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To being a human!🌸

Sunisshiningandsoareyou June 24th, 2023

Hey hey lovely people coming across, I hope you're doing well. πŸ’›

Came across a really cool something recently and it poked my braincells a little so here I am, sharing with you too! Sharing is caring, right-oo?!πŸ₯°

"Life is too short to be scared of being a human"

It is true!

I feel, the bottomline for the majority of our struggles and worries is being afraid to be a human. (Uber amazing if you think that's not the case for you, how does it feel to be the Universe's favorite lol!πŸ₯°)

Okay, so what could go wrong, if we aren't being human?

We could be lacking perfection.

We could be mediocre at something.

We could be feeling broken, hurt, lost, confused, stuck, angry, monotonous, frustrated, disappointed and every x emotion you can think of!

But that's the thing, being human is being imperfect. Being human is not being the best always or at everything. Being human is having emotions.

Having emotions doesn't make you a bad person ever. You're hurting and there's a lot of sadness engulfing you, but that's the most human thing about you, that you feel hurt, that you feel sadness, that you *feel*.

And the bravest thing? You allow yourself to feel. You allow yourself to be a human.

I don't think there's anything more validating than to be a human, and to remind yourself often that you are, and you're worthy, and you're allowed to be just *you*.

Next time you miss out on nailing something, maybe take a moment to acknowledge that it's okay to miss out, you're still nailing at being a human, and it does count, even if you aren't able to see/ acknowledge it at the time! πŸ’›

Being a human isn't a limitation, it's a possibility, its an opportunity to try each time afresh at being human.

I feel, *human* is like the coolest "rookie" tag lol, made mistakes? It's okay, you tried, that counts, you learned something, that counts, wanna make it count more? Give it another shot keeping the learning in mind.

You're going to have all kinds of days, feel all kinds of emotions, and maybe sometimes no emotions when it gets too overwhelming, even then, especially then, acknowledge the human in you, allow the human in you, validate the human in you, appreciate the human in you! πŸ’›

The essence of your "being" isn't in what you do, the essence of your being is *you*.

Towards embracing, acknowledging, accepting, valuing and loving the human in us! πŸ’›

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Linognathus June 24th, 2023

Before I embraced my inner child, I always an apathetic human that I can’t feel much, that made me wonder am I even a human? Why it feels like I’m broken somewhere? My amygdala isn’t developed well?

But now I could cry on even smallest thing and I like it. I like feeling things, regardless good or bad. At least I know I’m a normal human, I can feel emotions.

If anyone says they wish they can’t feel anything, actually being robot isn’t really fun. I don’t wish that for anyone.

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Clio9876 June 24th, 2023

@Linognathus

Yay! I'm so proud of myself when I cry. Some people think I'm nuts. "Isn't it sad to cry?" Well, yes, but its OK to be sad sometimes. And it's even sadder to not be able to process or release it.

Enjoy your crying. πŸ˜‰

Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 24th, 2023

@Linognathus

Aw thanks for sharing!

That's soo true, wishing on people to not experience their emotions fully isn't a good wish, living life-half-way without feeling all there's around to feel!

Super proud of you for embracing and connecting with your inner child! πŸ’›

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MeaningfulSilence June 24th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Very nice thread Sun! 🌸

Love human emotions, they make us unique πŸ’™

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 24th, 2023

@MeaningfulSilence

Oh hey, it's my lucky week at cups, getting to see you twice haha! 🌸

Thanks for replying, I'm really glad you feel so too, Sil!πŸ€—πŸ’™

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MeaningfulSilence June 24th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Just became a forum supporter so we probably will meet often 😊 πŸ‘

..... I was wondering who's SilπŸ€”...then I realized it's me lol πŸ˜‚

See you around!

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 24th, 2023

@MeaningfulSilence

Hahaha aww I tried coming up with a nickname xD from the username, what do you prefer to be called here?πŸ˜„

And yayy for becoming a forum supporter, we'll certainly bump around often, carry pizza with you!πŸ˜›

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MeaningfulSilence June 25th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Sure, it's good to shorten my listener name with a nickname, Silence sounds good, plus i like quiet places in nature areas and at night!

Here you are a slice of pizza, homemade, it's for today's dinner so I share it virtually but it's also real! πŸ•

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 25th, 2023

@MeaningfulSilence

I must say, your username is quite amazing indeed!

I feel, silence is definitely powerful and incredibly meaningful, you've got to have a good sense of "hearing" to make sense of silence.

Alrighty, Silence it is for you then hehe, I love nature and the quiet nights offer too. Thanks for sharing that! ✨

Awww home made pizzaa! That's sooo nice of you to share, and woah, what a coincidence! xD *noms happily* πŸ₯°

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SparkyGizmo June 24th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Well said sweet human! *high fives* 😊 and *hugs* ❀️

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 24th, 2023

@SparkyGizmo

Aww *big hugs* and *high fives* back lovely hooman!πŸ€—β€

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SparkyGizmo June 24th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

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VictoriaLove7 June 24th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

That is true! ❀
We often feel afraid to show emotions because we may be worried if others may not see us as perfect anymore.

Inspiring and well written, Sunshine! 🌞❀, as owlways

"Next time you miss out n nailing something, maybe take a moment to acknowledge that it's okay to miss out, you're still nailing at being a human." (Sunshine, 2023)
It is in my list of favorite quotes πŸ€—

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 24th, 2023

@VictoriaLove7

Yayy for the super colorful reply hehe, I love it. 🌈 Yesss, maybe if everyone starts embracing their human-imperfect self, we can be less judgy and more kind, more accepting and more loving towards others also!πŸ₯°

Awww thankieees, Viccc, owlways encouraging me!πŸ€—

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trueconfidant123 June 25th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Oki πŸ’›

Sun 🌞 is in form and back to portraying their exceptional writing flair. πŸ“œ Back to enchanting us ✨ with their mind-blowing 😡 and touching content. πŸ–ŠοΈ

Yes, we are all humans. πŸ‘¬ There is no force in this cosmic sphere 🌎 that can take this right away from us. 🌻 Be kind to yourself! 🀝 You are worth it! ⚑

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 25th, 2023

@trueconfidant123

Awwww lovely Confieee, you made my day! Thankyouuu!πŸ€§πŸ’›

And a big yesss to that!πŸ₯°

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Just found this super cool gif!✨

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trueconfidant123 June 25th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Awwie I'm glad. And I love this super cool gif.


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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 25th, 2023

@trueconfidant123


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trueconfidant123 June 25th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

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BooksHugsandTea6370 June 27th, 2023

@trueconfidant123 TC, you know @suni too???? :) Yay!

I love your teddy hug here and thought you should know. I guess I maybe do not know Suni super super well, but enough! to know she is great! (which you know too :)

On behalf of one 7cups friend and in meeting another, thanks for the encouragement and support you've shown even just here at this thread for our friend @Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Hugs to y'all! <3 BooksHugs

trueconfidant123 June 27th, 2023

@BooksHugsandTea6370

Yess! Hugs to you too πŸ€—

Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP July 5th, 2023

@BooksHugsandTea6370

Aww yessss, small cups world haha! You're tooo sweeeet, I appreciate your kind compliments so much, lovely hooman! ❀

πŸ€— *big hugs for special youu* πŸ€—

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MoonLightShadow423 June 25th, 2023

Like I tell my family. Sometimes they explode with negative energy. I say, thanks for sharing your frustrations with me. Keeping it all to yourself is never good. Everyone in this living space is a good person no matter the struggling moments we all have similarly or different. We are all human after all from the title of this thread. There is nothing wrong with that. We are all raised differently along with challenges we deal with.

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 25th, 2023

@MoonLightShadow423

Very validating and kind, thanks for being exactly you!✨

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Depressedsoul24 June 27th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Aww sunn this is soo pawsome post!!! Thank you so much for sharing πŸ’™. I so love this quote "The essence of your "being" isn't in what you do, the essence of your being is *you*." Being human must be amazing if they accepted the awesome human bean they are i think. But sometimes it's so hard to accept ourselves with mistakes we do and harder to love and care about ourselves like we do for others. We being mean to ourselves more than anyone else that time. Is it all happening because we forget being human doesn't mean being *perfect* ? . Thanks again sunnn, keep shininggg! πŸŒžπŸ’™

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP June 29th, 2023

@Depressedsoul24

Hey hey lovely soul, happy to see your beautiful comment here.πŸ’™

Thank youuu so much for reflecting on it and appreciating hehe. Yesss, sometimes hoomans forget they are hoomans and that includes being imperfect.

You said it so perfectly, most of us are harder on ourselves than others when it comes to mistakes and expectations of being perfect always, super necessary to incorporate self compassion and some self kindness in our to-do list haha! (':

*you* are a wonderful hooman. Shining with youu! πŸ’™

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Jupiterbeingahuman July 9th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou It’s all in the username:)

No, but seriously I agree with you. Thank you for everything you’ve done.

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP July 9th, 2023

@Jupiterbeingahuman

Aw haha I love this, and definitely, all in the username!

Thankyouu, Jupiter, appreciate your sweet comment to show support. You're amazing! πŸ’™

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ThatChristLover July 13th, 2023

Tysm for sharing <3

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP July 13th, 2023

@ThatChristLover


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