I'm feeling lost
For me I just wana yell my situation but my family are so judgemental and the pipo i thought were my friends were actually fake and now I developed this feeling whereby im too desperate for new friends coz "all" my old ones left me. And it just hurts all the time. I can't focus in class coz I miss them but they just don't care. Idk wat do now. Then there's this girl, she knows I like her but wants to make things so hard. Talking during the lockdown has been super hard like I text and idk whether "its because she knows I love her so much to get pissed at that" she just ignores me and replies sometimes weeks later and I try to play cool but it hurts always. Why she does this idk and I have decided to get her out of my life permanently but ik when I try that, she gone return begging us to stay friends and saying sorry and all excuses and wat hurts is I love her too much to yell the truth at her. Idk what to do. I feel ive been abandoned. I feel im all alone. I cant even understand myself. I've been crying alot. I've been so confused. I miss everything that used to be. Does anyone have advice. I also feel depressed, useless, anxious, unsettled and always thinking. :(
Hello moon, don’t be ashamed to rant , were here to help. Dont directly tell your family how you feel, tell them indirectly, or hint to them about your situation, maybe even try explaining to them in a way you think they will understand you knowing how they think. Fake friends are everywhere, you just always have to be careful when choosing friends in general. If they left you that easily, then they don’t deserve to be your friend. Its okay to be sad about them, but always know your worth. Your better than to chase people to be your friend, if they dont want to be then its their loss. Always remember that people either come as a blessing in your life, or as a lesson. People in life come and go, and this is perfectly normal, it happens and thats totally okay. For the girl that you love, dont let her manipulate you into keeping her in your life when shes hurting you. Its not worth the pain in the long run, its better to feel pain now, than to constantly feel pain for however long. Dont listen to her begging you, because if she really cared, even as a normal friend, then she wouldnt even treat you the way she does. Trust me man its not worth it, put your self first, because if you dont, then no one will. The best thing to do now, is to try to get to know yourself, instead of looking for new friends to occupy your time. Find new hobbies, new interests, and within doing that you might naturally make friends by having stuff in common and what not. I hope this helps!
I have hobbies but most involve pipo being there. For example, computer games, basketball, soccer, taking walks with my friends
Thats better to involve people being in your hobbies, theres nothing wrong with that. But be more Careful in who you allow into your life for your sake.
I hope so but I'm just so confused like I need a genuine friend but I dont understand why they would just abandon me like that. We have been friends for 4 years with most and I just don't understand. It just hurts so much. With the girl, im done with her. I'm making it clear later today. I've decided to organize myself. For my friends, im switching school and I hope to make only 2-3 friends. At most, 5 friends. I just never want to get hurt like this ever again. I know I will miss the girl but I know when I try to move on, I eventually will move on
Ill be your friend 😊
Wow! Thankyou. Uve made me happy coz I actually have few friends
My family always want me to feel guilty about literally rvery decisions i make. And they do it indirectly by involving religion and all that and it just irritates me more. I mean, when I make good decisions (I almost always make good decisions) they keep quiet. 1 mistake and they yell about it for a week if not 2 and it just annoys me
My friends go through this, but its not the end of the world don’t worry, all you have to do is adapt to the way the are, and learn how to deal with them. Its not as easy as it sounds, but its better than not trying!
Its hard but today has been my best day. I wasn't bothered or anything like that. I just loved today
I hope everyday is a good day for you!