I think my boyfriend deeply dislikes my culture
One more time I find myself in this situation. We’re in the car and I’m in charge of music. I usually play rock from the 80s because he likes it and me too, but sometimes I want to play Hispanic music and it’s almost like it’s not allowed. I try find music that is in the same spirit as the stuff he likes, and every time I try playing just one song he gets upset and tells me it’s unfair that he has to listen to my “comfort food music”. Even if it’s just one song in a full playlist. Today I sinc the phone and it was on a playlist I was listening on my own earlier and a nice song in Spanish starts playing and he loses it. He starts yelling and tells me all my Spanish music is s**t and those people sing like they don’t care he doesn’t understand them, like they’re mocking him or something? I try to understand why he dislikes Spanish rock, or oldies or anything I’ve tried playing. He tells me I’m selfish for choosing that music, even if it’s just one song in a whole playlist and yet we listen to the same American music over and over. Idk I feel a type of hurt with this I don’t usually experience with family and friends, only with outsiders who would mock anything they don’t know. I am Hispanic and im living in the US im just trying to reconnect from time to time with my culture. My boyfriend is American. Don’t know what to do.