Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

What is point

User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana November 18th

Am never going be ok

every one try force me feel positive and hopeful but can’t 

feel angry and sad and don’t understand point 😭😭 why have so much happen hurting whole life don’t understand what is point being horrible stupid burden 😭😭😭😭😭

am so tired no one get it am just so so tired

4
User Profile: Remina
Remina November 18th

@theboymoana

I am sorry you're in so much pain. Grief can be so hard. You're allowed to feel how you feel and there's nothing wrong with that. I am sorry that people are trying to force you to move on before you're ready to do so.

2 replies
User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana OP November 25th

@HopieRemi

am just so tired and people keep think telling me there is reason im here is going help when does not help 😭 reason why ? Why have to have whole life pain struggle why there is reason for that besides it sucks and not fair 

say everyone has reason to be here when there been so much people hurt me so bad for no reason so what reason ? They here to make nahoa hurt ? Im just here for bad people to hurt so am to messed up for good people want stay ? 

Hurts so bad idk how am suppose be ok

1 reply
User Profile: Remina
Remina November 25th

@theboymoana

I can understand being tired. People don't get it, People will say there is a reason to be here because people are just trying to help. People who care about you don't want to see you upset, so they will say what they believe is the right thing. I wish I could tell you why life hurts some times. I am 29 myself and have found that sometimes life feels cruel for no reason. But then there are sweet moments that life gives me and you learn to appreciate the good. As silly as this sounds, I don't think I would appreciate the happy moments, if I didn't experience negative feelings too. I know if you are experiencing a lot of negative feelings and negative things, I can understand why it doesn't seem fair. I wish I could tell you that it would be okay or tell you good things are coming soon. What I can say is that how your life is right now, it won't always be the case. It may not seem like it right now but each day you get closer to having a good day.


By being here, do you mean being on 7cups? Everyone has the right to exist on 7cups. No one has the right to hurt you or make you feel bad. I am sorry that bad people have hurt you. Bad people don't care about anyone but themselves. People who like seeing you want you to stay because they want to be around you, not that they want you to keep getting hurt.

So I can't tell you what to do, but if it comes to things happening on 7cups and believe that your mental health is declining due to some individuals on 7cups, it is best to ask yourself what do you need right now? How do you feel about stepping away from 7cups for a bit or even just learning to ignore people who try to hurt you? People can only hurt you online when you give them the power and information to do so. Take away their power, take away the visual reaction, and you have taken away their enjoyment.

load more
load more
User Profile: JemmyX0X0
JemmyX0X0 December 14th

Hey Nahoa I'm sorry you are having a bad time :(

It's okay to feel how you feel and we'll be here to help you <3

How are you today?