TW. Tired of ignorance & mean people
Trigger warning!,
I'm writing this when I'm so overwhelmed. I recommend not reading this, if you misunderstood me it could make you feel bad. It's my point of view and im talking to toxic people, not "you".
Community leaders, if you believe this post is triggering etc, feel free to delete it.
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How do they care about eye color when world is surfing from hunger? Why at the end of most novels I read, they end up having a children, not adopting one? Why they think girls have to be drama queen and boys have to be emotionless? How they don't realize?
Do you know how it feels to be alone? Even after you found some good friends, you know they aren't like you. Their not toxic, that's a relief. but is there anyone who sees the world the way you see it?
Do you know they are homeless children and you have a house for your dog?
Do you think I'm a depressed human? Do you think if im against my culture, I'm unsocial and needs to be fixed?
Come to think of it, I do needs to be fixed, some actions are wrong, if you're toxic I don't accept you for who you are, you have to change yourself.
If you're a soul like me, you realize that I didn't want to offend you. It's just my Thoughts. And if you feel offended, hopeless etc, I didn't want that.
Because I'm happy, even if I think this way. Sometimes I'm not.
Because I have hope. I'm trying to live the best way I can.
Hey there,
First of all, I just want to say, you’re really thinking deeply about a lot of things here, and it’s awesome that you’re not afraid to question the world around you. The questions you’re asking? They’re big ones. And they don’t have easy answers, which is probably why they’ve been weighing on you.
Let’s start with the eye color thing: Why do people care so much? Seriously, it’s like we’re living in a world where if you’re not debating blue vs. brown eyes, you’re missing out on some kind of secret club. And yes, the world is literally surfing in hunger, and we’re over here having eyebrow wars. It’s pretty wild when you stop and think about it, right?
And then the whole “everyone has kids at the end of a novel” thing—Yeah, why is that the universal ending to almost every story? I mean, can we please get a plot twist with a couple adopting a few awesome rescue pets instead? It could be a whole new genre of “happy ending.”
As for the “drama queen” vs. “emotionless boy” thing, yeah, it’s totally frustrating. Like, since when did feelings become so gendered? Boys can cry, girls can play it cool—basically, just let everyone be human, yeah? 🙄
But then, there’s the loneliness. I hear you. Even with good friends, sometimes it feels like you’re on a different wavelength, doesn’t it? You’re not alone in feeling like that. And while it’s frustrating, it’s okay to stand out. I think there’s something powerful about recognizing that you don’t fit the mold and refusing to apologize for it. And hey, if being different means you get to skip out on the “boring small talk” and get straight to the deep stuff, I’m all in.
Now, about the homeless kids and the dog house situation—honestly, that hits hard. It’s messed up. But it’s also why we need people like you to speak up. We can’t just pretend these things aren’t happening. It’s good to care about this stuff, and yes, maybe it makes you feel a little out of sync with everyone else, but that’s what makes you real. Keep holding onto that, because change starts with people who care about what’s not right.
As for the “depressed” label, I want you to remember: you’re not broken. There’s no “fixing” someone who’s just thinking critically about their surroundings. It’s actually healthy to ask the tough questions! Life’s complicated, and no one has all the answers, but asking questions like you are is what leads to growth.
I love that you ended with the part about hope, because that’s really what matters. You’re doing the best you can, and you’re allowed to feel both happy and frustrated at the same time. You’re learning, evolving, and figuring it all out. You’re living your best way, and that’s more than enough.
So, take a deep breath, and remember—you don’t have to have everything figured out, and you don’t have to walk the same path as everyone else. You’re on your own journey, and that’s pretty amazing.
Also, if you ever want to chat more or throw more of these big questions at me, I’m all ears. Keep being you! 💙
Hello there @brightaday
Yeah I over think a lot. I enjoy thinking deeply about this world and people. Thanks I needed your support. Actually I think I know some of it answers, but yes I feel the burden is so heavy.
Yeah, I witnessed someone matching 2 peoples because one had grey eyes.
I think people end up having children because they think "a boy should continue the family blood". And they don't know how to be a good parent and they don't Accept their mistakes. I think less people value orphan children. But their human, too.
Yes, Im so glad you're thinking this way.
My good friends aren't near me, I met them on 7 cups. I don't know if I should be like this or not, but I rather be alone instead of having bad friends. And I like my personality, if I think deeply it doesn't mean I'm emotionless, and I'm glad that you understand me. I'm actually looking forward to find someone who I could share these stuff with.
It is messed up. I believe at the end of the day, humans are important, and you can't spend lots of money on animals when you know humans are in pain etc, I support animals rights but humans are more important than dogs etc. I think unfortunately humans had a special passion for dogs and cats, I don't think they accept my words.
thanks for accepting me for who I am. My point is, if all humans ask these questions from themselves, maybe world would be a better place, but yeah...
Yeah hope is so important to me, I wish I never lose it. I know I could do things to live better. I have to try harder. I just wish my actions lead me to a better future.
You're kind hearted, amazing and super understanding, if I'm not a bother I would like seeking with you.
I give you my best wishes🤍
(Apologize for grama errors)
I am here for u. And i will be glad if u reach me ❤️
@brightaday
I don't know why but I can't massage you, please would you leave me a pm?
@BlackBlueWhite
yeah that makes sense. people tend to have alot of standards for people that are fictional. like you said they expect men to not cry and women to be so overly dramatic. or they think certain cultured people need to sound or look certain ways. its wrong. or they judge someone off of something they didn't clarify themselves. anyways i hear what ur saying.
@honestGrapefruit820
Thank you for reading it, responding & hearing me.
I love this.
Very direct.
And very true. I love my country and its freedoms but too many people in it place too much importance on very insignificant things, in my opinion. We need more love, compassion and understanding.
I'm glad you Loved it @1BraveBunny
I hear you and I understand. Yes I believe we do need more love and empathy for humans who need.
Wow! Both the question and the replies are amazing!!
That is really something
Kudos to you for having the courage to ask these questions which nowadays no one asks
So looking forward to all the replies!
@honestCranberry8287
Thanks for your support and kind words
I feel better when I understand that every person who communicates with me has made their own choice on how to communicate with me. And this choice is the most comfortable for them. The person made the choice not because I feel bad, but because of how they can build a relationship with me. This choice does not depend on me. I am not responsible for this choice, I am not the reason for this choice. This choice was made by my loved one for their own comfort.
@BlackBlueWhite
you start with trigger warning.. why does your thoughts and opinions justify such in a world where every aspect of us is supposed to be equal, including thoughts and opinions?
I get what you have posted and all I can deduce is you are seeing the less than ideal world we live in and venting. That’s ok and we hear you. Thank you for posting.
can I ask what changes to society you’d like to see?
I ask but know while asking i am not delusional to the fact that society is inherently flawed and it’s impossible to make (fair)
@LabeledBPD
Thanks reading and supporting my theories.
I add TW because maybe a teen read this, maybe they end up feeling that there isn't a solution for this world and they lose their hope, so I just add a tw out of being considering.
Well I know one day a big evolution will happen and would would be a better place. But in my idol world, there are still some mean behavior etc, because I know it's in the human nature. But if I want to name few, I think it would be better if we save the amount of money we spent for dogs & cats (not the medical part) and use it for the children of Africa.
One other thing is, from now on nobody will throw out their leftovers, we could make a place where they would make leftovers fertilizer etc.
And we should teach our children that all humans with different looks are equal.
I know maybe they sound ridiculous or cruel but if you want to fight over world's hunger or high temperature, we most act. But you can't make someone do that, it's up to every human being, how they like to live.
These aren't all of it but I already talked too much.
@BlackBlueWhite
I understand and look please believe I won’t argue with you, happily debate things we don’t agree on or agree to disagree. Not everyone can agree.
people starving in this day and age, going without clean water or nutrition to at very least maintain survival 😤😤😤. I’m stopping there as it will invoke a rant that won’t achieve anything.
you have a good heart and we can only really do what we can and be the change we wish to see.
i understand the conversation has been long and i suspect somewhat unexpected from yourself? Stay true and kind and hopefully speak again sometime. Nice to meet you.
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I apologize if I said something that makes you feel we're auguring. That's correct, sometimes we agree & sometimes we don't. No offense taken and from my point of view we didn't argue, I think we're just exchanging our Thoughts.
I'm ok with long conversations, I'm ok with talking again. Nice to meet you too
@LabeledBPD
@BlackBlueWhite
no i didn’t get that impression at all, I apologise if I made you think that. Definitely not arguing.
It’s just not to common place that people can disagree yet have constructive conversations that result in respect for agreement you disagree. I do think or have seen any reason for this occurrence from what you have said i agree completely.
I guess it’s my way of confirming you might understand me and signaling I recognise you as a balanced mature human. Such a quality, the simple agreement to disagree is not very welcome in lots of places.
I am a bit odd and sorry if I gave you that impression.
i can be a bit overbearing or to much hence my .. you probably wasn’t expecting such long and hefty communication. It was a get out of jail free, my mind is difficult to understand.
@BlackBlueWhite I can completely understand where you are coming from. This conversation is so important for us to have and we as a society need to do better when it comes to empathizing with other people! You took all the words out of my mouth, never stay silent please use your voice as it is empowering.
