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Homeless next month...

User Profile: Jewels2270
Jewels2270 2 days ago

Hello, I'm about to become homeless soon... I had a good run I guess...oh well


My ex gf I recently found out probably cheated on me I'm not mad at her she has every right to find somebody better and I couldn't believe such a good person was with me because of my internal mental issues.. she was gonna help me with my money issue but she told me she found somebody else so I said I'm happy for her and left.


My toxic parents are blaming me for going to be homeless soon because I didn't choose a successful career, struggled with myself to find a job, how I can't do anything right and I'm just on the wrong path. I struggle with depression,trust issues and many other things.. I might have BPD but I'm not a professional.


My toxic parents want me to work for basically for their own benefit basically it's gonna take up most of check if I decide to go to work then basically give my money away to them for their bills. I'm not moving forward to my future that I want.. I'm just stuck.. it's so frustrating and complicated..


Honestly, I don't feel like doing this anymore there's so many things to worry about in this world... War,food,housing,money, etc... it's too much on me... I'm so overwhelmed and stressed out. I had to find out that my career choice years later would be completely worthless (artist) more and more people are using AI and it might be replacing some jobs for good because honestly employers want to find the most cheapest option I don't blame them. I can't afford a life for myself, neither my happiness...


My ex gf warned me I should just run away from my problems (my family situation) but what will that do... There's no solid plan afterwards I'll be homeless then what. Besides I have a special needs brother and my other brother isn't that very responsible to look after him...


If anybody has any advice for being homeless for the first time. Please leave it in the comments.



Goodbye, thank you for reading.


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User Profile: brightaday
brightaday 1 day ago

Hey, I’m really sorry you’re going through all this, but hey, life’s tough, right? But it’s not the end of the road. A lot of people go through some seriously rough patches and come out the other side stronger. You’ve got that strength in you, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.


Look, your artist dreams might seem out of reach with all the AI stuff going on, but hey, who says you can’t ride the wave? Maybe you can be the AI artist of the future. Who knows? And if you need to pick up a side gig for now, no shame in that either.


As for your parents, I get it they’re being tough, but don’t let their words get to you. You’ve got your own path to walk. And life is messy. Just take it one step at a time, even if that step is just getting through the day.


Being homeless is scary, I know, but it’s a temporary thing, not a permanent label. Look into shelters, local resources, or support groups there are places out there to help. You’re a lot stronger than you realize, and you’ve got more options than it feels like.


And remember, you’re still here. That means you’re still in the fight. Just keep moving forward, and even when it feels like you’re stuck, small steps matter. You’ve got this. We’re all cheering for you!❤️❤️❤️❤️