6 Tips To Combating Depression
Long ago, I put together some tips when I was working on a project dedicated to coping with depression! Whilst these tips are obviously nothing new, I hope some of you can learn at least something from these tips!!
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TIP #1:
A study found that our brains are normally hardwired to focus on the negativity in our lives. That sucks! However, one of an optimist's secret to happiness is to challenge negativity with positivity. How does one accomplish that? Through gratitude and mindfulness. To really open up your perspective and look around. Many times, when we start treating life like a blessing, it starts feeling like one! No one said that would be an easy task, so if you find yourself struggling to be mindful for a couple of weeks, don't give up! Standing up against your wiring was never meant to be simple!
SOURCES:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wired-success/201406/are-we-hardwired-be-positive-or-negative
TIP #2:
WHOO! EXERCISE! Who doesn't love to get all sweaty n' stinky? Well, in order to become mentally healthier, it doesn't have to be that way. You can walk your dog, ride your bicycle, or take a stroll in your neighborhood's park! Refresh your mind and let go of all your worries, allowing each and every step you take to be therapeutic. :)
SOURCES:
- http://www.webmd.com/depression/features/does-exercise-help-depression
- http://www.webmd.com/depression/features/exercise-and-depression-expert-q-a
TIP #3:
Loving yourself is a struggle many with depression endeavor, and even for the average person, it was never meant to be an easy task; we are constantly forced to recognize our flaws by other people or certain situations. However, never allow your flaws to define you! You have far more strengths than weaknesses, believe it or not. Heck, sometimes our weaknesses even serve as a peculiar form of strength! You have enough strength to walk, to read these ver words, and to breathe, but you can't draw. See what I mean? Go as basic as you can; light doesn't have a size, but it always has the same effect. :)
SOURCES:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/maybe-its-just-me/201004/loving-yourself-how-important-is-it
TIP #4:
Who would've known that translating your feelings into words could be so therapeutic? You know why that may be? This is because feelings are almost unexplainable, but when we have the ability to describe them as how we interpret them, relief pours upon us like rain. The pencil/pen/writing material and the paper will not - and never - judge you. It's effects may or may no be limited if you type your feelings on a computer or phone rather than writing with a pencil or pen on a lined sheet of paper, but find whichever way works for you! (:
SOURCES:
- http://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/Putting-Feelings-Into-Words-Produces-8047
- http://psychcentral.com/lib/the-health-benefits-of-journaling/
TIP #5:
Many with depression tend to lose interest in hobbies or activities they once enjoyed and staying at home seems more convenient to them, but if they can find something they love to do at home, they can slowly branch off into the outside world, and so on! Since everyone's cases are different, it isn't this easy for everyone. Remember that these methods won't always work the first time you try them; you have to keep trying and allow the effects to come eventually. Those who wait patiently tend to exhibit more in the end, whether positive or negative, than would an impatient individual. Difficult paths often lead to beautiful destinations. :)
Also, coloring and doodling have, in fact, been proven to reduce stress and anxiety! It won't completely take it away, but don't let it discourage you: it shall grant you a sense of relief when you realize that it helps in SOME shape or form.
(Don't always color those complicated designs in coloring books; they tend to stress you out even more. If you want to, though, go for it!)
SOURCES:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/arts-and-health/201401/doodling-your-way-more-mindful-life
http://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2015/07/doodling-for-cognitive-benefits/398027/
http://bebrainfit.com/anti-stress-coloring-books/
TIP #6:
MUSIC!! YASS!! Some people don't like it, but I'm sure most do! Music can release dopamine and other positive chemicals in our brains! Did you know that your favorite songs tend to be your favorite because they have an association to an event in your life?
Singing along with your music, dancing, or becoming involved is even MORE beneficial, as you are now literally becoming PART of the music.
Music is also known to help people out in stressful situations and/or depressed situations, so make sure you use it to your own advantage! (:
SOURCES:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/your-musical-self/201101/why-music-listening-makes-us-feel-good
https://www.psychologies.co.uk/music-makes-you-feel-better
I hope some of these tips were able to help out at least ONE person, or someone who needs a small push to continue smiling!
Below are some statistics on depression, too! :)
SOURCES:
http://www.nami.org/Learn-More/Mental-Health-By-the-Numbers
http://www.nami.org/NAMI/media/NAMI-Media/Infographics/GeneralMHFacts.pdf
Oh, and by the way, you're an amazing person. Did you know that?
These are some great tips, tho I've seen so many others too. :)
However, with the music section, I'm one of those with depression who whenever in depression, end up playing severely, and I mean SEVERELY depressive music, primarily Depressive/Suicidal Death Metal, can last for hours at a time or even days. It seems to get the job done for me rather than playing mainstream alternate rock with a sad beat (I know quite a few people IRL who use alternate rock). It all reminds me of the last 15 years of my SC experience with peers and my mother that I can't overcome today, along with my own other mental issues. ;3;
Tip 5 with the end paranthesis sentences regarding to not always use coloring books cracked me up BTW. I am against them in all ways in my opinion, and would rather draw something from scratch then color what I drew. I see more imagination with coloring in your own doodles and having less stress over it, plus more creativity is involved. :3
"Oh, and by the way, you're an amazing person. Did you know that?"
...I'm not amazing, but thanks? XD
@Pikashuppet
As long as your music helps you, that's all that matters!
Ahh, yes, the coloring with Tip #5? Yeah, it definitely doesn't really sound appealing to everyone, but your perspective sounds quite interesting! I'm glad you found a way that works for you!!
And that last part... Well, you got through my whole post. That makes me feel like I've actually written something worth reading. Thank you for that!
Great tips!
After so many years I only really feel I'm applying those tips now.
I would say honestly that mindfulness and awareness has been the hardest one to practice for me. Being mindful means being aware of the present moment and how you're feeling and when what you are feeling is depression, pain and despair at the world then this isn't something you'll want to do. However I'm finally now doing it after many years and it really is rewarding.
Music for me was the only thing that got me through the lowest points of my depression where I literally had no friends. It was my saviour in those dark time, no joke!