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Renjik8013
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Number of ratings9 Number of reviews9 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Cantonese, Mandarin Listener sinceJul 11, 2023 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 205 People helped37 Chats165 Forum posts105 Forum upvotes120
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Hi there! It's Ren (she/her) here. Thanks for reaching out and nice to meet everyone in 7 cups ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

❤️ Little Things About Me:

Time Zone and Country: Australia (GMT+11) 

Occupation: Bachelor of psychology (honours) student

Hobbies & Activities I Enjoyed: Anime, Drawing, Listening to music & spending time with family and friends 

💕 Chat Availability:

  • In general, I may prefer all of my chats to be about 30-45 minutes but always willing to extend the chat to 1 hour if you would like to chat more. I will do my best to give you adequate time to chat, but please know that sometimes I’m just not available.
  • Please refer to my "Categories" section for a list of topics I'm available to discuss with members. Please try to browse other listeners if you want to chat about "sexual topics and Men's issues" such as desires and sex life since I'm not comfortable and familiar with discussing this. But am open to the chat of "LGBTI+ issues"
  • Please refer to my "online status" OR I may not be able to respond to you promptly
    • Green circle: I am available. Feel free to reach out if you want and welcome new member chats
    • Orange circle: I may not be able to respond to you promptly because I tend to prefer to give attention to one member or currently focus on other tasks. But messages from new members are welcome.
    • Red circle: I am unavailable to chat at the moment. But feel free to leave any messages to me and I will respond to them as soon as possible





Recent forum posts
The magic of active listening
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Renjik8013
Last post
 June 29th
...See more Hello, everyone, and I hope you have had a good day so far! I've been reflecting on the importance of active listening as a social skill and how it plays a vital role in our interactions. Before I learned such skills, I thought I was an excellent listener, with friends constantly sharing their concerns, but there seem to be better ways to support and let others feel heard.  I realised that I was used to hearing the words someone was saying and acknowledging them with sympathy instead of empathy. I've come to notice that the proper way to listen to others is to understand their messages and respond thoughtfully, the main purpose of which is to let others feel like they are being heard.  Here are some key aspects of active listening that I noticed: * presence: being fully present in the conversation without engaging in other activities. * empathy: understand the speaker's perspective and emotions instead of saying things like "That's too bad." * telling them you're listening: offering responses like "yep", "umm hmm" Mastering active listening could help support members in Cups and enhance my connections and interactions with others!  - Discussion questions -  * How does utilising active listening affect your relationship in the real world? * What challenges do you face when trying to practice active listening, and how do you overcome them? Would love to hear your insights ❤️
My journey of critical thinking
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Renjik8013
Last post
 July 31st
...See more Hello, everyone in the IDG community, and it's lovely to read everyone's posts ❤️ I found the course interesting and learned so much from it. Of the five domains discussed in the course, critical thinking is one of the skills that sticks out to me the most. I've heard the word "critical thinking" since my first year of college because it seems to be a central theme of my major. I've never realised that such a skill could also be a big part of our everyday lives since then.  Throughout the course, I've noticed that such skills could help in daily decision-making processes and, most importantly, long-term goal orientation and visioning, which I believe is one of the essential components. As a person who's always self-judging, I believe developing critical thinking can help weigh the pros and cons of options in choosing the best course of action, which is important in various situations.  The tips provided in the course are also extraordinarily valuable, and I aim to practice my critical thinking more.  * Exploring more literature regarding critical thinking, not just those required by my study. * Set long-term and achievable goals * Listen to different people's perspectives - Discussions - * What are some strategies you use to enhance your critical thinking skills in your personal or professional life? * Can you share an instance where critical thinking helped you navigate a complex situation? How did it change the outcome?
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She’s great to talk to and always being emphatic and insightful when talking to me
The best listener. Super friendly and doesn't ask too many questions and is very approachable. Definitely recommend Renji.
best listener on 7 cups, haven't seen such a compassionate human being ever
Sweet and friendly - thank you for listening to me
Supportive and always be there for me!! A amazing listener who really help in relieving my stress ❤️
Warm, kind, responsive, insightful, and authentic - a very wonderful listener!
Simply a fantastic listener and person. Super good suggestions and super kind. Great perspectives also!
Supportive and friendly!!
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