I feel hurt

It sounds like you take him much more seriously than he takes you. That would be disheartening for anyone. Maybe you could step things back before ending it? He might decide to come around, but it's your choice whether that's even enough.

I don't know the answers though, I just know that you don't deserve to feel like that

i think that if he is going to let his family decide his partner for him and if he doesnt even make time for you, he is not worth it. You deserve so much more and i know it does and will hurt if you leave him but you deserve so much better. You deserve someone who will take you seriously and make time for you. Who will love you just as much as you love them. This sounds one sided and it sounds like you definitely took the relationship seriously and he does not and maybe never did. Thats sad. Dont waste any more time with him even though i know itll hurt to separate, with time you will heal and a true loving person will come to you. Wishing you the best. :) 💞

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Unfortunately families who are caste oriented are rarely bendable and he might be being detached now because he knows it can’t be a long term relationship. It may not mean he didn’t love you at the beginning. He just didn’t think it through well enough and realised now he can’t follow through it. I’m speaking from experience of my friends in the past.

it will be painful but when a door closes, a better one opens always. That is the hope I wish to give you.

stay strong and I wish you all the best 🫰🏼

Ohhh

I think he is scared to hurt you and break up with you. I think you should have a talk with him and decide if you want to end things together. If you do it together at least you know that you’re both on the same page. I know that it’s difficult to end things with someone you love. I’ve done that sometimes it hurts more to prolong the ending.

But if he’s willing to work this out you need to really figure out if this what you want. His family may or may not accept you ever. He might not like that idea if he chooses you in the long term. He might not mind that he might think that’s okay but this is something you really need to talk over.

It’s difficult to be the one who is dumping the other person sometimes.

Please do what’s right for you and what you feel is right. 🩷

@Ichhdjdndsjdnd

*hug*

first step communicate and tell that to him to see how he reacts

but before that you need proper me time to forget about his nonesense and distress go treat yourself to something nice for a while

second step if he already decided to move on you should too , clearly he changed his mind or wasnt truthful from the start so you need to sit down and breath and let the emotons run through and when all the sadness leaves you with the last tear you can start thinking again

@Ichhdjdndsjdnd My heart goes out to you! It sounds like you're going through a really tough and painful situation. Being in a relationship where you feel unseen, unheard, and unvalued can be incredibly hurtful.