How to Know a Person
I saw this author talk about his book on Ewww-tube (I only said it like that because I think the word might get censored). The title is what grabbed me (see below with link). I have experienced seeing others more deeply (to a small extent) and it really did change at least what I know is possible with human connection. When you’re able to see others deeply they respond in wonderful ways. Tagging @tryingtosurvive2024
How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
@PineTreeTree ewwwtube haha!😂😂😂 I'm not allowed to use ewwwtube, so I can't click that link. But I believe through listening and kindness, and a bit of goofyness and honesty we can learn a person most ❤ wow! That's quite a long list to get to know someone. Maybe we should just shake hands and call it a day😁
@Tinywhisper11 Or you could just walk up to them and give them a hug. 😊
@tryingtosurvive2024 hugs are much better 😁 ❤ rolls up to you and hugs you tightly ❤
@Tinywhisper11 I think you ran me over. 🤗
@tryingtosurvive2024 😂😂😂😂😂 my brakes don't work to good in these icy conditions😂😂😂♿♿♿♿♿
@Tinywhisper11 I once told a woman, (online) if you want a man all you got to do is get a tranquilizer. Find a man you like, and .... 😜
@tryingtosurvive2024 tranquilizer🤔🤔🤔 don't put ideas in my head!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Tinywhisper11 Don't worry. That is just my sense of humor. 🤗 I think you should just stick to running them over. Just kidding! 😉
@tryingtosurvive2024 😂😂😂 to late I just bought myself a tranquilizer gun😂😂😂 I'm glad I have lots of room in my basement😁😁😁
@Tinywhisper11 I think you are a very sweet Woman, and whoever gets tranquilized, is a lucky man! 💖
@tryingtosurvive2024 😂😂😂😂😂😂 your so sweet ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11 I have been thinking about writing a post about that. Because currently there is 2 people online that call me "Sweetie" and one of the two almost calls me that exclusively. If you start doing it, then that will make three people. 🤪 I enjoy being sweet. But it takes the kindness of the other person to make that work in a full circle. 😊
@tryingtosurvive2024 I call you sweetie, cause you are so sweet😋
@Tinywhisper11 If I were any sweeter I'd be sticky. 😍
@PineTreeTree Thank you for thinking of me. I will watch or listen to it. But it will be a while since it is 57 minutes long.
@PineTreeTree While listing to it I thought about C.S. Lewis because I have many books by him. I was thinking about Choosing Your Faith by Mark Mittelberg. It is an audio book that I am re listening too. Basically I agree with David Brooks. But I think about the real world. The world I live in. If I was around people a lot, outside of work, then maybe his suggestions would work. But I'm never around anyone outside of work anymore. Grocery store but nobody carries on a conversation there.
@tryingtosurvive2024 Not all rewarding human connections require conversation. Seeing others is a skill and it can give us opportunities we can’t imagine. Even in the grocery store! In fact it is a skill that is really easy to practice in places like grocery stores.
@PineTreeTree I don't know what you mean. Everyone is absolutely silent at my grocery store. They don't make eye contact or anything.
