That Butterflies in my Stomach Moment

@Athena108 😂😂 well done its a very good thread ❤❤

Personally if you have butterflies in your stomach, I advice you to stop eating caterpillars😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I can't answer this question I've never dated, or had a crush😕 yeah! I'm wierd😋

@Athena108

 I had crushes and fell in deep love twice in my life and i can tell you the Butterflies thing was not there or i did not notice....love can happen in many forms and movies and books make it seem like it is at first sight or so magical  you know beyond everything is a fairy tale .....and so many feel left out of this "experience" 

It is IMO the idea that this is what happens that confuses some that it must not be real because they did not have butterflies.  In my case I disliked the person who became  my first love we spent decades together it was when we got to know the person inside that love bloomed.......that is why i tell anyone who asks how will they know or how should it feel it is different for everyone.  

So much time has passed & I've met so many people, I barely recall... The first crush that I can remember & did not pursue was on a girl named Tara. I was around 14 or 15 then. She was a lean brunette, with a few freckles, from a well-to-do family. A quiet & reserved sort. She was cute...not a 10, though. Maybe a 6.7 if I'm being generous. But at the time I thought she was the hottest thing since sunburn & the loveliest lass I had ever seen. I never got the butterflies-in-stomach feeling. (I felt something much different but will refrain from describing it) 😈😆

It was probably for the best that nothing happened between us. Tara wasn't from the same city as me, & my parents' net worth was nowhere near hers'. We didn't have much in common.