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Everybody deserves a second chance!

delicateShoe76 August 4th, 2015

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Anomalia August 4th, 2015

Agreed! :)

tanishachill101 August 4th, 2015

Agree

FlowerInDisguise19 August 5th, 2015

Agreed! 💕

HonestlyHufflepuff August 6th, 2015

Third day on here and I am drained. I had 2 chats tonight and one went really well. The other was super rude and left a horrible review, dropping me down to 3 stars. She was sarcastic, then frustrated that I couldn't tell she was being sarcastic (it's typing, and she only wrote like 3 words at a time the entire conversation, so how could I tell?).

That's besides the point, though. I'm really more frustrated with myself for not being able to give her what she needed. It's a core trait of my self identity to be the "good listener" and now people are rating me for it on this anonymous website. It's getting to me more than I'd like to admit. It's got me so down that I can't even feel good about how sucessful and rewarding the other chat I had tonight was.

I was looking for a thread that matched this topic, but "everyone needs a second chance" seemed close enough.

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vissarionthecat August 6th, 2015

It's not you, it's them. Some people just go on 7 cups to release negativity, as if that doesn't affect the listener... You're doing a good job being patient and keeping with it! devil

Amelia August 6th, 2015

@HonestlyHufflepuff -- we can only do what we can do. And, I'm sure you did your best. Some people want us to fix their problems for them and that's simply not realistic. Keep hanging in there. You're doing great!

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Anggi August 6th, 2015

Absolutely!!

delicateShoe76 OP October 4th, 2019

"Remember, you are not alone. And what`s making you feel lonely are your thoughts. "

"The thoughts that made you a prisoner."

"Don`t be that person who has given hope knowing the light is far away."

"It is just your imagination that is keeping you down."

"Lift yourself and shatter the glass of darkness to make the path for light."

"For those who are afraid to change should take a little step, as little things can do wonders."