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User Profile: raymond1203
raymond1203 November 19th

2023 was a hard year for me. i had a couple losses that rocked me to my foundation. i’m finally feeling ready to socialize again…but it’s been a long time and im an awkward person.


my ex was my entire world and when that all ended i felt broken and lost. the realization that i lost everything and have to start from scratch again was a lot to deal with. having no friends has been a bummer. i constantly feel alone.


i just miss having someone to talk to and laugh with.

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User Profile: MindfulJourney22
MindfulJourney22 November 19th

 @raymond1203 I'm really sorry you've been through such a tough time. It sounds like you've faced a lot of heartache and the feeling of starting over can be incredibly overwhelming. But it's also really brave that you're starting to reach out again. If you ever feel like talking or just need someone to listen, feel free to message me. You're not alone in this, and sometimes just having someone to share a moment with can make a difference. Take your time, and know that healing is a process—you’ve got this.

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User Profile: raymond1203
raymond1203 OP November 19th

i was just closing my eyes for bed when i saw your message. thank you very much. that means the world to me. you’re a really nice person.

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User Profile: annacat7991
annacat7991 November 20th

@raymond1203 I understand what you’re going through. I recently moved and don’t have any new friends. It’s difficult making them as an adult. 

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User Profile: raymond1203
raymond1203 OP November 20th

yea it’s rly difficult. i do believe if we stay on our paths and stay positive and fun that once we get the ball rolling it’ll be no problem at all. kinda like riding a bike…a lil wobbly at first but once we get moving we’re good. i’m just rly struggling with this wobbly period lol i know ill get to a good place but rn it is rly difficult 😕

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User Profile: annacat7991
annacat7991 November 20th

@raymond1203 That’s a great outlook to have. Unfortunately, I’m still in the “feeling sorry for myself” stage. If you ever want someone to talk to, I’m here ☺️. 

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User Profile: crimsonPapaya7218
crimsonPapaya7218 November 21st

@raymond1203 we're friends now, no question 

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User Profile: raymond1203
raymond1203 OP November 21st

yussss!! haha frfr i appreciate ya

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User Profile: turquoiseThinker9871
turquoiseThinker9871 November 21st

Hi, Raymond.


I find myself in a pretty similar situation, and if you want to talk sometime that would be great.

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User Profile: raymond1203
raymond1203 OP November 21st

thank you! that means a whole lot.

yeah last year and the beginning of this year were rly hard. i pushed threw and life today is good. so i dont wanna ignore my blessings. but it’s also very lonely sometimes. i appreciate ya reaching out.

i hope you’re feeling good today 🙂

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User Profile: conscientiousLake752
conscientiousLake752 November 21st

Heyy, honestly i think we relate and I'd love to be friends :)

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User Profile: raymond1203
raymond1203 OP November 21st

*** yea love that! where ya from new friend??

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User Profile: conscientiousLake752
conscientiousLake752 November 21st

Heyyy! I'm from Asia wbu?

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User Profile: raymond1203
raymond1203 OP November 21st

wow that is cool! i am from america. how are you feeling today

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