Self-Reflection of a month of treating myself to something nice
So maybe you guys are aware that I had a self-loving months (20th July to 20th August) or maybe you don't but today is the last day of the month. This is a self-reflection on how a month of treating myself to something nice went.
At first, I thought I would just leave it in the middle like I would have done while learning any skills and I came up with a plan of online journaling since I would have to update it regularly as I would have already marked my words to dozen of people on the community.
To be honest with y'll, I've always loved myself but I had never expressed it until this journey started. This journey have taught me more about myself, what makes me more happy, what I deserve, how I should be treated and so on. My self-esteem climbed up the hills and with it did my confidence, positivity and the vibe I get from any surrounding. I would care more about myself and not neglecting both my physical and mental well-being. This got so much into me that I couldn't even take a low effort from someone else to me. I wanted the respect that I deserved because if I was treating myself right, there's no way anyone could treat me the wrong way even if it means I would have to let go of that individual. In a way, it was like I set the bar high for myself and I wouldn't cross the boundary or let anyone do so as I've also learnt to take stand by myself either it be against me or someone else.
Also thank y'll for all the supports you've shown me though out the journey. Maybe I wouldn't have continued it if i hadn't got enough motivation from you guys. I love you all. Thank you for everything.
If anyone desire to check my journal of the month, feel free to do so by clicking here.
Taglist (mentioning the one who had replied to my forum previously)
@JadeAnna @serena11811 @hamzahasphobias @wildflower999 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou
@trueconfidant123 @tiamishere @RoshanaShabanii @passionateThinker3248 @GuiOakes
@lightMap118 @Tauriel98 @limegreenPenny2473 @LoveMyMoonflowers @Curlyheart
@WonNone @Banerjee2006 @EddieL @alicetang07 @buildabetterworld @HassanSyed
@LoveMyMoonflowers
@pandanfe
Aww didn't receive the tag, forums are quite something lol, but so happy to stumble upon this beautiful reflection! 🤗
Its admirable how you took the time to expresss some love and care to yourself, sometimes actively doing and saying something can be greatly helpful and it makes me extremely happy to hear you experienced a self-esteem boost by doing so!
As I said in the previous thread also, may you continue being loving, kind and caring towards yourself forever! 💗
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
I'm grateful for all the supports that i'm receiving from you and everyone else here in the community 🤗 and indeed I'll still continue to love and care for myself <3
also not sure why you didn't get the tag, in this case i assume others might not have got the tag as well
@pandanfe
Aww ofcourse, you deserve it! And and yes hehe, seems likely. I'm guessing its because the usernames post the "@" signs are hyperlinked!
Tagging everyone again as plain text, so they can see your post too:
@JadeAnna @serena11811 @hamzahasphobias @wildflower999 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @trueconfidant123 @tiamishere @RoshanaShabanii @passionateThinker3248 @GuiOakes @lightMap118 @Tauriel98 @limegreenPenny2473 @LoveMyMoonflowers @Curlyheart @WonNone @Banerjee2006 @EddieL @alicetang07 @buildabetterworld @HassanSyed @LoveMyMoonflowers
Hope this works! 🤗
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Aww, that's so sweet of you 🤗
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Thank you for retagging me! 🌞
@trueconfidant123
I would be really happy if you'll give a try to self-love 😊 I'm sure there's a lot more in the store for you <3 Also, don't forget to let me know your experience after you try self-love.
@pandanfe I definitely will, thank you for spreading positivity! ❤️
@pandanfe, thank you for your inspiration. I was going through a tough time when I saw that post and it made me happy to see you being kind to yourself. Your dedication and commitment to your goal has also helped me to better commit to helping myself and being kinder to myself. No need to thank me, it's I who should be thanking you. Thank you for sharing that inspiring journey with all of us
@passionateThinker3248 I'm really glad to hear all these positive responses from you guys. Please do treat yourself the way you want others to treat you. Small changes makes a huge difference 🤗
@pandanfe
so proud of you!!!
Never stop loving yourself ♡♡♡
@wildflower999
Yup, I'll never stop loving myself. Because loving myself have helped me maintain boundaries, self-confidence and self-esteem.