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User Profile: littleSkies20
littleSkies20 January 6th

Hi there

I am new to 7cups but so glad to have come here, I am 30 plus in a relationship which seemed to have gone downhill real bad.. and during this period I met my friend (someone I dated 19 years ago) .. he seemed to be so caring and genuine.. that I really thought he cared for me in true sense however later I got to know he was seeing someone else and never cared to mention all that whilst proclaiming his love for me ..


everything felt so painful, I love my partner and felt so horrible for believing that ‘fake’ friend & thinking he really was a well wisher … i don’t know how to get over this pain …it feels like betrayal ..


I blocked him however I feel like I needed some closure … it just feels really painful …



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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 January 6th

@littleSkies20

so proud of you for blocking him. that's one of the toughest things to do. i am sending you love and strength <3 glad you joined Cups and i hope you find connection and healing with us

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User Profile: littleSkies20
littleSkies20 OP January 7th

@heather225 thank you so much for this, you know it’s been so tough to come to terms with certain things specially when an image of someone turns out be exactly opposite of what you thought … lost a friend and I think lost a good human being too

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User Profile: batgirl1234
batgirl1234 January 6th

@littleSkies20 That is awful, and especially during around this time. I'm glad you blocked him. I don't understand why people see other people behind other people's backs like that?

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User Profile: littleSkies20
littleSkies20 OP January 7th

@batgirl1234 I knew we didn’t have a chance … but what was the harm in being open about it .. what’s there to hide is what I didn’t understand… and why all those false claims .. all this made no sense 😓

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User Profile: rainySky7185
rainySky7185 January 7th

I am sorry you had to go through that but you blocked him and that a brave thing to do 

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User Profile: littleSkies20
littleSkies20 OP January 8th

Thank you dear

@rainysky7185 but I really wanted some closure 😓

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