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January 2021 Events - Motivation

blitheEmbrace27 January 20th, 2021

Hello everyone!

Welcome to the first event of 2021. This event's theme is finding motivation when you have depression.

Finding motivation can be really difficult, especially when you are experiencing depression. It can even make it feel impossible to stay motivated at times. However, finding motivation can help us to feel better. It makes us feel like we have completed and stuck with something.

Here are some ways that can help us stay motivated while experiencing depression:

Exercising

Exercising gives us a shot of dopamine and boosts other chemicals in our body, which may reduce our depression. It can help us with motivation by making us feel better. It doesn’t have to be extreme exercise, it can just be a 10 minute walk outside! Start small and work your way up, setting goals can be helpful!

Being Social

When you talk, or even spend time with others it can make you feel like you are not so alone, causing a positive impact on our motivation. While socializing with large groups or new people can be scary for some of us, speaking with people we feel comfortable with such as close friends and family can be a huge motivator for ourselves.


Avoiding Triggers

Triggers can make our depression worse, causing us to lose motivation. While some triggers are hard to avoid, taking steps to avoid them can be beneficial for us.

Proper amounts of sleep

Depression can make getting an adequate amount of sleep difficult. However when we feel tired we are less likely to want to be motivated. We can take small steps to try and help with our sleep, such as setting up a bedtime routine.

We can also do things like set goals, journaling our progress, and celebrating our goals to help us stay motivated. What works for one person might not work for everyone, so it’s important to find what works best for you when it comes to finding motivation.

You are invited to participate in our 3 day events:

January 21st, 2021 - Forum icebreaker session ‘Favourite Motivational Quotes’

January 22nd, 2021 - Chatroom discussion on ‘Staying Motivated with Depression’ at 3pm EST in the Depression support room.

January 23rd, 2021 - Chatroom discussion on ‘Lack of Motivation and Goals’ at 5 pm EST in the Depression support room.

We hope to see you there, and we wish you a great rest of the year ahead and hope you reach all your goals for 2021!

You can also participate in this forum discussion, by answering these questions here:

1. What are some ways that help you to stay motivated?

2. Does your depression make staying motivated challenging?

3. What are some goals you have set for 2021?

4. Do you find it hard to have energy to stay motivated?


All sources can be found here https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/315862#getting-exercise

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Daf8 January 26th, 2021

heart @blitheEmbrace27 heart

heart Hello! How are you? Thank you for this post! heart

heart I remember the reason why I want or need to do it, I take my time if I need it, I listen to myself and do what´s best for me, I prepare everything so doing it is easier, I establish a goal and a routine, I try to stop my thoughts and just do it, I make it better with something enjoyable, like music, I use a reward system, I use positive self-talk, I think of something like "For my cat!" and then do it for my cat´s sake, and put myself first. heart

heart Yes, it does! It makes everything complicated and tough. For example, I wanted to post this yesterday, or the day before that. heart

heart I want to learn, to feel better in general, dedicate more time to 7 Cups, and just improve as much as I can. heart

heart I do! I have no energy at all, and motivation just goes away. It is a battle. Remember, person reading this, that you are bigger than your difficulties. You are bigger and better than what you are going through, and you got this, no matter how hard it is. heart

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Celaeno January 27th, 2021

@Daf8, thanks for joining in! Even if you wanted to post your reply earlier, what matters, in the end, is that you shared with us your thoughts. That's really great and should be recognized!

"I establish a goal and a routine, I try to stop my thoughts and just do it, I make it better with something enjoyable, like music, I use a reward system, I use positive self-talk (...)" <- this part resonated with me! I am doing something similar - trying myself to distract from the negative thinking on the day to day basis, and just do the thing ^^

All the best!

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Daf8 January 30th, 2021

heart @Celaeno heart

heart Thank *you* for your kind words! You are amazing and really sweet. Aww, thank you! You sound like a strong, smart person! I want you to know that we all are here for you, and that you are incredible! You got this! Thank you for existing heart

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Celaeno February 3rd, 2021

@Daf8, gosh, thank you, lovely ^^; Hope you're having a peaceful week. Best!

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Daf8 February 3rd, 2021

heart @Celaeno heart

heart Thank *you*, amazing person. Hope you are having a week as awesome as you. Keep being you! You matter and are incredible heart

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MckXiarhos1315 January 28th, 2021

Hey

inventiveFarm5285 January 29th, 2021

Lock up. When will it end? Feels like lock down is forever.with no one to talk to.its awful

delightfulComfort8628 February 22nd, 2021

Always look on target

delightfulComfort8628 February 22nd, 2021

Never be afraid

delightfulComfort8628 February 22nd, 2021

Be daring

delightfulComfort8628 February 22nd, 2021

Take risks

delightfulComfort8628 February 22nd, 2021

Live freely

delightfulComfort8628 February 22nd, 2021

Dont worry about past

delightfulComfort8628 February 22nd, 2021

Think you are the best