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Help my mother is a manipulator

Oceanthinking8455 November 12th, 2021

Please someone help me, im so scared. My mother is a fucking manipuslator who gaslights me all the time. For every single thing. She is crazy. She uses crazy ways and tecniques, and im so exausted, really. She just manipulates at inimaginable levels. Im scared. Im so scared becouse im exausted, my brain isnt working well. She brings you proposely on that level. It's like that. She uses ways so evolved, so subtle. Its crazy, she just hates me. She's a heartless person. I really am struggling. I tought i found a way to talk without being manipulated. No. She does it. Every time. She corners me. Not becouse i don't defend or distanciate myself. But beouse thats her goal. So doesn't matter what i do. Shes always gonna aim for that. In too many ways. Becouse thats what she wants. Its so scary. Becouse sometimes i have to talk to her. But i'm so fucking exausted, sometimes i dont have the energy anymore for anything. Im not exaggerating it, in scared becouse i literally don't have any energy anymore. My brain can't grasp all that she's doing. Literally. I dont know how someone can be this gaslighting. This manipulting in so grand ways. She just fakes, fakes, fakes. Everything. Its like that. And its confusing becouse she does the victim so well and for so long time. That others believe her. So she puts me in a position were im obligated to her, becouse in front of everyone of my other familiar members, she's right, shees the poor victim. And they are also so manipulating. Like her. Im so tired. I don't know what to do anymore. I think shes narcisistic. A lot. I don't know what to do anymore.

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Niharikareddy November 12th, 2021

Hello I really understand your problem because I also having the same issue in my life too. Don't worry be strong and bold u have to listen to ur heart and brain. Donot listen to her words.

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Oceanthinking8455 OP November 14th, 2021

@Niharikareddy thank you for your words and for responding. Its really difficult for me, becouse im exausted, its been all my life but this years its jut been worse. It always worsens. Its crazy i don't know what to do anymore to distanciate myself mentally

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HeartWillow November 12th, 2021

You need to get away from her as soon as possible. I’ve been through the same experience with my Mother. Seek help or call the police if it gets serious!

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Oceanthinking8455 OP November 14th, 2021

@HeartWillow thank you for your words, its so sick living like this, and its so difficult

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