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Courage Grows With You

fruityCherry7666 November 10th

Recently, I have been thinking about the meaning of courage and how it relates differently to different stages of life. The IDG course defines courage as, 

"Ability to stand up for values, make decisions, take decisive action and if need be, challenge and disrupt existing structures and views."

In pondering this definition, I started to think about how courage looks at varying stages of our lives. When we are young, we may confront playground bullies because they are mean to our friends. I am in my twenties now, and having courage looks very different now than it did at any of my previous life stages. For example, In my teen years, my ability to control my self-expression through how many ear piercings I got was worthy of me standing to my parents. However, now, I need to utilize most of my courage in advocating for my continuing education by putting my best foot forward and applying for master's programs, even though it scares me. What I valued in every stage of my life were and are equally impactful and vital to me. However, now, I see things through the lens of someone older and with more life experience and a better idea of what I want in my future. To summarize, the concept of courage stays the same, but our perception of the world and our values change; thus, what we must be courageous about also changes. 

Now, my question to you is: How has your courage changed? Can you think of an example of how you have grown your courage or what you find worthy of courage?


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zealousRose5745 November 11th

@fruityCherry7666 As I've gotten older, I think I've grown more cautious in identifying and avoiding the sorts of dangerous situations that might result in physical harm. It started the second I became a parent.  At the same time, I have become more courageous in connecting with others and stepping outside of my comfort zone.  I am definitely more brave in speaking my truth, even when I know it's uncomfortable for myself or those hearing it.

patientShell1003 November 13th

@fruityCherry7666 hi

MarinaLexi Sunday

@fruityCherry7666 I love how contemplative and considered your post is. It was so enjoyable to read, it gave me plenty of food for thought. :)


That's a really fascinating question! I think my courage used to be much more vocal when I was younger, but over time, it has quieted. I’m not sure if that makes sense! I believe I have also become more selective about what I consider worthy of courage. A few years ago, I would have been concerned with any form of injustice, no matter how small, which, in hindsight, was really exhausting and overwhelming.
When was the last time you needed courage?
lovelyBlossom5344 3 days ago

@fruityCherry7666

I think as i have grown older my courage has changed in relation to being my honest self. Finding yourself and getting to know yourself is such an important experience everyone has typically in their teenage years but I think I masked that by taking on personas of people around me. However when I grew up I finally had the courage to explore my own personality, wants, goals, etc 

EventHorizons 2 days ago

@fruityCherry7666

Over the past couple years I’ve encountered situations that would have sent me into a panic spiral before, but now that I’ve faced them, they don’t evoke as much fear and avoidance. I am glad I took the steps to get out of my comfort zone and focus on growth instead of stagnation!