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Learning from our setbacks!

User Profile: tommy
tommy November 22nd, 2023

Happy Wisdom Wednesday!

There are usually always a few bumps in the road before we end up somewhere desirable. After all, rocky roads often lead to beautiful destinations!

Think about a time in your life where you experienced a setback. When something unexpected occurred and made you rethink your plans. How did it help you? How did it support your personal growth?

We should encourage ourselves to view setbacks positively; they are opportunities for us to grow and develop. Let's take some time to reflect on how our past challenges have shaped who we are today!

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User Profile: kenzolena
kenzolena November 22nd, 2023

@tommy

Over the years quite some events happened but also over the past years I become who I am today. All those passed events shaped me to the person I am today. All my experiences add to my knowlegde and that all I will use to move forward in life. When I think on how it made me grow, I think it learned me what I do find important and what i dont. but they also have impact on how I act and treat people and I think that bc of my past it shaped me into me who I am today

User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou November 25th, 2023

@tommy

every cut, every bruise, every person who hurt me made me me. I wouldn't be who I am here today if I didn't go through what I went through. 

User Profile: EmpathysGarden
EmpathysGarden November 26th, 2023

@tommy

A really interesting piece fo advice someone gave me once was to think of life as working in balances. Whatever I wanted, I would be charged for similarly. For example, if i said i had dreams and aspirations of being rich and being a company owner, i would be tested consistently in several positions measuring my responsibility, leadership, budgeting, financial decisions, etc. The bigger my dreams become, the more i would be tested in return :)

In thinking of the challenges i have faced thus far in my life, I know 100% that they have shaped me into the individual I am today

User Profile: KatePersephone
KatePersephone November 26th, 2023

@tommy
Let's take some time to reflect on how our past challenges have shaped who we are today!

one of my biggest challenges I'd say had always been attachment haha. I get attached quite easily. So it has shaped my ability to easily get close with people and honestly be vulnerable with them. That is not necessarily a bad in all situations, but I am working on it so I don't end up in dangerous or hurtful situations

User Profile: Daf8
Daf8 November 29th, 2023

❤️ My setbacks have made me wiser, more attentive and more prepared for what's next. Even if they caused damage, they've also helped me to evolve ❤️