PL 101: Understanding Your Gifts and Strengths from the MBTI (Discussion 2)

@InvaderStitch

I really like that quote as well, thank you for sharing it! It is really admirable how passionate you are about making a difference and helping others. Creativity, insightfulness, and being inspiring and convincing are wonderful strengths to have!

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please

My personality type is INFP-T (Mediator)

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?

I learned that I am an idealist, which I didn't realize before, although it makes a lot of sense. I always did believe that I do my best to find the good in people and events, and I felt good after this test confirmed that! I learned that I am guided by my principles rather than logic, excitement, or practicality. That definitely does fit for me, it's something I have struggled with at times because it can be difficult when logic tells you one thing but your emotions and beliefs say something else, but I can see how that would be helpful at times! I am also introverted, which does make sense.

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.

Passionate and energetic- Even though mediators may be introverted, when we strongly believe in something, we go all in, and dedicate a lot to the project.

Open-minded and flexible- Mediators have "A live-and-let-live attitude," and don't like to be held back by rules. We also do give the benefit of doubt to others, and respect their principles and beliefs.

Dedicated and hard working- Since mediators are so idealistic, in the time of challenges, they have a higher chance of continuing because of their far-reaching visions and hopes. Mediators believe what they do are meaningful, so it gives us a sense of purpose and courage.

@hopedreamlove

It's awesome that you feel like this was validating of things that you already knew and gave you some insight! Mediators definitely have a lot of strengths to make them great leaders!

Hello Everyone!

Here's my findings :

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please.

ENFP-T (Campaigner) Anyone from the same personality group, please raise your hand 😀

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?

▪︎ That whatever I am or have been or was experiencing about some parts of my life, are because of these personality traits that shape me.

▪︎ About some other parts, I'm yet to believe how it is described. Will re-take the test to confirm.

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.

1. Curious - I'm curious and open to new experiences. I like to be stretch outside my comfort zone.

2. Observant - I feel everything happens for a reason and that everything is part of something much bigger. I pay attention and connect the dots mindfully.

3. Energetic & Enthusiastic - I'm open to connect with the world and share my ideas and learnings and in return learn theirs too. I'm high on energy when I'm able to make human connection and it excites me to be part of something bigger.

@peacefulWarrior10

Warrior! *puts hand down* :p You have some amazing strengths! <3

@rebecca947

Haha, thanks!

@peacefulWarrior10

Those are some really wonderful strengths to have!

@ahealingEndoftherainbow22

Thanks a bunch 😁

@peacefulWarrior10

It sounds that you have a strong interest in helping people and that shows from your traits.

@Asherwolfice

Thank you so much <3

@peacefulWarrior10

They are really great results, well done.

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please.

Logician (INTP)

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?

I relate to this quote a lot "The Unexamined Life Is Not Worth Living".

INTPs are considered the most logically precise of all the personality types. That's cool!

"People who share the Logician personality type arent interested in practical, day-to-day activities and maintenance, but when they find an environment where their creative genius and potential can be expressed, there is no limit to the time and energy Logicians will expend in developing an insightful and unbiased solution." - this is SO TRUE about me!

It is really difficult for me to understand what other people mean when they talk in terms of subjectivity and feeling! I also find it really frustrating to listen to people explain something without logic involved, which is common for INTPs. This is exactly why I joined 7Cups - to develop those empathy skills. Empathy is not my natural trait, but after a lot of training, I have improved my skills a lot!

People with the Logician personality type would much rather make a series of logical suggestions for how to resolve the underlying issue, a perspective that is not always welcomed by their more sensitive companions. - very accurate!

The one thing that really holds Logicians back is their restless and pervasive fear of failure. - I feel like someone literally wrote this article about me.

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.

Great Analysts and Abstract Thinkers – People with the Logician personality type view the world as a big, complex machine, and recognize that as with any machine, all parts are interrelated. Logicians excel in analyzing these connections, seeing how seemingly unrelated factors tie in with each other in ways that bewilder most other personality types.

Enthusiastic – When a new idea piques their interest, Logicians can be very enthusiastic – they are a reserved personality type, but if another person shares an interest, they can be downright excited about discussing it. More likely though, the only outward evidence of this enthusiasm will be Logicians silent pacing or their staring into the distance.

Objective – Logicians analysis, creativity and open-mindedness arent the tools of some quest for ideology or emotional validation. Rather, its as though people with the Logician personality type are a conduit for the truths around them, so far as they can be expressed, and they are proud of this role as theoretical mediator.

@StarlitSky4762

Hey, Sky! You and I are the complete opposite- I struggle to connect with my logical mind oftentimes! Good on you for seeking out places and resources where you can build on your weaknesses, and I'm glad you've developed good empathy from here! It's all about having a good balance of empathy and logic, especially when it pertains to our own personal life. :)

@StarlitSky4762

Hi, Sky! I see that you are able to look at the big picture and figure things out. That's awesome! I am the opposite, I am very good at looking at little details instead of the big picture

@wonderfulRainbow817 That's ok! we all have different strengths!

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters, please
My personality type is INFP-T (Mediator).

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?

The main things that I learned about myself are:
I am idealistic and optimistic. I try to look for the good in even the worst of the people and events. Although I appear calm, I have an inner flame and passion that help me shine.

I am guided by my principles, rather than by logic, excitement, or practicality. It's not the results or consequences but the purity of my intent that guides me.

I am expressive and have a penchant for learning multiple languages.

I like to express myself through metaphors and imaginary characters. I like to ponder upon philosophical questions. I like to listen to many people but I talk to a few. I prioritise mutual understanding between humans but I am reluctant to socialising.

I like to read and understand the feelings of others but reluctant to let others know or understand my feelings. I have a high risk of a feeling of being misunderstood.

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.

My top 3 strengths are:
1) I am Idealistic. I strongly believe that people, at their heart, are good and often misunderstood. This belief allows me to have an incredibly resilient attitude in difficult times.
2) I seek and value Harmony. I don't like to dominate others. I have no interest in having power over anyone. I have strong faith in democracy and the democratic process. I like to ensure that every voice and perspective is heard.
3) I am open-minded and flexible. I have an attitude of a live-and-let-live. I don't like being constrained by rules and support others' right to be different and to do anything that they like until my principles and values are not challenged.

@shiningSound31

I've seen a lot of INFPs! I love how you described your traits in the first paragraph of the second question, so inspiring and sounds a bit like me (though I'm not an INFP). Are you fluent/do you know other languages? If so, what are they?

@rebecca947

Thank you for such a warm and kind appreciation This means a lot to me My native language (mother tongue) is Hindi. I have learned English as a second language. Although I am comfortable in writing in English, my ability to speak or have conversation in English needs a great improvement. The third language I tried to learn is French. Though I have tried to learn French from duolingo in the past, my proficiency in French is very very basic and preliminary. I only know the meanings of handful of french words.

@shiningSound31

Wow, you are exceptional! Yes I'm trying to learn French from duolingo as well. I got taught French for 4 years in high school but got nothing out of it due to a bad teacher xD

@rebecca947

Thanks, Rebecca

Usually learning a new language requires a lot of practice especially the practice of having a conversation in the language with another person. In my case, there are a few among my family members, acquaintances and friends who talk in English and non-existent when it comes to talking in French. So, with the lack of practice in a real-life like situation, the proficiency gained in the language isn't up to the mark. Maybe, that's the situation in your case too regarding French.

@shiningSound31

Pretty much! Had a native French teacher during my 4 years but she was a horrible teacher. Aside from that, nobody I know speaks French! The best I can do is watch French videos with subtitles!

@rebecca947

Yeah, watching French videos with subtitle should be effective. In fact, my own English improved significantly when I started watching English TV series and movies. I started with Prison Break Season 1. I realised that the pronunciation of English in the US and the UK is very different from the way we, here in India, speak English. After watching numerous TV series and content in English created especially in the US and the UK, my listening and writing (majorly because of my job { I was the subject matter expert- English in my last educational technology company) have improved significantly though I fumble a lot while speaking.

@shiningSound31

Oh wow, I didn't know how you speak English in India is also different! Don't watch Australian English unless you want to be confused xD though most love the accent.

@rebecca947

I think I haven't watched English content created in Australia yet

@shiningSound31

I hope people from Australia don't get offended by our conversation. I apologise if they feel offended.

@shiningSound31

I'm an Aussie and I'm admitting that xD most Aussies laugh about it, it's fine. Can't speak for everyone though, for sure.

@rebecca947

Good sense of humour, Rebecca But sometime, as you said that you can't say for everyone, we should be careful. Being an Indian, I have this experience that people are really sensitive about their nation, religion, community and culture. I once read a newspaper article where around 10 years ago, a professor in Kerala created a question for an exam and in the question he used the name of the Prophet of Islam. Muslims didn't like that and one day some people stopped him on the road and cut out his hand. Reading that was really scary even for me. So, some people are really sensitive about somethings (nation, religion, culture, community etc.) and we should be careful.

Here is the article: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3074623/Islamists-chopped-Christian-professor-s-hand-set-grammar-exam-question-character-called-Mohammed.html

@shiningSound31

Oh my gosh what?! That odd absolutely terrifying!

@rebecca947

Yeah, so, it's better to be careful!

@shiningSound31

I also got the mediator, however unlike you I am not very good with metaphors

@fireyseastar97

I wish you the best in your journey ahead

@shiningSound31

Thanks and you too!

@fireyseastar97

@shiningSound31

We have got almost same results! So glad to know you.. :)

@pro21

Same here, Pro

@shiningSound31

Explained so well! Such a great set of strengths and qualities. All the best!

@generousDiamond35

Thank you :)

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please : Consul ESFJ-A

2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?:

Strengths:

Strong Practical Skills, Strong Sense of Duty, Very Loyal, Sensitive and Warm, Good at Connecting with Others

Weaknesses:

Worried about Their Social Status, Inflexible, Reluctant to Innovate or Improvise, Vulnerable to Criticism, Often Too Needy, Too Selfless

3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them:

Good at Connecting with Others – These qualities come together to make Consuls social, comfortable and well-liked. Consul personalities have a strong need to belong, and have no problem with small talk or following social cues in order to help them take an active role in their communities.

Very Loyal – Valuing stability and security very highly, Consuls are eager to preserve the status quo, which makes them extremely loyal and trustworthy partners and employees. Consuls are true pillars of any groups they belong to – whether it is their family or a community club, people with this personality type can always be relied upon.

Strong Practical Skills – Consuls are excellent managers of day-to-day tasks and routine maintenance, enjoying making sure that those who are close to them are well cared for.

@Ruchira

It is so cool that you are able to mingle with anyone!