@Chrissy9419
Hi there, as a child growing up in the 80's life was tough financially. When I think back to childhood memories the happiest ones for me are the ones where my Mum and Dad spent time with me and my brother. The times where we would sit and laugh, listen to music, play boardgames and just have fun. I don't remember 'presents' that were given to me.
I'm really sorry that you cannot afford a party for this child, but how about something just as fun and exciting .... what about a treasure hunt. You don't need to spend a lot of money, but you could involve other people, with clues, rhymes, and the prize could be something as simple as some chocolate, or an IOU for a day out (which you could then budget for). I remember my Mum doing a treasure map of where we lived, the clues were things like " sit here and relax until 8 Red Ships have passed " Just to note the ships were cars ๐ I know it may not be safe to do that now, but you can get creative.... and even involve your neighbours or local shops if you know them well enough (a clue in their shop window leading them to the next stop).
All in all, the memories your child will keep are ones where they have been given the gift of 'time' rather than presents. I hope it goes well for you and let us know if you want some help with the treasure map
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