The Beauty of I-Statements
~tell me how you feel~
Many people struggle with effective communication and look for ways to improve their social skills. One excellent way to greatly enhance your social skills by promoting clearer, non-confrontational, and empathetic interactions is by using I-Statements.
Using I-Statements helps to focus on your feelings instead of blaming or criticizing the other person. This can help prevent the other person from becoming defensive and be more open to understanding another perspective.
I-Statements can also improve the way your relationship with yourself. I-Statements help you become more aware of your feelings and emotions, as well as being able to identify the reason why you are feeling the way that you do.
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How can you remind yourself to use I-Statements in conversation?
How do you feel when you notice other people using I-Statements in your conversations?
A way to remind myself of I statements would be pausing before speaking and being aware of what I am going to say instead of reacting… If I listen an “I statement” in the conversation I pay more attention, because the person is expressing what they are feeling, it helps me be more empathetic ✨ @delicateMonkey
@delicateMonkey
Thank you for sharing your insights! I feel like when someone is using the "I statement" makes me notice that they are expressing their emotions or opinions to me, and I will focus more on what they have said or their feelings.
@delicateMonkey
I try to remind myself to use I statements by keeping in mind that I shouldn't assume the other person's intentions or feelings and only try to convey what I want them to know about how I feel.
And when others use I statements I feel less defensive, more open to discussion and attempt to reach mutual solution.
Thank you for the questions 😊
This is so true!