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Reasons Not to Give Up!! List Yours

Heather225 March 9th, 2023

(Heads up that this could be a bit of a heavy topic, but it’s a positive one, so please do read on!)

Let’s be real - life’s hard! One second you’ll be coasting, and then suddenly you’re dropping through a trap door you didn’t even know was there. Circumstances come up beyond our control and sometimes you just feel hopeless.

A lovely member here asked me for a list of my reasons to keep going when things get really hard and you just wanna give up, so here’s what soothes, motivates, and inspires me:

- Remembering where I’ve been. I reflect on the things I have survived. I’ve reminded myself, “you’ve been through worse. You have. And you are here. You can do this, too.”
- The things I haven’t done yet. What do I still wish to do? To see? To learn? My story isn’t over, and I know there are still things out there, somewhere, that is worth waiting for.
- My purpose. We all have one. You do too. You may not have found it yet, but it’s on your path. Just keep walking. And if it helps you feel any better about the wait, I didn’t trip over mine until I hit my 30s.

And the fun stuff!
- My bird - I have to be here for him, after all, and my pets have always grounded me when I felt like I could just let everything else go. If you can’t do it for yourself, do it for your pet!
- Food! Comfort food! The joy of trying new food!
- Your favorite show! You’ve got to be here to see if it gets a reboot, of if your favorite movie gets a sequel.
- The smell of freshly cut grass
- Cozy nights sleeping to the sound of rain
- Staycations
- Rainbows
- Crisp weather, turning leaves, big sweaters, and warm drinks
- Stargazing, beach days, and sitting by the fire
- Finding people with who you can share life’s journey with
- Random acts of kindness
- …and so much more

I’ve seen countless ups and downs in my own life, and every challenge and every pitfall has ultimately shaped me into who I am today. If you’re reading this in the midst of a struggle of your own, please have heart and know that you couldn’t be in a better place than here on 7 Cups. You’re never alone.

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What’s your list look like? If you don’t have one, why not start by thinking up one thing that makes you want to keep trying and share it here in the replies.

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NewYorker11 July 20th, 2023

@Heather225

very nice Community Post, i enjoyed every word! this post helped me identify with myself and my own personal goals, as well as giving me tips on how to be a better listener to people going through hardship/difficulty with more empathy and understanding.

Renee2023 July 21st, 2023

@Heather225 pretty much all of your reasons made me smile. Thank you for sharing this post. My reasons to keep going are because I have a son and I have so much more to do and I want to experience some beautiful places in the world and amazing people. I dream of visiting a few countries I haven’t been to. I’d love to have a small dog, I also treasure the small things like walks in the spring, beach in summer and walks in the fall. Good movies, genuinely laughing again which has finally happened a few times.

limegreenTalker2426 July 21st, 2023

My reasons are getting smaller but somehow I just keep pushing through