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FlowerInDisguise19
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Number of ratings56 Number of reviews19 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJan 28, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 621 People helped95 Chats1,088 Group support chats284 Listener group chats509 Forum posts726 Forum upvotes1,187
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❤ On a break from 7Cups until further notice ❤

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Hiya I’m so glad that you’ve found me here on 7CupsOfTea! smileyheart

I have had many experiences with life and now I enjoy helping others to get better as I know how it feels when you are lonely and have no one to talk to, that's why you have come to the right place! I am here to listen to you and support you and guide you on what's best for you. I can listen to you if you are going through..bullying, self-harm, relationships (especially long distance), depression, panic attacks, OCD, religious issues and homelessness. I have also first handedly experienced what it's like to go through an illness so if you would like to talk about any issues that you may be experiencing, message me don't be shy and I will gladly listen to you and help you the best I can.

No question is too big. No problem is too small. There's no need for you to be alone. I can be your shoulder to cry on. Just remember that I love you all smileyheart

Stay strong heart

By the way, meet my lovely friend Winnie the Bear 🐼

P.S. My time zone is GMT, London ☆ so keep that in mind when you are messaging me. You can use www.worldtimebuddy.com to convert times!
If you want a quiet place to be right now you can check out http://thequietplaceproject.com/thethoughtsroom/

For a hug visit http://thenicestplaceontheinter.net/

 

To all fellow listeners, I am a part of:

✓ The Verifier’s team - If you would like to get verified please message me for more details! Or check out this link: http://ow.ly/QGghx

✓ The Welcoming Committee - I'm here to welcome you all!

✓ The Appreciation Committee - Feeling underappreciated? Do you know someone who could use with a bit of love and recognition, message me and we’ll soon be spreading lots of love! :’)

Share some love on our Anonymous Appreciation Thread here: http://ow.ly/QGfEh

My lovely listener twins: @iListenIdontJudgeIcare and @Ibiihere (big shout out they're awesome!) heart

 

Some of my favourite quotes:

"Everyone wants to be the sun that lights up your life. But I'd rather be your moon, so I can shine on you during your darkest hour when your sun isn't around."

"A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because it's trust is not on the branch but on it's own wings. Always believe in yourself."

"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, when one only remembers to turn on the light."

'Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain."

"Every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back."

Recent forum posts
💖 Honouring Annie 💖
Positivity & Gratitude / by FlowerInDisguise19
Last post
 August 12th, 2015
...See more ✸ 💖 ✰ Lovely @Annie ✰ 💖 ✸ Wow this has been a hard secret to keep :o I'm so glad I can get this out in the open now ahahah.. Wonderful community, if you have had the opportunity to at some point to bump into our lovely Annie you'll know just how lucky you are and you'll know what an amazing person she really is! Ever since she joined us on August 6th 2013, Annie has earned 2,848 chats, 161,434 cheers and 193 group support chats. She has got herself a staggering amount of 44 beautifully written reviews by members and 112 total members reviews with an overall rating of 5 Stars! ✰✰✰✰✰ What I wanna say is Annie the impact you continuously make on this site is an amazing one! Your presence in the forums is such a lovely one - we can always count on you for amazing answers and awesome insight! You're such a beautiful uplifting spirit and I totally admire you! You were probably not expecting this at all xD but I hope it was a wonderful surprise for you and not at all shocking ahahah! We love you Annie! You're truly amazing Click me for your sweet surprise! 💝 [http://ow.ly/QP3I5] I'd also like to thank all of the listeners that contributed to this! You're so amazing! Thank you for helping to spread the love! ❤ @Minionator, @Kash216, @Resisti, @Chioo, @Cadence, @Noasu, @Eme, @Anomalia, @Iara, @MissZ ❤ (P.S I'm sorry it's not a huge shout out Annie, it's my first time ever doing a google slideshow xD I didn't have a chance to spam around the form and did it very quickly -_- but I hope you like it anyway - you know I totally adore you and love you to bits!)
7Cups Active Listening - not a counseling website! ♥
Newbie Hub / by FlowerInDisguise19
Last post
 March 14th, 2017
...See more (Forum mentors feel free to move this post as I wasn't really sure where to put this.) Hi everyone  I have thought recently about how many members 7 Cups actually has and it’s mind blowing actually the amount of people 7Cups has helped and is currently helping. But I’d just like to point out one thing. Although I love this site, I believe that members should not come here for constant and ongoing support, it puts pressure on listeners to be ‘perfect’ and sets imbalanced expectations on top of the listener to aid in something that they are absolutely not trained in at all. When members come in they should be aware that this is not a professional counselling website and a crisis hotline. 7 Cups is a free provision in which anyone can become a listener. I see many critical reviews in which members say that their listener was not able to help them enough, but please understand that professional counsellors are fully trained to deal with situations, listeners are just volunteers who take some time out of their lives to help others as much as they can through active listening and offering lots of empathy and compassion also. With that being said, I’m not trying to be disapproving in anyway at all but I just believe that expectations should not be set too high for members so that they are not put down by listeners. Oh and feel free to post your opinions on this!  Stay sweet everyone! ♥  Lots of love, Rabea ♥ Not sure if I tagged you from the right list but please ignore this if you are not interested ♥ @mobbsy @Kash216 @pm229 @poeticguy @ZaraSmiles @maku @Ocean @Resisti @FeatherIce25 @Chrissy @CoffeeTeaAndHonesty @MonBon @Anomalia @AkankshaP @Niko @RebeccaEmily @Zoff @SandyM @Philbear @Suzanne @Harleen98 @caringSmiles20 @guidingMusic @TheLizzyMonster @SophieZhang9805 @Cadence @Annie @laura @Baubs @MelAllyouneedislove @Ace13 @Georgie4 @hiddengrace @zadinator ♥
FlowerInDisguise19's Gratitude Journal ♥
Positivity & Gratitude / by FlowerInDisguise19
Last post
 August 26th, 2017
...See more Hello my fellow lovely listeners,Recently I read an amazing post by our lovely Sam @Soulsurfer [http://www.7cups.com/ListenerDetails/Soulsurfer/] about Adopting an Attitude of Gratitude [http://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/WelcometotheListenersOnlySection_59/AdoptinganAttitudeofGratitude_23768/] it was beautiful and full of wisdom - her idea gave me this idea - to start a Gratitude Journal that we can all share in what we are grateful for each day or generally. I thought it would bring our community together amazingly..I'll start off..1. I am truly grateful for fresh food, warm shelter and water - these may be the simple things in life but they are so so important for living and if we didn't have even one of those - that would be an extreme struggle. For someone like me, who has experienced homelessness - not full homelessness like being out on the streets - but another kind (you can PM me for my story if you wish) I am so grateful for the fact that I have a warm place to stay in, that I do get fresh food everyday, that I have water to drink. I am emphasizing these points because we overlook the fact at how important these things are in our lives.Anyway that's my point across, feel free to start off this post! I'm looking forward to it! Lots and lots of love and hugs ♥
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U r a amazing person
She's amazing!!
Very kind and very understanding, a pleasure to chat with about any problems you may have.
Just amazing, really helped me my giving me the support I needed.
FlowerInDisguise19 is so helpful, professional, caring and on time ! I will definitely be chatting with them again!
Lots of help, actually. Pleasantly surprised here.
I think that Blue was very Helpful, and that she really tries to understand the situation at hand and help. There were times though when it would take some time for her to respond though...
Extremely helpful and very sympathetic
She's so nice! And patient and kind.. She always gives you the time of day and never puts you down or makes you feel worse.. She makes you feel so much better! Thanks alot 💖💖
She's so nice, patient, kind and respectful.. And for that I wanna say thank you ❤️
Helped me with what to do with my relationship, great help, recommended to anyone
Very good listener! :) helped me a lot, thank you
Overall, couldn't have asked for a better listener. Thank you! :)
awesome!!!!
she is amazing and can really help me with anything!!!
understanding
I feel like I connected more towards sweetblueberry19. And for that I feel great! Thanks a bunch for everything I'll totally get ya back online soon!
She/ he it's amazing. It made me feel better. Thank You.
You did great! I appreciate you taking time to help me with my problem!
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