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My dad is dying of cancer

bluedave September 14th, 2022

I don’t feel anything. I’m numb

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calmMango9611 September 14th, 2022

@bluedave So very sorry to hear this.

I really am.

Praying for you and your family.

magicalOcean594 September 14th, 2022

@bluedave


im so sorry you are going theough this rough and unexplained time. I know that grief stages happen and you may even be in shock, i can provide you with the stages of grief as since he has not passed you may be in a certain stage and you can look at these stages they dont have to be in order you can skip stages , stay in the same stage for awhile but obviously the ultimate goal is acceptance and that takes time love<3 https://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/.



i hope this link helps. Remember that this is something that shouldnt be rushed, you are going through a very traumatic time and it’s important that you know that<3 have you considered maybe a grief support group some are free online and even in person or even a grief counclior that may better help you through what your going through?

Lilmeeee September 14th, 2022

@bluedave Giving heart and warms, i wish i had magic hands to heal. ❤️ Daddy is always your dad. Love you papa.

Redirecting September 14th, 2022

@bluedave I'm so sorry to hear and recognize this phase of processing his illness ...how challenging this can be. Yes, please give yourself time to process. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

--- My biggest prayer is for you to find a balanced level of acceptance, strength, and peace during this time. ------ May your father be comforted. You have some good resources here, and I hope that it assists you along this major transition in your life.

Sib88 September 14th, 2022

@bluedave

Hello, Bluedave.

My sympathies for what you are going through, truly. Words may lack any meaning in this time. Even so, I wish you a good support system. What you are going through is traumatic. Understandably it can bring along emotions that can be tough to bear, to decipher and prossess. Please know you there may be options for you to have support. Please feel free to reach out to listeners, use the sharing circle chatroom, or continue to post in the forum.

I am a regular user btw. No hidden agenda.

gentleChestnut6002 September 14th, 2022

@bluedave I am so sorry.

considerateWriting43 September 14th, 2022

We are all here for you.


TheDreamer September 23rd, 2023

@bluedave

Sorry you are going through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My dad passed away in 2012 from cancer and it is difficult. Make sure you take time to take care of yourself. Take care and God bless.