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Weekly Healthy Living Check-In November 2nd, 2024

PoliteOcean November 2nd

WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN NOVEMBER 2ND, 2024

HEY EVERYONE~


*WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~ This is our "FIRST" Check-in for "NOVEMBER"~🌻🍁🌾🍂


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⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen!



🌻Hey All~ Welcome to the Weekend~ And Welcome to "November"~ How did your week go?


🍁This is our "First" Check-in for the Month~... How do you feel the Month of October went for you overall?... And what things might you be looking to either Adhere to from October OR Do differently for yourself in the new month ahead


🌾As we enter November, we reflect upon the Month that celebrates "Thankfulness & Gratefulness"..... (They say there is Always something to be "Grateful" for).... For this First Check-in of the Month, what is something that you are Most Thankful & Grateful for "Today"?!


🍂JUST FOR FUN:.. What is One Healthy Thing that you do for yourself as you start your day?


🌻What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?!


🍁What is something that "YOU" want to Talk about, Add or Share with us this week?... WE want to hear from YOU~

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Regmo November 6th

@PoliteOcean James has been moved out for 3 weeks. I'm very happy he is gone. Anyways I was going through some old papers and I found some old medical records. There are multiple errors. It's really upsetting. I was living with my mother after I got I injured before I moved in with Leslie.  My mother was a narcissist and slandered me to my siblings. There's nothing I can do to correct these errors.  I wish I could sue my siblings but my brother lives 2000 miles away and my sister Kathryn lives 200 miles away. I have no money to sue. My siblings like to prey upon me when I'm at my weakest. My brother Greg can't remember my medical issues regardless of how many times I tell him. It's really demoralizing. He smoked a lot of marijuana in junior high school and it's catching up with him in his old age. My sister Kathryn thinks all mothers are perfect because that's what the Bible says. It doesn't really say that but I can't change her mind. I'm feeling very angry. 

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PoliteOcean OP November 7th

@Regmo

Hey Regmo~ I can see that you are happy with James being gone. But I do know that things can get tricky when you have to live with others & have no control over that situation or on who Leslie might bring in next to live there… It looks like it’s a feasible time now to enjoy the situation without James being there. But to also prepare yourself for the possibility of someone new at some point. Or until you are able to find a space of your own to enjoy even better!

As far as the old medical records, that’s quite an interesting situation. And understandably upsetting if the information is incorrect. However it has me wondering what the actual errors are and if they are things that possibly interfere with any current medical history? …. As far as your siblings, I would then have to wonder (since it’s not clear in what you stated, & I don’t want to overly speculate there), were the errors caused by your mother? Or by your siblings? (Since you are wishing you could sue them)…. But I would have to think that if you were living with your mom that she also in some way had some type of “charge” of your prior medical care & records? Again as the situation is unclear on why there are errors. 

Also as far as you feeling like your siblings are “preying” upon you, and making you feel the way they are, perhaps you might think about if discontinuing any relationship with them could be in your best interest? How would that feel for you if you did that? Do you think it would make things better for you going forward & with your situation with them? If so, then maybe it’s something to think about? 

As far as your last comment about your sister & the perfect mother, & the Bible… (which I truly hope for her sake that she didn’t state it “that way”)?!… But you are correct in that the Bible doesn’t state that “all mothers are perfect”. …. But perhaps she’s thinking on or speaking of the 5th Commandment in Exodus (& again in Ephesians), where it states to “Honor your father & Mother”? (Which emphasizes the importance of respecting parents & furthers a long life on earth if obeyed)…. And your sister may be choosing to live by & obey that word? (And possibly trying to get you to do the same)? … Which of course is entirely your choice to do what you think & feel is best for you. Familial relationships can be very complicated. And we can tend to hold onto anger & frustrations for so many various reasons when we are dealing with past issues & traumas. 

But hopefully you can decide what works best for you with your siblings (& the medical record situation) going forward. Maybe you could even reach out to a professional where you could talk about the records and see what your options are? Please keep us updated on things. 

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