Thinking of leaving cups. Again.
Lately I’ve been messing up a lot in the rooms and just on 7cups, in general. I’m not doing well in my roles. I annoy people and mess everything up in the rooms. I think I’ve upset some teenie friends of mine… So… (':
I’m not doing okay in general.
7cups used to be a place where I could receive support from close friends and give back. I could be there for others too, even if I’m not the best at supporting I’ve tried. Idk anymore.
I don’t feel like I can ‘survive’ without cups. but at the same time… I feel so aware now of how much I’ve been messing things up, and how my presence here isn’t good for other members/listeners.
I’m sorry… Idk what to say or feel or idk at this point.
I don’t think I’m going to tag anyone this time. Idk….
@LoveMyMoonflowers We all make mistakes. We've all messed up here at some point or another. Maybe we wrote something without thinking about how it might affect someone else. We're human. We're bound to make mistakes.
@mytwistedsoul
sending hugs for soul buddy if okie <3
@LoveMyMoonflowers *sending hugs back* 💙
@LoveMyMoonflowers You don't have to tag me, because I see you. And I will say this, if you leave 7 Cups I will surely miss you. But even if I will miss you, even if your friends will miss you, even if you will miss 7 cups... you have to know that you and your mental health comes first! It's perfectly ok to pause and reset whenever you need, 💜🌙🌸. Sometimes it's called for and when it is, listen to it. Allowing yourself no time to reset can lead to you being unhappy and a person can only take so much. When was the last time you were kind to yourself, Ni? I mean... really... nice to yourself and your mind? Making mistakes is ok. You know what that means? It means you are human and it means you are trying. You have pure intentions and are genuine to want to help. That's beautiful about you; however, remember that you do not have to be perfect or try. You have people who care about you and who value you for the incredible person you are. You deserve happiness out of life and I want you to be happy. Please prioritize yourself at the top and know you are worthy of it. Don't be so hard on yourself, my sweet Moon friend. Hugs! 🤗
@YourCaringConfidant
desi friend 🥺 this melted me entirely. thank you for your vvv kind words. i’ve been talking to you through forums a lot more recently and i’ve learnt that your such a sweet, caring person. i appreciate you so so much and you really do mean so much to me. <3 *huggle wuggles you* i’ll try taking care of myself… idk what self-care would look like at this point :') i hope your taking care of yourself too desi lovely.
@LoveMyMoonflowers Awwww, thank you but there is really no need to thank me. I mean every word and I just want the best for you and to be happy. *hugs back* <3
@YourCaringConfidant
<3
@LoveMyMoonflowers I will miss you if you go. 😢
@FlatenedByLife
i would miss you too (': i’m just thinking about it… and tryna get some things sorted out. <3
@LoveMyMoonflowers We all make mistakes friendo and it’s okie to have times where you do step back from things. 🩵💜🩷 I hope things get better ni and I’ll miss you if you do take a break from cupsies and I’m sure many other people will as well. 💚❤️💚 You don’t have to put what other people think above your health so if you need some time, we’ll be here when you’re ready. :) sending as many or as little huggles as you want 💛❄️✨
@StarrySkies1236
thank you for your kind words, skies 🥺 your such a bright presence on cupsies and i appreciate you loads. <3 sending hugs if okay and loads of love
@LoveMyMoonflowers
ni...you do whats best for you if you leave cups ill miss you so much you dont even know i had made a thing for you i hope you stay long enough to at least see that if u do decide to leave ilyssssssssssssssm ni /p and ill miss u so much but if its whats best for u i understand
@kylersartpace
*huggle wuggles for kyler if okay*
@LoveMyMoonflowers
*sick hugs back for ni*
You aren't expected not to mess up. We all say the wrong things. You should forgive yourself and try again.
Sometimes rooms can get a little tense. What about just trying spaces like this for a while. @LoveMyMoonflowers
@bestVase7265
yeah… i guess it’s just hard to learn to forgive ourselves sometimes. <3 thank you for the little reminder.
i am usually quite active in both forums and rooms… i’ve been a bit slow in the rooms lately :')
I have found this one little corner that I like and I have stuck with for years. I feel like people here respond more slowly so feelings get hurt less often than in a room. @LoveMyMoonflowers
@LoveMyMoonflowers
It is very brave of you to express your feelings and struggles you are going through. I want to first start out by saying on here, you are never alone.
I think it is quite normal for people who help others, such as your self to at times feel that they are not helping. I have been on here for a long time. I have had that feeling in the past, especially when I first started. I will assure you just by being there you are making a positive impact on people. I can tell from your post how much you care about the people you talk to and that is great.
People, just need to be heard. By being kind to the person and letting them vent, you are doing so much. It may feel at times, that you are not getting through to the person, and that can be discouraging. But, please keep in mind that people cope with there struggles in different ways. It has nothing with what you said or did. It is just how people are.
Before you decide on quitting or not. Do me a favor and take off from 7cups for a few days and do some self care. It is very important to take care of yourself. As, some of these conversations can be extremely difficult. After you take some time to yourself. Then log back in and see how you feel.
Also, it may help to create a members account and log in and talk with someone about your struggles and how you are feeling. I hope this helps a little. I just don't want you to give this up for the wrong reasons.
Hi, Ni, Calm “Makes Mistakes” Rosebud here, chiming in to say some words of encouragement for: taking breaks, trying something new, finding new safe spaces, nurturing your own Beautiful and no doubt Amazing self. I am on an “off grid” break myself and it’s so refreshing! Gotta run now, but lotsa whatever you need right now!
♥️🌹
@CalmRosebud
thank you rose <3 sending loads of love.
@LoveMyMoonflowers wraps you up and cuddles you ❤❤ squeezes you tightly ❤everyone messes up from time to time, so don't worry about that. Please know we all love you here ❤I love you
@Tinywhisper11
*hugs you* ily more lola beanie. 💜