The Life You Are Seeking Is All Your Way!

Heyyaaa You Hopeful People! 💗

I hope you all are keeping well!

Well, this post is a part of the series on the theme I started a week or two ago on Embracing Change

The last few days had been really stressful for me! I experienced a bad burnout! Had been feeling nothing inside me!

It happens right? We all know that something or the other is not right with us! But how to get it right is something that doesn't reach us! I felt directionless as if I lost my purpose! Had been sleeping for hours! And let's not exaggerate that more 😂🥰

But then my story brought me a vibing, positive and amazing climax!

And I thought why not share it out with my pretty family on 7 cups!

The situations I talk about are quite normal so what's so different? I understand your butterfly 🦋 like queries!

But I tell, everything that caused this was a chaotic emotional upheaval that took a toll on me!

If you ask me, what lesson did this leave me with in a one liner! I would say! Today, I realise, Life is the most beautiful blessing on us! Life is all about embracing everything that comes our way! Life is a lifelong learning itself! Life is more than we think it is!

I read it in the amazing book The 5 AM Club by Robin Sharma!

"Nothing is wrong at this moment even if it feels like everything's falling apart. If you feel your life's a mess right now, it's simply because your fears are just a little stronger than your faith ❤️ 💪"

Yes, I know when the pain strikes you, it hits you bad at your heart, your mind and soul gets shaken, your head pains, you feel frustrated and lost, you feel like badly crying out!

But I tell you, Bad times don't stay long as simply as Good times don't!

And why do we categorise "Bad and Good" as two polar opposites! Aren't they equally important for a grateful and humane existence?

Aren't our listeners on 7 cups here because their bad times transformed them to be kind and considerate towards the concerns of the world out there! I really thank them for what they do for us! 🥺❤️🫂

Bad and Good is complementary in nature!

If we don't have the bad, we will never ever realise the joy and beauty of the good! 😊

So how do we go about navigating the tough phases in our life!

Reminding ourselves something! I use the analogy of Cricket, "Life is not always about hitting the ball, sometimes life hits to check your patience"

When the toughest phases of life strike you, be self compassionate, tell yourself that Growth is never linear and setbacks are a part of the progress! (Heard it in a podcast)

Self compassion will make you more resilient!

Even if you feel negative, try to replace it with a different thought pattern! Like the CBT Therapy shared by one of our listeners on 7 cups.

Remember lessons sync gradually!

Be patient in the process! And take action towards your healing and clarity as soon as your mindset improves! (We will discuss this later in detail)

I tell you, faith in the process is highly important in life!

Knowing and repeatedly telling yourself that "Everything is happening for a good reason!"

Remember when we were children? We used to fall down but rise back up again only to find that we as children never lost heart and courage! There was no embarassment! No fears! What we did have was high degree resilience and maturity to know that I will keep trying no matter whatever comes my way! 💕

So why did we lose our immature maturity when we became adults?

Ending it here and more on the way! I will conclude with the most beautiful quote I ever heard of!

Embarassment is the cost of entry. If you are not willing to look like a foolish beginner, you will never become a graceful master!

Grace is growth! And human nature resists it!

So the choice is always yours! What do you want to chose?

Regards,

Resilience