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Find A Friend

littlestolive March 21st, 2015

Let's play Find A Friend! Post your first name, one hobby, and one random fact about you! Also post two qualities you look for in a friend! If you feel you match someone's else's qualities, reply and say hi to your new friend! :)

I'll start: My name is Olivia. I have really been into crocheting lately, once I have free time from schoolwork. A random fact about me is that I have been to tons and tons of concerts and get super crazy about them, even though I'm naturally shy. It's like it brings out another side of me. Two qualities I'd like in a friend are that they must be able to geek out with me to music, and they must love dogs!

Who's next?? :)

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neverendingMango46 March 11th, 2018

Hello to anyone reading this! Im 17 and more of an introvert than extrovert, which causes me to worry every time I make a new friend because Id hate to lose them due to my terrible social skills. My hobbies include drawing, pc gaming, working out, but most of all writing. Ive always had a childish love for novels and that crisp book smell that comes from a newly bought book. Early on I realized that I wanted to create stories, share my own ideas and explore the depths of my imagination to see how far I could get and what I could discover. If one word could describe me, it would be adventurous. Ive traveled my entire life and I never plan to stop, Id love to meet someone who shares my passion for adventure.

Im a friendly person, and I generally get along with anyone! In all of my experience with losing friends, Ive found that the most trustworthy ones are those who you find online. I welcome any awkwardness, for Im just a bundle of it myself, so please, come chat. c:

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Qvin March 29th, 2018

@neverendingMango46

Hi add me on Steam you can find me as Q V I N 666 if you can't find me I'll send you a link to my account

Louiseashbel June 25th, 2018

@neverendingMango46 Hi there! my name's emmylou, i'm 19! my message box is always open if you want to chat, i love writing as well :D have a nice day

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DakotahWasHere March 11th, 2018

I'm Dakotah. It's really hard for me to open up to people and I feel really awkward even posting this. 😬

I like to run and go to the beach and I really love reality TV shows. ☺

And I'd like to get to know just about anyone.

TidyCat2381 March 28th, 2018

Hello! My name is Sam

I recently have lost my friends..or have been replaced by them..idk sucks...moving on

I'm 16

I'm quirky and clumsy..and i want friends who will listen and be silly bring a smile to my face. I like Bring Me The Horizon and Panic at the disco. I also enjoy conversations on kittens and Kylo Ren.

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Mack0629 March 30th, 2018

@TidyCat2381

Hi! I'm always here if you want to talk and I also love kylo ren lol!

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imaginativeDime6827 April 4th, 2018

Hey! Im Avery and like a lot of you I suffer from loneliness.

Ive been really trying to meet new people, experience new things by myself as a coping strategy but it is so hard since I enjoy being with people and I feel upset when I see people with groups of friends all happy. I feel bad for being envious but its definitely hard not to feel upset about not having something that seems so simple. To distract myself I play games on my PC as well as go on adventures with myself and my dog like I said before. I am lucky to have my family who loves me in my life so they do things with me occasionally but I still always feel like I have a huge void. I try to meet new people but no one seems to be interested and Im really trying to get to know all types of people but Im having no luck. How do you guys cope with being lonely and trying to make new friends? I can have a hard time dealing with this and would love to try new things to improve my situation if you guys have any suggestions

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Azalia May 18th, 2018

@imaginativeDime6827 I realize this was posted a little while ago, but Hi! You and me sound quite similar. What games do you like to play on PC? Any other interests?

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MattLawhun April 5th, 2018

Hey, I

Ashley0626 April 7th, 2018

My name is Ashley and I'm 32. I'm going through a really bad time with loneliness right now.

Some of my interests include: Old Hollywood, old movies, classic TV and history.

I'd love to make friends but because I'm 32 I'd prefer you be in your twenties and older, please no minors!

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Chiaroscuro1 April 7th, 2018

Hi @Ashley0626. You can find other people in their 30s here.

kewlbleu May 13th, 2018

Hello @Ashley0626, I'm also 32y.o. female. Living in the states. I moved away from things about 5 years ago and I've found it hard to find people to hang out with. It would be nice to get to know each other if you're game.

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bizarrelizard June 8th, 2018

Hello everyone! I'm going through a period in my life where my old friendships are growing apart, and I'm attempting to make new ones which makes things kind of lonely. I just graduated college too so a lot of things are changing.

In my spare time I love to play video games. I love the RPG genre, and right now my favorite games are in the Final Fantasy franchise. I'm also a science geek and love everything from dinosaurs, to DNA, to the latest technology. When I'm not playing games I love to write. I'm working on several novels right now and trying to avoid getting carpal tunnel haha.

I'd love to make some new friends with similar interests, or even people that just want to talk. I'm extremely introverted, so I can probably relate to a lot of introverted-type hobbies.

Aussie88 June 14th, 2018

I lost contact with everyone I know after graduating from high school. Despite working in customer service and talking to people on a daily basis, there's a very big difference between serving a customer at work, and having actual friends that you can just talk to and interact with. Because I've been so isolated for so long I suffer bouts of anxiety whenever I do try and talk to anyone and it's really gotten to the point where some random woman from the salvation army had a chat with me on the street and i almost fell apart, purely because somebody actually showed me genuine kindness and compassion. And I can't turn to my own family about it because they're all very much the opposite to me, and as a result I end up feeling extremely uncomfortable opening up to them, and theyd feel extremely uncomfortable if i tried.

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Peacefulmeadow June 16th, 2018

@Aussie88

Hi Aussie 88

im going to my cousins wedding this evening. I was sitting on the couch watching the Food Network channel and then I decided I need to go take care of myself so I actually went and got a pedicure manicure and got my hair trimmed. So today was a spa day for me and believe me I normally dont take care of myself like this especially the pedicure and manicure.

My mom will be moving in with me and she is a great support to me. I was thinking how Im not very close to my relatives.

I was then thinking how will I do down the road if my circle of friends is extremely small and Im not close to my relatives.

I stumbled across 7 cups of tea this morning and I appreciated the encouragement and advice. A lot of it had to do with finding my hobbies my interests and learning how to be happy within. I know I can do it and at the same time I need a encouragement advice assurance and reassurance.

sometimes I think I do better with knowing people in passing. This means when I come across people in the community and I show a smile or a good attitude and I have a little conversation.

peace be with you

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Aussie88 June 17th, 2018

@Peacefulmeadow pampering yourself sounds like it would have been really amazing.

Having that closeness with your family is important, I struggle with it though. Generally at family events I find myself sitting off to the side buried in my phone while they're talking amongst themselves.

And yes, I can understand knowing people in passing. Working at a petrol station, I tend to see my customers when I'm out and about and we recognise each other but it's Not much more than a polite hello.

I just wish I had the confidence to not feel so awkward opening up to people and maintain a long-lasting friendship and not feel such strong anxiety in social situations.

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OldSoul1111 June 16th, 2018

@Aussie88. Just know you are not alone in this. There are many of us that are here for you anytime you need someone to talk to. We may not be able to change the world, but we can help you through your tough times. 7cups is a caring and compassionate community of people who understand. Feel free to message a listener and find someone you feel comfortable with and connect to. One day at a time ...

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blueClementine157 June 24th, 2018

Hi I'm new here looking to make friends I'm 36 I like reading fantasy and horror books like writing and horror movies are my fav

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diplomaticBeach8952 June 24th, 2018

@blueClementine157

Hello there, I'm 35 male, I would love to chat with you sometime. Not sure how, we're both memebers ..

I watched a horror movie yesterday at the theatres, as a way to treat myself this weekend, it was horrifying :D the movie is Hereditary .!

Aussie88 June 28th, 2018

@blueClementine157 g'day, how's it going. I'm new to the site too. Its hard to meet new people.

So you read fantasy books? Think the last fantasy books I read were the dragonlance series. Its so easy to get lost in a good book and just escape for a while. And you said you enjoyed writing? What do you write about? I used to write short stories a long time ago, haven't picked up a pen in years. Now it's more sketching and drawing more than writing. :)

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Louiseashbel June 25th, 2018

Hello, i'm emmylou, i'm 19. i'm in between college and uni, got a wonderful 3 months to find something i enjoy doing. my friends are all abroad and are very busy, i guess i'm on a different timeline to them. that's fine, i'm just quite isolated.

Introvert // Artist // loves Seinfeld, food, writing and Neck Deep

Have a good one! :)

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Aussie88 June 28th, 2018

@Louiseashbel hey Emmylou. Being isolate totally sucks, I know the feeling. But hang in there and feel free to shoot me message if you need a chat. I saw you said youre an artist. Personally, i enjoy drawing and sketching. What kind of art do you do?

Also.. heeelllloooooooo Jerry.

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