I need a hug and a little validation... I'm living with a woman that is very mentally ill and oftentimes downright delusional and whenever I see her, she starts a fight for no reason, literally, the last time I came back from shopping, she complained that her dog was barking at the door to my floor of the house while I was out because he smells my cats.
Then she claimed that she had to deep clean the dining room because of my "Muddy Boots" because I put bags from Home Depot and a wire wall rack by the front door, walked in through the garage, in through the kitchen, across the house to the front door, pulled the bags inside, closed the door, then walked the 8 feet to the stairs and went to my floor and she started ranting about all the water and mud... Except it hadn't rained, there is no mud, and if there were she'd have had to wash all the floors across the house because I only opened the door to grab my things. I was told that "I'm making it just as hard for her to live here as she is making it for me." Oh, the best part of all, I'm "Judging Her" and being a B**** by asking her to close the garage door, especially when she leaves, because I can't get all the spilt niger bird seed up off the floor and I don't want bugs and mice taking up residence in the garage and I don't want people walking past to be able to steal our stuff! It's one thing if she is going in and out but I've left and come back to an empty house and the garage door is wide open and the door to the house is unlocked! And NO ONE IS HOME! And I've LITERALLY been told to "Just Let It Go". It's reaching the point where I am honestly thinking of opting out... If not for the welfare of my 2 cats, I would have acted upon my suicidality by now... I can't stand that no matter what I do, I'm the bad guy... Literally, no hyperbole, trying to get her to not leave the house open to a walk in robbery makes me the bad-guy. Sigh...
@EmmaLP