Looking for a Listner
Hi Im looking for a verified listener who speaks english and reads fluently be cause I have a hard time with spelling and writting things clearly a ttimes so I can be hard to understand at times Id prefer female I feel more comfortable talking to a female at times I need someone with paitence that wont be condacending other than that Im not sure else Im looking for please so you have suggestions please feel free to say so
You are welcome to message me if you'd like to chat. It's hard to be precise about what you are looking for in a listener, and I think often some trial and error is the only way. So maybe we can chat for a while and you can see how you feel about it, and if you don't feel good you can try someone else.
@SomebodyyouKnow
@SomebodyyouKnow
You can message me anytime, I can do my best to help you :)
Im still looking for a listner a female who is verrified trained listner please
You can browse listeners and search for verified listeners, but 7 Cups does not verify the gender of any listener. I'm not even sure what it would mean to verify listeners' gender. If you want to find a listener who identifies as female, then you might have to read several listeners' profiles until you find one. I cannot imagine that finding a verified listener who identifies as female will be difficult or time-consuming.
@SomebodyyouKnow
@RarelyCharlie thanks i just dont trust the majority of the male mindset thats why I want a female listner but it saying that females I dont get and i find hard to connect with but more likey trust another over a male with a possible alterior motive
That makes it sound like you don't find it easy connect with anyone no matter what their gender is. I don't identify as any gender at all on here, but I'm not sure whether that helps you or not. A lot of people seem to think I'm male, but maybe that's just because of my name.
Maybe another approach you could try is to read the feedback comments in listeners' profiles and see whether you like the sound of them based on what other members and guests have written.
@SomebodyyouKnow
@RarelyCharlie you could say that and I think it'd be accurate but again it all depends on the day
It's difficult for you. Yet you've come back to this forum thread again and again to reply. Not many do that. It gives me hope that you'll be persistent in your search for the right listener, too, and that eventually you'll find someone you can relate to and trust sufficiently.
@SomebodyyouKnow
Hello, I am a female listener and English is my first language. I an a relatively new listener but please feel free to message me.
@SomebodyyouKnow Hi there, I'm a new listener and intern. I'm female and English is my first language. I am usually pretty good at understanding others who have difficulty spelling. Feel free to message me if you want to see if we're a compatible member/listener team. :) Best of luck finding the right listener.
Looking for a listener... I struggle with emotional issues along with a few other things. I would prefer someone older then 25.. but I'm really not picky. I'm really looking for a bond .. I get lonely sometimes.