. Every time she try to help me in math I get more dumb, because I can’t do anything wile she’s looking at me with her eyes, but even though that, she always looks at me and say that I’m not dumb and she would help me. One time we’re at the theater watching a movie and held my hand too, I didn’t even remember the story of the movie, but I remember that we’re always talking. At least for me, this should be a cute romance story, but that’s not happening because she’s straight (I think) and she doesn’t know that I’m actually lesbian, so it breaks my heart. I didn’t saw her in a wile because school ended, but I’m gonna see her at my birthday next week, and the next year too, so I don’t know if I can act normal with her without saying this, but I don’t want to lose her friendship so I’ll never tell her that I like her.
Bisexual?
by turtlegirl9696
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more 28F in an engaged hetero relationship. I never questioned being "straight" growing up. I was raised Christian and I think I always had crushes on boys, at least that I realized/admitted to myself. The thing that started to make me question was p*rn. A few years ago I happened to watch lesbian p*rn, because my bf, now ex, thought it would be hot. Anyway, I discovered that I liked it more than I thought I would. I find myself wanting to watch lesbian p*rn specifically sometimes. Even if I feel guilty about it, I still end up watching it, usually. And I know it's not just because it's sexual, because I have tried to watch gay male p*rn and that doesn't do it for me, even though I am attracted to men. After the confusion over the p*rn, I have been thinking about real life. I have always been drawn to butts, no matter who what gender the person is. And more recently, I have been looking at female breasts in a sexual way I think, especially like on a screen, but sometimes in person. I used to think I admired women's bodies in a like " I wish I looked like that" way, but maybe there was always a bit of "I wish I could have her" or something idk. Also, hot girls making out seems to excite me, as a straight couple in like a movie or something. I do remember once when I was a kid, I was attracted to a nb or trans boy. I thought they were a cis boy, until I was told that they were an acquaintance's "granddaughter". This made me a bit confused, because I still liked them, even though I felt like I shouldn't or it was "wrong". I just kinda wrote it off then and tried to avoid them because the situation made me feel awkward and nervous. I have been trying to avoid these feelings and concerns because I thought they don't even really matter because I am still super attracted and in love with my fiancé (M) and want to marry him and I don't want to ask to open the relationship or even really tell him or anyone if I am actually bi, because I'm worried it wouldn't go well. But I keep feeling more concerned/confused. I have even kinda started to think about what it might be like if he left me and I let my self try to explore with a woman, like friends that I know are gay, and the idea of dating them is or is almost exciting to me. I want to talk to a queer person about my concerns,but I'm too nervous to admit it to anyone in my actual life, because I don't want anyone to know. So, I came here for anonymous opinions. lol Does anyone resonate with this? Do y'all think I might be bisexual, or am I just a straight hypersexual that overthinks too much?
Hi guys!
by Jessbooklover
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more I am new here and wanted to get to know people! So, if you could, tell me: 1: How long you have been here 2: How old you are (like teen, young adult, adult) 3: One piece of advice for any queer person
Hi guys!
by Jessbooklover
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more Please if you are a lesbian/bi/pan/poly reply to this so I can make some friends! 
Looking for advice
by ricecracker49
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more I identify as pansexual. I've never really had a big issue with gender when l've found myself to be attracted to different people, but I do tend to be more attracted to women. Anyway, what I wanted to say, I've been dating my bf for almost a year now, which is exciting because he's unbelievably sweet and amazing. Before dating him, I was in a short relationship with a girl (my first relationship), and I really liked her, but it didn't work out. I think that my bf really could be someone l imagine settling down and having a great future with, but I've been having this weird feeling lately. I always felt l'd end up with a woman, and it's not that I'd be upset if l ended up with a man, but I'm concerned. I love my boyfriend; he is wonderful, but I keep feeling sad that l'll never date any more women, but I also can't imagine breaking up with my bf. Idk what this means or why I'm feeling this way, but if anyone's had similar experiences, I'd really appreciate some advice! Also, I would just like to put it out there that I'm not unhappy. He's very sweet, and he tries really hard to make me happy. He's not as romantic as I would like, but that's not the biggest deal. We are intimate, and I like kissing and touching and all that, so it's not necessarily a physical problem. I'm just worried that one day I'll wake up and regret not exploring my sexuality more, or that I chose my partner too early in life. But even still, I can't imagine finding a more compatible partner who tries really hard to make me happy and does make me happy, so I’m at a loss. Anyway, I just want someone else's input
Had to join something for the goals, plus wanted to be active here anyways :p
by Luna1234567891011
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more :3

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

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Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General Support:  Struggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help… I still have a question!

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.
Community Guidelines

1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
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Community Resources

1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


Full LGBTQIA+ Resource Spreadsheet