I wish I could tell everybody that...
I wanna die, cuz I don't wanna spend my life without a couple. I don't wanna feel like I'm not good enough anymore.
I'm in a relationship with someone who has cheated on me before and that I'm scared he'll do it again, that's why he's so nice to me now.
@ariesatheart16 i know how u fell maybe we should talk. Conctat me please
@hardworkingKite239 I'm not sure how
That I'm terrified of certain things including loud noises and certain guys. Even though I'm outgoing I get scared really easy and stuff freaks me out.
Hug your loved ones like you never have before, give them love that they will never forget and continue to do this everyday you can tell them you love them and treat them with kindness and respect because you never know if your gonna be able to hug them again
I wish I could tell everyone how I really feel. Whenever I try to tell them the real reason why I have cuts on my arms or why I'm so sad, I just choke up... I say "the cat did it" or "I'm just tired" . I just hate looking at myself. I feel so stupid all the time 😔
I don't feel like I do anybody any good, and that scares me... not being able to help people, not being able to do anything possible to make them as happy as they can be
@Unknownbug
Actually, you might be surprised. Sometimes when we think we aren't doing anything to help or aren't worth much, there's someone out there who looks up to you. You might have even saved their life without knowing it. Honestly, even giving a simple simile to a stranger walking by, could have changed their life. Or if that kind of sounds a little "far-fetched" then at least you made their day a little more happy
I'm scared to death of love even though I need to be loved so badly....and I don't think it's probable that I'll ever have love......so when I like someone or start to fall for someone...I become extremely depressed....and the depression gets bad. No one I talk to about that (which aren't very many people) do not understand that.
I am extremely suicidal all of the time and that there is no end but I just keep going even though I don't want to.
I wish I could say that my sadness is legit, and I don't want it to be a joke anymore
I wish I could tell everybody that yes, my hearing is getting worse and yeah we all get frustrated when I can't hear but I try really hard and 9 times of 10 when we speak I do watch your mouth to read your lips just to try to make it easier on you and not make you repeat what you had said. I just need things slowed down sometimes.
@Silenceishard I totally understand how your feeling. It gets so frustrating and embarrassing having to ask people to repete themselves so many times. Just remember to stay patient and remind others of that too :)
P.S. I've found that by adding in some humor, it helps to ease any tension and kind of make things easier to handle (this works with my friends at least.) Try making jokes about how everyone talks gibberish or if someone tells you your getting old then reply back with "Well at least I'm getting wiser!" Hope this helps.
@SmilesFace60 thank you :) humour is normally my go to! I don't know what else to use! My favourite one is "sorry, the ears were just painted on" when people don't know I can't hear haha
@Silenceishard lol that's a good one, I like that! Sometimes just for fun I'll ask my friends to repete what they said over and over, even though I heard it just fine the first time. They eventually make themselves look like dorks, it's pretty great
@SmilesFace60 it can be fun, having to lip read when someone speaks fast is the worst though!! My parents give up after repeating it so many times haha
@Silenceishard
Haha it really is a struggle! Are you good are reading lips? (if that person talks at a reasonable rate of course.) If they talk as slow as a snail moves, then I can read their lips but overall I'm pretty bad at it. Usually I'll have some fun with it and make up some crazy & halirious story of what I think they're saying, and end up laughing at their face. Doesn't always help, but neither does talking fast
@SmilesFace60 thanks to both of you for sharing this. I will do my best to be kind when I am asked to related myself since perhaps someone is self-conscious of a hearing issue. Thanks for reminding me to be compassionate.
@SmilesFace60 I can lip read decently haha I got through a week of school fully lip reading because I didn't have hearing aids! There's only hearing schools here and next to no deaf/hard of hearing community. Most people just move away! It sucks haha
@Silenceishard wow, I'm impressed! I'm sorry that sucks. Not having people who have the same problems as you is hard, but because of that it makes you kind of stand out of the crowd. Personally, I think that's pretty cool. Still, there are other people here on 7 Cups that I'm sure have a hard time hearing like myself, who you can always talk to if things really suck