What is point
Am never going be ok
every one try force me feel positive and hopeful but can’t
feel angry and sad and don’t understand point 😭😭 why have so much happen hurting whole life don’t understand what is point being horrible stupid burden 😭😭😭😭😭
am so tired no one get it am just so so tired
@theboymoana
I am sorry you're in so much pain. Grief can be so hard. You're allowed to feel how you feel and there's nothing wrong with that. I am sorry that people are trying to force you to move on before you're ready to do so.
@HopieRemi
am just so tired and people keep think telling me there is reason im here is going help when does not help 😭 reason why ? Why have to have whole life pain struggle why there is reason for that besides it sucks and not fair
say everyone has reason to be here when there been so much people hurt me so bad for no reason so what reason ? They here to make nahoa hurt ? Im just here for bad people to hurt so am to messed up for good people want stay ?
Hurts so bad idk how am suppose be ok
@theboymoana
I can understand being tired. People don't get it, People will say there is a reason to be here because people are just trying to help. People who care about you don't want to see you upset, so they will say what they believe is the right thing. I wish I could tell you why life hurts some times. I am 29 myself and have found that sometimes life feels cruel for no reason. But then there are sweet moments that life gives me and you learn to appreciate the good. As silly as this sounds, I don't think I would appreciate the happy moments, if I didn't experience negative feelings too. I know if you are experiencing a lot of negative feelings and negative things, I can understand why it doesn't seem fair. I wish I could tell you that it would be okay or tell you good things are coming soon. What I can say is that how your life is right now, it won't always be the case. It may not seem like it right now but each day you get closer to having a good day.
By being here, do you mean being on 7cups? Everyone has the right to exist on 7cups. No one has the right to hurt you or make you feel bad. I am sorry that bad people have hurt you. Bad people don't care about anyone but themselves. People who like seeing you want you to stay because they want to be around you, not that they want you to keep getting hurt.
So I can't tell you what to do, but if it comes to things happening on 7cups and believe that your mental health is declining due to some individuals on 7cups, it is best to ask yourself what do you need right now? How do you feel about stepping away from 7cups for a bit or even just learning to ignore people who try to hurt you? People can only hurt you online when you give them the power and information to do so. Take away their power, take away the visual reaction, and you have taken away their enjoyment.
Hey Nahoa I'm sorry you are having a bad time :(
It's okay to feel how you feel and we'll be here to help you <3
How are you today?
@theboymoana hi y I can’t send a message in the support room Wht should I do?
Sadly i can relate a bit but this can be so mean to the family and friends who love us,
their still around,
dont give up,
you can do this,
life can really suck but there will be wonderful things ahead too,
take one step at a time
@theboymoana i get u , ur actually tired , u know , when people including myself , can't put themselves in ur shoes , when no one get it and u feel isolated , i know how ur feeling and ur allowed to feel all u want for as long as u want , cuz it just is , u know , ur not pretending , ur real , listen to me , u don't have to force anything , as a person , human being , me , i just want to say , not that ur not sad , u are , not that ur not hurt U ARE , but , if u do nothing about it , nothing will change , am not telling u go laugh and be like am good , when ur not , im saying , it is a process to shift from that ur in , that ur going through , to a lighter side , cuz ur mind , heart and body , are going through all that , and they will stay there if u don't CONSCIOUSLY TRY TO CHANGE IT , am not saying change urself , but nothing will change it for u , all the time even when it is hard , u have 2 choices , so u saying all that as it is about what ur going through is life putting u in that choice , that choice to be in that low state, and as i said it is okay, it is soo hard and true that ur going through what ur going through , and it isn't wrong to feel what u feel , but then , when u feel it and u don't wanna stay there, u move as hardly as it is , to the other choice cuz it is there , isn't true , can't u try anything , send a message , to me, do deep breathing , watch good shows , connect even here ,have hope, am here to help in that, and however hard it is , not seem , it is actually hard , but it is to make u hard, hard times create hard people , and hard people create good times , so, these hard times are to build u up , if u stay there u stay in the hard time and nothing change , small little things , and if u do , which i , uh , i really really hope u do , do it with attention and BELIEVE that it will change in the right time , slowly, BE PATIENT, cuz if u think ur pretending , u will be , believe , do , one step at a time , ALSO ,i get it in thinking people aren't getting it , cuz what ur going through is in ur own shoes , but believe me , people do get it and try to help u , may not know how , but try , and if u don't believe it , im trying to help, if anything again , am here , u deserve all the good.
