Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

I wish I could tell everybody that...

mylifeaseva July 21st, 2016

write what you wish everybody knew about you.smiley

3183
Shylaa14 December 15th, 2016

I wish my life wasn't such a mess and I had my shit together

1 reply
fairmindedJet2702 December 15th, 2016

@Shylaa14 same here completely

load more
December 15th, 2016

I hate myself. I hate how I get attached easily to guys. I hate that I grow fond for an unrequited crush. I hate that even after knowing they don't like me, I still go after them. I hate that my crushes are so strong they cause awkward situations. I hate that I don't know how to act around guys and I end up scaring them off.

I hate that I lost a good friend that I got attached to because I felt myself losing him. I still care about him and miss him. Even though I know he'll never see me the way I wanted him to, I want to talk to him. But I dropped him because of a nasty argument.

I wouldn't want to tell everyone this but I'm sure my friends are tired of me whining about how guys I like reject me.

RowanSawyer33 December 15th, 2016

I wish I could tell everybody that I like girls...

fairmindedJet2702 December 15th, 2016

That I am a person I do have feelings and a heart it would be nice for certain people especially one in mind right now to stop walking all over me and to leave my family alone be more of a mother to your kids and stop trying to bring harm to mine and myself

H0mie December 15th, 2016

No matter how great of a person you are, I'll still find a reason to isolate myself. It's not your fault.

Teapot90 December 15th, 2016

I'm a 26 yr old virgin and I feel so alone, I feel completely incompetent compared to everyone I know. I wish it didn't hold me back from pursuing relationships but I fear I'll be judged: that it's signifies that no one has gotten than close to me so I must be mentally/spiritually "broken". I just want to be normal.

2 replies
Compassion21 December 15th, 2016

@Teapot90. Being a virgin is a great thing, mabey you can wait till you find the one if you believe in that. Also i meet so many people in your age range in a similair situation, your not alone and your not strange.

1 reply
Teapot90 December 19th, 2016

@Compassion21 How do they deal with it? Or how would you suggest I deal with it? I feel like every girl I could ever have a relationship with is going to have that thought of "can I be bothered dealing with someone who doesn't know the basics?" And that they'll reject me. I feel I don't have much else going for me or that what I do doesn't out balance the inexperience I have. When I message girls they're always chatty for a while then it always tails off.. like I lack that something to keep them captivated to even begin a relationship that could turn sexual.

load more
load more
perrotriste123 December 15th, 2016

im scared and i have suicidal thought i wish i could tell my friend how much they are hurting me. i wish i could go far far away to a place where no one could hurt me

1 reply
Compassion21 December 15th, 2016

@perrotriste123. Im sorry your scared and struggleing with these thoughts. I too struggled with them for a very long time. Remeber death is not the answer. Id like to show my support for you.

load more
BellasHuman December 15th, 2016

I wish I could tell people I am bi, but I am too scared about how they might react. I've only told three people ever.

I wish I could tell people how upset I feel when they are all talking about having children. I would love to have a child more than anything, but have had to make the heartbreaking decision not to for the sake of my health and theirs.

I wish I could tell my family how much it hurts when they don't grasp how much pain I am in and how damn hard I work to try and live a mostly normal life, especially when they treat their temporary injuries as so much more important and worthy of TLC than my long term pain and fatigue. It hurts to be told that they don't care about my pain when they are in pain, as if it is a competition. I am capable of being sympathetic to their pain despite my own, why can't they do the same?

affectionateAcres9301 December 15th, 2016

I feel so lonely ..... so much that it hurts. And things seem to get worst

2 replies
Compassion21 December 15th, 2016

@affectionateAcres9301. Acres im so sorry your lonely, please keep coming here there are people like me who would like to show love and support

bhara033 December 16th, 2016

@affectionateAcres9301 hello... I have been feeling the same way for a few years now... I know how it feels and it can be hard to cope... I am currently in therapy and it helps for a short while... One coping strategy I have adopted and find useful is to write in a journal about how I am feeling on any given day... although I don't do it very regularly but I find it helpful on the days that I do... I think its a good tool to use for those who are highly emotionally sensitive and introverted... also if you ever want someone to talk to, feel free to get in touch

load more
KittenSaunders15 December 15th, 2016

I'm so desperate to be a mother, and start a family with my partner. After our miscarriage in our last pregnancy at 13 weeks I'd felt so broken and empty, like a failure of a woman.